Let's Get Real (Closed for 36b7)

[PageWriter2]

Let’s get real here. No 21-year-old hottie is going to want to wake up to a 57-year-old man next to her. I don’t care if his cock was a foot long, she may be young and naive but not desperate. Guys fill their fantasies with daddy/daughter fantasies. Fantasies of threesomes with college students, and most will jerk off to having some sweet Barbie doll blonde begging him to fuck her. It’s bullshit at its best. Not realistic, not even fantasy realistic. Want to fantasize about something just as hot and more likely to fall in your lap try looking in the direction of a real woman, a genuine one.

For me the ideal woman would be between 30 – 40. She would have more of a mom bod than that of a swimsuit model. I don’t need some anorexic toothpick that worries if she has a blemish. With age comes experience and I want a woman that knows how to please me. I love the way a woman looks when she is herself, no four hours in front of a make-up mirror, no artificial implants giving her 34GG fake tits. This would be my fantasy and real-life woman.

 

[36b7]

Well one thing's for sure, you'd never get an ad like that on Match and certainly not on Tinder and I like that he's being honest, talking the way men talk.
Ok, I get that some might see it as slightly misogynistic but we girls are just as guilty when we get together, deriding men as emotionally unintelligent and crude, beer swilling, sports obsessed oafs.
No, all in all I like it, enough to reply, and there's another thing. At 57 he should be through his mid life crisis and then there's that old adage about the perfect age match - half the man's age plus seven and at 38 I fit that perfectly. It will have given him the time to grow up and for me to still be gorgeous.
So I reply. It will be interesting to see how he replies.


Hi PageWriter, Your ad caught my eye. Tell me more. Are you single, divorced or just chancing it for something on the side? Eve x

 

[PageWriter2]

Hello Eve, and please, call me Ken. Thank you responding, I wasn't sure if I would get anyone's interest right away being as straightforward as I was. I am not a game player; I see things at face value.
I am a widower, nine years now. I'm 6' tall, 190 pounds, salt and pepper with full beard. My reasons for placing the ad are human nature. The need for companionship, someone to share time and space with. A woman to escort to dinner, dance with as long as she doesn't expect Fred Astaire, be intimate with on an honest level. I'm not looking for just a bedmate but that is an important aspect. A physical relationship at some point would be likely. Tell me Eve, why here, why now?

 

[36b7]

Well he's interesting and I'm wondering if he's tried all the usual openers on the dating sites and had no response so switched to the 'this is me' approach, 'take me or leave me'.
But I'm wondering why, like so many men, he thinks it's necessary to tell me his height and weight? I mean, I'm not about to put my vital statistics on here although hair colour and facial hair are usually in the description questionnaire on the dating site.
Thankfully there's no question about pubic hair. That's to be discovered later ... if we get that far ... and then he'll discover that I keep mine completely shaved and have done for some time, ever since a man I was dating asked me if I'd do it for him and I discovered that not only did I like it like that, but my subsequent lovers were delighted with the discovery when I eventually let them get that far but quite a few dates never got to find out.
Anyway, I'll reply and see where it leads.

Hi Ken,
Good to hear from you and thank you for being so honest about your hopes and expectations. I do like to be romanced, wined and dined and to allay your fears, I'm no Ginger Rogers although I can manage a pretty good slow smooch on the dance floor.
To answer your questions, I've never married and have no children but had two long relationships in the past so I have no baggage or ties, I was an only child, have no pets and can lock-up my apartment and go should the fancy take me.
Do you have children and other family, brother, siblings and the like?
Eve x

 

[PageWriter2]

Eve sounds like a woman that enjoys life. I wonder if she was to travel where her ideal destination would be. Mine would be on the beaches of Aruba. I wonder if she is a one-piece or bikini woman? Her description on her profile was pretty generic so leaves a lot to the imagination and was mine ever in hyperdrive. Nine years is a long time without being with a woman. It doesn't matter, I think I would like to meet her, maybe dinner. The bay cruise would be a nice start. I can't think of anyone on the east coast that doesn't like seafood. Now to word it right.

Hi Eve,
I'm glad the conversation between us has continued. I'd like to take it one step further and meet for dinner. I was thinking the Bay Queen. I love the smell of the salt air and the waters are calm this time of year. We could go dancing afterwards. Do you have insurance on your toes (LOL). My nights are free with the exception of Thursdays, I have an ongoing commitment that can't be broken.
To respond to your question, I do have adult children, two sons. They live in Florida and Texas. Like you I am an only child so other than a few cousins not much for family. Some days I miss the sounds of chaos.

Ken

 

[36b7]

Ken's reply sounds very normal and dinner on the Bay Queen followed by dancing seems about right for a first date. We should know by the end of the evening whether we want to see each other again.
It'll be interesting to see how he handles the check. I don't expect a man to pay for me and I like my financial independence. There's been far too many stories of lonely women being fleeced by predatory males who hook up with them on dating sites.
I wonder what he does on Thursdays? Perhaps he's in one of those male only organisations like the shriners or whatever they're called or perhaps he has a weekly assignation that he doesn't want to give up.
Maybe I should test that to see if it's set in concrete and also whether he thinks I'm worth rescheduling for or maybe - and this could be better - I'll opt for Friday and then I can ask him if he had a good time the evening before.
There's one immediate difference between us.
I don't like the sound of chaos.
I'm strictly an adults only hotel kind of lady and have never felt the need to ooh and ah over other women's babies who in my experience smell either of sick, pee or poo and consequently their mothers often smell the same.
Ugh!
So to Ken.

Hi Ken,
Dinner and dancing on the Bay Queen sounds wonderful and thank you for asking.
Friday evening would suit me best.
Eve x

 

[PageWriter2]

So our first date was made. I made the reservations for Friday night and opted to have my navy blue suit cleaned. It's been a long time since I've dated, I hope I didn't seem prehistoric in how I anticipated my expectations and hers.

I let the few couple of day exchange brief conversations with Eve. Sometimes a little mystery is good, keeps those curiosities alive. I know I had quite a few about her starting with her sense of humor. For me this is an important part of a person.

In our last conversation Eve proposed we meet at the marina and I agreed. I wanted her to be as comfortable as possible.

Maybe I went to far or just to blunt, a fault of mine when I asked her if she wore stockings. It wasn't meant to sound creepy, I just think a woman in stockings is very sexy.

Hi Eve, if I was rude with my question I apologize, it was said without thinking how it sounded. I do love a woman that likes showing off her legs. Such a beautiful site.

Our cruise begins at 6:30, boarding at 6:15. I'm looking forward to meeting you.

 

[36b7]

Hi Ken,
I'll see you at the dock just after 6 and that will give us a few minutes to find each other and say hello.
Looking forward to the cruise and dinner.
Eve x


So Ken's a leg man or at least a man who likes a woman in stockings. Well I can easily oblige him with that although I won't be wearing stocking. I prefer hold-ups, much easier and they avoid the need for a suspender belt which always spoils the way a dress fits around my butt.
I browse through my closet and select one of my favourites, a wrap-around with a gentle floral pattern. It's very flattering and shows my figure to great affect and the wrap-around makes sure that plenty of cleavage is on show. Add to that a pair of four inch heels and hold-ups with a seam at the back and we're almost ready to go but not until I've looked through my lingerie dresser.
This needs some thought, not that Ken will be seeing any of it, but I like to know that if he did, he'd be impressed.
It's the confidence thing.
I have a push-up bra that works well with the wrap-around and a pair of lacy but skimpy panties, couple that with light makeup, red lipstick and a spray of Chanel and even I'm impressed as I look at myself in the long mirror in my bedroom.

A quick call to Uber and I'm ready to go.

 

[PageWriter2]

I arrived a little early. I spoke with one of the servers asking which table offered the best view and slipped him a twenty to ensure we were seated there. I wanted as much going for me as possible.
Outside I waited and I watched. Then I seen a woman I knew was her.

Her dress, light and the breeze off the water trying to swoop under it. Very ladylike she prevents and unwanted viewings. She looked amazing in her floral colors and when my eyes shifted, her legs had my full attention. I was happy she wore stockings. From head to toe she was very attractive. I only hope I appealed to her just as much.

"Hello Eve. You look amazing, your profile description doesn't do you justice. We have a few minutes before boarding, let's sit and chat. (Offering her my hand) There are benches over there.

We talked but I feel there is so much more I'd like to know".

Trying hard not to stare into her cleavage but she made that difficult with the dress she wore. So inviting, so magnificent.

 

[Jasmine12345]

Dinner cruise on the Bay Queen

The woman disappeared after the waiter took them to the table that has the best view. She hasn't returned for such a long time. I wonder what happened.

Basking in the multi-colored lights of the sunset, my husband and I are at the table right next, still waiting for our waiter....