Ladies, What Is Your Preference?

Ladies, Which Are You?


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As others have stated, it really isn't about the equipment for me. It is more about personality and chemistry.
 
I am bi and love women to death, but there is nothing like a real hard cock to suck or get fucked by, and nothing like cum. Currently if i want a cock it is in a ffm situation with the guy being the hubby or bf of one of my close friends

I have to agree. I'm definitely equally attracted to men and women. As others have written here, it's more about each individual. And while I cherish the special tenderness of making love with women, sometimes I really need a man inside me. I also love sucking a man.

Right now I have one male lover who I spend most nights with and two female lovers whom I/we see on occasion. Life is good.

:)

 
I prefer men, but I am bisexual and have a valid sexual attraction to women. I don't like lesbian porn though, the majority of porn is staged, but something about girl on girl fare particularly fake and disingenuous to me. It honestly turns me off. :(

I would probably experiment with women if I wasn't currently in a monogamous relationship. Though I admit I am a bit repressed in some ways too, because I am not open about my bisexuality in real life. I would never tell my mom, who is a huge homophobe. I also was bullied in middle school because I was perceived as a lesbian, because lesbian rumors were started about me and I was always harassed for it, this was the early 2000s. I don't know if schools are any better nowadays, but was difficult for me, then later realizing later that I am actually bisexual.
 
I prefer men, but I am bisexual and have a valid sexual attraction to women. I don't like lesbian porn though, the majority of porn is staged, but something about girl on girl fare particularly fake and disingenuous to me. It honestly turns me off. :(

I would probably experiment with women if I wasn't currently in a monogamous relationship. Though I admit I am a bit repressed in some ways too, because I am not open about my bisexuality in real life. I would never tell my mom, who is a huge homophobe. I also was bullied in middle school because I was perceived as a lesbian, because lesbian rumors were started about me and I was always harassed for it, this was the early 2000s. I don't know if schools are any better nowadays, but was difficult for me, then later realizing later that I am actually bisexual.


Have you told your current lover that you are bi-sexual. Many men are okay with that.
 
I've been a lesbian my whole adult life but did sleep with a couple of men early on. Now I'm considering trying a man again and they seem to dominate my fantasies of late.
 
You make a good point but, then again, the primary point of the poll is not your preference identification but, rather, which you prefer, men or women.

Which is it?


True, so I guess I am bisexual but prefer men. :D I do lke being with another woman, but not as much as being with a man. :)
 
I've been a lesbian my whole adult life but did sleep with a couple of men early on. Now I'm considering trying a man again and they seem to dominate my fantasies of late.


That's interesting.

I've been heading in the opposite direction lately. I've known I was bisexual since college, but my desire for women has begun to really outpace that for men over the past couple of years.

 
Personally, I've been Bi since Uni, and my preferences change. To be honest I probably lean to women, as I have (had) my hubby for a lot of my ''male fantasies''. Sorry couldn't think of a better word! Obviously He can't fulfil my other side, so thats where I 'lean'. Would I say I've grown more into Women than Men as I've aged?? I don't think so, I've been (on aggregate) like this since my hubby and I got serious all those years ago!.....
 
Personally, I've been Bi since Uni, and my preferences change. To be honest I probably lean to women, as I have (had) my hubby for a lot of my ''male fantasies''. Sorry couldn't think of a better word! Obviously He can't fulfil my other side, so thats where I 'lean'. Would I say I've grown more into Women than Men as I've aged?? I don't think so, I've been (on aggregate) like this since my hubby and I got serious all those years ago!.....


You make a good point. I think I have done everything I would ever want to with and to a man. Of course, I still enjoy it but, even though my first lesbian experience was more than 30 years ago, making love with women still feels adventurous, and it seems like I'm still discovering ways to please and be pleased by women.

 

You make a good point. I think I have done everything I would ever want to with and to a man. Of course, I still enjoy it but, even though my first lesbian experience was more than 30 years ago, making love with women still feels adventurous, and it seems like I'm still discovering ways to please and be pleased by women.


I'd agree honey xx
 

You make a good point. I think I have done everything I would ever want to with and to a man. Of course, I still enjoy it but, even though my first lesbian experience was more than 30 years ago, making love with women still feels adventurous, and it seems like I'm still discovering ways to please and be pleased by women.


I indicated in your poll that "I am a bisexual woman who likes women and men equally," but now that I'm thinking about it, I realize that almost all my fantasies lately are about, and any new flames are, women.

I'm about 4 years younger than you, Josephine, and married. My husband knows I'm bi and we have an open marriage. I wonder how he'd react if I told him I was leaning increasingly lesbian.
 
have always been curious about other girls, just not had opportunity to try for real.

This is where I am also. I am very curious to be with a woman. Much more so than men. I just haven't found the opportunity either.
 
This is where I am also. I am very curious to be with a woman. Much more so than men. I just haven't found the opportunity either.

I'm here to tell you, Dear, that when that day comes, it will open a whole new wonderful world for you!
 
nothing wrong with women being together.if i had a girl who was into girls she would be able to have that freedom.as long as she is open about it and share at times
 
I am in a relationship with a biwoman, Dawn, who has a separate relationship with a lesbian, Heather. We tried living together and did so for a few years, which were for the most part harmonious. Even Heather enjoyed sex with me every now and then, mostly out of curiosity over the cock. We would have threesomes in which we all fucked each other, and others when I would fuck only Dawn, lots of fun! Things got a bit tense, more over emotional attachments than sex complications, and Heather moved out, so now she and I share Dawn, so to speak, as she alternates weekends between us. I would say that Dawn definitely identifies herself as a bisexual, and genuinely loves us both. Due to our new arrangement, she does not have to choose. And we still have the occasional threesome!
 
I am in a relationship with a biwoman, Dawn, who has a separate relationship with a lesbian, Heather. We tried living together and did so for a few years, which were for the most part harmonious. Even Heather enjoyed sex with me every now and then, mostly out of curiosity over the cock. We would have threesomes in which we all fucked each other, and others when I would fuck only Dawn, lots of fun! Things got a bit tense, more over emotional attachments than sex complications, and Heather moved out, so now she and I share Dawn, so to speak, as she alternates weekends between us. I would say that Dawn definitely identifies herself as a bisexual, and genuinely loves us both. Due to our new arrangement, she does not have to choose. And we still have the occasional threesome!

I'm currently in a polyamorous relationship, too, and none of us live together. We mostly get together in various combinations on weekends or on vacations. Not living together keeps the stress level down and makes us appreciate each other a lot more when we're together!

 
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