MadeleineP
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- Sep 9, 2014
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I'll try and keep this brief. I was sooooooooo nervous going in. She understood that and she is not like shrinks I have seen in the past where they are cold and distant, she was kind and patient and she even made a few little jokes, which really put me at ease.
I had been doing a lot of introspection leading up to this appointment and I do think a lot of my current situation has a lot to do with my problems. When Sir and I got engaged we agreed that we would have a monogamous relationship. /QUOTE]
Ugh. As a Domme - this honestly makes me want to scream. The original contract was for the two of you to be monogamous.
Second, there is an issue of weight which your Dom is not happy with.
While Dominants are to bring their subs to greatness, sometimes there are lines NOT to be crossed. Anytime I hear a Dom want to control a subs weight - it makes me want to scream. Unless you are doing this in a healthy manner where your Dom treats you to a personal trainer and nutritionist - I just do not agree. I never will.
Monogamy is what you wanted. It is a hard line. Submissives many times give in, for that is their training. However, I have learned it makes them run like hell when they finally get some psych appointments under their belt.
My psychiatrist knows I am a Dominant. Yet we have discussed everything in the last 10 years. Even Subs that are bad for me.
I do this so I may be a healthy Domme. I can tell straight away if there will be issues.
If you want to get to the root of the issues - you need to be bold and discuss the reasons "why" your Dom wants you to see a shrink. Shrinks can't cure everything and sometimes there is nothing to be cured. You are beautiful the way you are and your Dom needs to accept that.