Shanes_OralOrations
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My favorite sexual activity is filming a hot blowjob from my wife, and finishing with a big load on her face. See the post in my signature for more details and how we got there in our relationship. My favorite porn past-time is re-watching, editing and mashing up those videos. I'd like to start a thread specifically where guys who are able to regularly enjoy the same activity with their women can share notes, ideas and discuss. Ladies who regularly participate are of course welcome to chime in! I'm fully hetero, so that's what I'm looking to hear about, but advice is advice from those who know.
Share what you'd like, but I have a few specific topics and questions to suggest for discussion.
1- If your partner is not as excited by it as you are, how do you get her to participate more often?
For us, the answer is long, and the subject of a previous post, but it comes down to having a great relationship, being clear about what I enjoy most, and being sure I reciprocate to often do the things she enjoys most (both in and out of the bedroom). While I'd love to spray her weekly, she's not into doing it that much. But we've managed to be semi-regular with it, and racked up hundreds of facials for her over the years, and I've managed to film many of them.
2- How do you prep to maximize your cumshot if you know a BJ is coming up?
I avoid cumming for at least 3 days, while intensely edging several times a day. Lots of water helps the volume, fruit juice for taste, and eating a bunch of celery I swear makes it a more creamy white.
3- How do you keep the experience fresh and exciting after many times?
Not that I'd ever tire of it, but we're in the habit of mixing something up with each blowjob. One is location. We ALWAYS film one if we're on vacation or in a hotel, we film in different rooms of the house, and even a bit outdoors if we can manage it. The other is dress-up. My wife usually wears a sexy outfit and does something fun and sexy with her hair and makeup. Filming a BJ is of course a heavily visual experience, so dressing it up is one of the funnest parts. Costumes, various lingerie, half on/half off street clothes, sexy shoes- we've done all sorts of things.
4- How do you film it?
Again for me, variety is key. We don't have any blowjobs that are filmed in one position with one fixed camera angle. I have a tripod for the video camera, so will often set it up for a side view, sometimes picking it up for a POV view. We pause often to take photos of her doing different things to my cock with her lips, mouth, tongue, hands and tits. Recently I'll use the tripod and a handheld phone to film most things from 2 angles at the same time. We vary positions in the room and BJ positions as well. Most of our BJs have 5 or 6 position changes (with camera changes of course) as we progress through. Played with the go-pro a bit too as a second wider angle camera.
5- What are your go to BJ positions?
I mean we've tried every position we can hold ourselves up in at this point, but most BJs for us have the same handful of positions we cycle through. I stand, she kneels on the floor or bed in classic porn fashion - and you just can't beat the visual appeal of that one IMO. I sit in a chair, she kneels in front of me. I lay on the bed and she lays beside or in front of me. I absolutely love it when she's laying on her stomach between my legs, working my cock and then kicks her feet up in air- swells my cock every time. I find I often need to hold the camera up high over my head and back to capture the full visual effect of that one- getting cock, face and feet all in one shot. We 69 sometimes, but usually with me on top, and I find that position more awkward to film well. Other go to is me standing by the bed, while she's on the bed on her hands (or elbows) and knees. She really gets aggressive in that position, slamming her head into my stomach as she bobs. It looks great filming from the side, and the POV inevitably pans up to film her ass swaying up in the air.
Every BJ also includes some tit fucking, with her looking up hotly at me as she bounces up and down, squeezing her tits around my shaft. Again a good camera lift here catches a great view. Other positions include her on her back. I'll stand by the bed and she turns her head so I can fuck her mouth. Great cheek stretching views with that one! We do her head lying off the back while I pump into her mouth from above too. She can't hold this one for too long, and I find it the most challenging position to film without a cameraman. Hard to get a great view of her face (which is the focus of all my filming). Sometimes she holds the camera for that one. I'll also straddle her chest at times and pump in her mouth, but we don't do this one as often. I think I enjoy the "active woman" positions a bit more.
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Share what you'd like, but I have a few specific topics and questions to suggest for discussion.
1- If your partner is not as excited by it as you are, how do you get her to participate more often?
For us, the answer is long, and the subject of a previous post, but it comes down to having a great relationship, being clear about what I enjoy most, and being sure I reciprocate to often do the things she enjoys most (both in and out of the bedroom). While I'd love to spray her weekly, she's not into doing it that much. But we've managed to be semi-regular with it, and racked up hundreds of facials for her over the years, and I've managed to film many of them.
2- How do you prep to maximize your cumshot if you know a BJ is coming up?
I avoid cumming for at least 3 days, while intensely edging several times a day. Lots of water helps the volume, fruit juice for taste, and eating a bunch of celery I swear makes it a more creamy white.
3- How do you keep the experience fresh and exciting after many times?
Not that I'd ever tire of it, but we're in the habit of mixing something up with each blowjob. One is location. We ALWAYS film one if we're on vacation or in a hotel, we film in different rooms of the house, and even a bit outdoors if we can manage it. The other is dress-up. My wife usually wears a sexy outfit and does something fun and sexy with her hair and makeup. Filming a BJ is of course a heavily visual experience, so dressing it up is one of the funnest parts. Costumes, various lingerie, half on/half off street clothes, sexy shoes- we've done all sorts of things.
4- How do you film it?
Again for me, variety is key. We don't have any blowjobs that are filmed in one position with one fixed camera angle. I have a tripod for the video camera, so will often set it up for a side view, sometimes picking it up for a POV view. We pause often to take photos of her doing different things to my cock with her lips, mouth, tongue, hands and tits. Recently I'll use the tripod and a handheld phone to film most things from 2 angles at the same time. We vary positions in the room and BJ positions as well. Most of our BJs have 5 or 6 position changes (with camera changes of course) as we progress through. Played with the go-pro a bit too as a second wider angle camera.
5- What are your go to BJ positions?
I mean we've tried every position we can hold ourselves up in at this point, but most BJs for us have the same handful of positions we cycle through. I stand, she kneels on the floor or bed in classic porn fashion - and you just can't beat the visual appeal of that one IMO. I sit in a chair, she kneels in front of me. I lay on the bed and she lays beside or in front of me. I absolutely love it when she's laying on her stomach between my legs, working my cock and then kicks her feet up in air- swells my cock every time. I find I often need to hold the camera up high over my head and back to capture the full visual effect of that one- getting cock, face and feet all in one shot. We 69 sometimes, but usually with me on top, and I find that position more awkward to film well. Other go to is me standing by the bed, while she's on the bed on her hands (or elbows) and knees. She really gets aggressive in that position, slamming her head into my stomach as she bobs. It looks great filming from the side, and the POV inevitably pans up to film her ass swaying up in the air.
Every BJ also includes some tit fucking, with her looking up hotly at me as she bounces up and down, squeezing her tits around my shaft. Again a good camera lift here catches a great view. Other positions include her on her back. I'll stand by the bed and she turns her head so I can fuck her mouth. Great cheek stretching views with that one! We do her head lying off the back while I pump into her mouth from above too. She can't hold this one for too long, and I find it the most challenging position to film without a cameraman. Hard to get a great view of her face (which is the focus of all my filming). Sometimes she holds the camera for that one. I'll also straddle her chest at times and pump in her mouth, but we don't do this one as often. I think I enjoy the "active woman" positions a bit more.
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