ChopadusAzarius
Virgin
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- May 18, 2015
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Hi all!
I have an interesting question for you may be able to help me with.
My girlfriend (soon to be fiance, hopefully) is a virgin and has expressed her desire to wait until marriage for sex, which I'm more than OK with, because frankly she's worth it. However I've just found out that she's never actually brought herself to orgasm, because she finds the process too overwhelming and she's a little shy about it.
We've talked about it a fair bit, and I've noted quite a few times that the experts on sex talk about women needing to learn how to get themselves off before they can really experience it properly with a partner, so they know what works for them and what doesn't.. So the fact that she has absolutely no idea has me concerned that.. it might become a stressful issue for her when we get to that night.
I'm a little out of my depth and don't really know where to turn to about it. I don't want to pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do, I just want to be able to help any way that I can.
Any suggestions on the matter?
I have an interesting question for you may be able to help me with.
My girlfriend (soon to be fiance, hopefully) is a virgin and has expressed her desire to wait until marriage for sex, which I'm more than OK with, because frankly she's worth it. However I've just found out that she's never actually brought herself to orgasm, because she finds the process too overwhelming and she's a little shy about it.
We've talked about it a fair bit, and I've noted quite a few times that the experts on sex talk about women needing to learn how to get themselves off before they can really experience it properly with a partner, so they know what works for them and what doesn't.. So the fact that she has absolutely no idea has me concerned that.. it might become a stressful issue for her when we get to that night.
I'm a little out of my depth and don't really know where to turn to about it. I don't want to pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do, I just want to be able to help any way that I can.
Any suggestions on the matter?