One of my multiple kinks is CD'ing and a fantasy I've had for many years is finding another guy that is into CD'ing but who is also a submissive, voyeur.
Let me explain my kink first and maybe some could help me to understand why I will never accomplish this.
I'm not bi, I'm not wanting to try bi, have zero interest in trying to be intimate with another man but would love to have a friend I can enjoy this kinky side with on other levels.
I would like to correspond, sharing a little about our lives, the things we're doing including indulging in our naughty pastimes. Hopefully, we would have other things in common so could become friends, go off doing things and of course finding ways to include our little fetishes.
If we ever got to dress together, I would want to enjoy the experience of doing this with someone else that totally understands it and where our fun would at most be jerking off to porn, pictures, fantasies but not getting intimate.
I would have fun sharing my sexy wife's panties now and then, to get that reaction or to hear how he might have enjoyed jerking off while wearing her panties.
Can my fantasy be considered BDSM?
I can be a bit of an alpha male, like doing things my way. I certainly welcome input and ideas but I might still want to do things my way. It would also be fun to tell my friend to wear panties and something else underneath while we are out having drinks etc.
Now that you know my fantasy, why is this something I've never been able to achieve? I've advertised on at least a dozen different personals sites but always get guys that say they are ok with my not wanting to be intimate but it's always BS, it's absolutely what they want and thought I could be talked into it in the heat of the moment or something.
If there is any site out there that could provide some kind of understanding of why I will never accomplish this, it's got to be this one.
Let me explain my kink first and maybe some could help me to understand why I will never accomplish this.
I'm not bi, I'm not wanting to try bi, have zero interest in trying to be intimate with another man but would love to have a friend I can enjoy this kinky side with on other levels.
I would like to correspond, sharing a little about our lives, the things we're doing including indulging in our naughty pastimes. Hopefully, we would have other things in common so could become friends, go off doing things and of course finding ways to include our little fetishes.
If we ever got to dress together, I would want to enjoy the experience of doing this with someone else that totally understands it and where our fun would at most be jerking off to porn, pictures, fantasies but not getting intimate.
I would have fun sharing my sexy wife's panties now and then, to get that reaction or to hear how he might have enjoyed jerking off while wearing her panties.
Can my fantasy be considered BDSM?
I can be a bit of an alpha male, like doing things my way. I certainly welcome input and ideas but I might still want to do things my way. It would also be fun to tell my friend to wear panties and something else underneath while we are out having drinks etc.
Now that you know my fantasy, why is this something I've never been able to achieve? I've advertised on at least a dozen different personals sites but always get guys that say they are ok with my not wanting to be intimate but it's always BS, it's absolutely what they want and thought I could be talked into it in the heat of the moment or something.
If there is any site out there that could provide some kind of understanding of why I will never accomplish this, it's got to be this one.
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