Ok...hi. I'm Nick. (Kcin=Nick..lol) Im just looking for some clarification, advice, guidance, etc on what I'm just finding out about myself and am discovering with my new gf.
I'll try to make the as short as possible, but I'd like to lay all my cards on the table. I'm 41, tall, have always been told I'm a good lookin guy aND haven't ever had problems gainin female attention. During sex, ice always had this...power trip thing that gets me off. Like I'm 6-3, 250 (on a good day lol), and have always loved and gravitared toward petite smaller women..preferably brunette..lol. Like alot of people that ive come in contact with, I'm opposite in bed than in public. I'm a real go with the flow kinda dude, loves being with a woman that when she enters a room, people's head turn..a magnetic woman that can captivate a room..very sexy. In bed however, this other side comes out and I'm very in control, very take charge..not overly aggressuve, but somewhat. But also, I prefer giving oral to recieving (why do people find this so odd), and my partners pleasure is paramount. But I liike to be in control of what's happening, how it proceeds, and it's SUCH a power trip to be a large guy towering over, looking down at some little petite thing as my..large...look, this is new to me so let's just end there. You get the idea...
So, recently, afer going through a 10 year marriage and divorce (I've never cheated on nor hit a woman..things went sour in the bedroom..go figure), I met Kris...or Krissy as I've come to call her. She is younger than me, considerably..21. But, I've always been immature growing up sheltered ..she has been through some rough times as is mature for her age, so I guess it works out.
We've know each other for about a month and a half. One day a couple of weeks ago, I for some reason brought up the fact that being called daddy would be hot (I had gravitated just recently to daddy daugher porn) and she was totally into it. In the last few weeks..just a few weeks...we have gone from that to texts like 'a good girls purpose is the obey and serve' and 'you're daddy's little princess...say it' and 'I know what you want, but I'll decide when you get it (ok..I stole thar one..not a nick original lol)' and she is completely into it..completely. Excuse my language, but IT'S FUCKIN AWESOME. Lol
So, thus brings me to my question and I have a few. I like the power trip control thing...but I also feel protective of her, want to take care of her. She, I think, down the road, would get off on if I put her in the cornet eating from a dog bowl. Not saying I have a problem with that, but...i dunno. I'm just trying to figure this thing out. How do you balance..or I dunno...figure out where to go with this? And also, is there a time when 'playtime' stops or is put to the side? Like today, she texted that work was shit and her day sucked. So, takino all the balls I had, I texted her the little princess thing and the I'll decide when you get it comment. As I sat there holding my breath wondering if I was about to get cussed out, she replied 'You dick I'm at work uuuggghhh'. I texted her somethin about shes a good girl and shes earned a treat, extra mouth love on her..f-hole...if I'm going to far here, I apologize. But she texted bsck 'omg f..ommmmgggg'.. she was totally into it! How great is that shit! Lmao...anyway..I'm just looking for some advice, pointers, how to conduct myself, anything. After 41 years, thus is very new and quite possibly the most sexual, enticing thing I've ever been involved in. If you took the time to read all this, thanks. And thanks for any help.
Nick
I'll try to make the as short as possible, but I'd like to lay all my cards on the table. I'm 41, tall, have always been told I'm a good lookin guy aND haven't ever had problems gainin female attention. During sex, ice always had this...power trip thing that gets me off. Like I'm 6-3, 250 (on a good day lol), and have always loved and gravitared toward petite smaller women..preferably brunette..lol. Like alot of people that ive come in contact with, I'm opposite in bed than in public. I'm a real go with the flow kinda dude, loves being with a woman that when she enters a room, people's head turn..a magnetic woman that can captivate a room..very sexy. In bed however, this other side comes out and I'm very in control, very take charge..not overly aggressuve, but somewhat. But also, I prefer giving oral to recieving (why do people find this so odd), and my partners pleasure is paramount. But I liike to be in control of what's happening, how it proceeds, and it's SUCH a power trip to be a large guy towering over, looking down at some little petite thing as my..large...look, this is new to me so let's just end there. You get the idea...
So, recently, afer going through a 10 year marriage and divorce (I've never cheated on nor hit a woman..things went sour in the bedroom..go figure), I met Kris...or Krissy as I've come to call her. She is younger than me, considerably..21. But, I've always been immature growing up sheltered ..she has been through some rough times as is mature for her age, so I guess it works out.
We've know each other for about a month and a half. One day a couple of weeks ago, I for some reason brought up the fact that being called daddy would be hot (I had gravitated just recently to daddy daugher porn) and she was totally into it. In the last few weeks..just a few weeks...we have gone from that to texts like 'a good girls purpose is the obey and serve' and 'you're daddy's little princess...say it' and 'I know what you want, but I'll decide when you get it (ok..I stole thar one..not a nick original lol)' and she is completely into it..completely. Excuse my language, but IT'S FUCKIN AWESOME. Lol
So, thus brings me to my question and I have a few. I like the power trip control thing...but I also feel protective of her, want to take care of her. She, I think, down the road, would get off on if I put her in the cornet eating from a dog bowl. Not saying I have a problem with that, but...i dunno. I'm just trying to figure this thing out. How do you balance..or I dunno...figure out where to go with this? And also, is there a time when 'playtime' stops or is put to the side? Like today, she texted that work was shit and her day sucked. So, takino all the balls I had, I texted her the little princess thing and the I'll decide when you get it comment. As I sat there holding my breath wondering if I was about to get cussed out, she replied 'You dick I'm at work uuuggghhh'. I texted her somethin about shes a good girl and shes earned a treat, extra mouth love on her..f-hole...if I'm going to far here, I apologize. But she texted bsck 'omg f..ommmmgggg'.. she was totally into it! How great is that shit! Lmao...anyway..I'm just looking for some advice, pointers, how to conduct myself, anything. After 41 years, thus is very new and quite possibly the most sexual, enticing thing I've ever been involved in. If you took the time to read all this, thanks. And thanks for any help.
Nick
