So i have a question.
A few months ago... i talked to my wife about funding a "friend" to join usfor some fun. She was non interested until i kept pushing. Then she admitted she had been invited to have an affair with a former coworker. She refused, and continued to talk to him as friends as she told me.
Side note, i travel alot for work, so i have alot of time on my hands.
Anyways, after talking back and forth about him joining us, we decided it was best to not invite him. With all the time i have on my hands for being overseas for work... i look at her phone texting from the previous months....i come to find out she had been texting him (i had a friend call and confirm his number) for months leading up to her telling me she had been approached. She also continued to text him after. So i asked her about him, she got super defensive, and basically threatened divorce since i didnt believe her and respected her enough to not bring him up.
My question really is... should i pursue the truth as to what happened? Or should i just assume? What are your thoughts on what happened?
A few months ago... i talked to my wife about funding a "friend" to join usfor some fun. She was non interested until i kept pushing. Then she admitted she had been invited to have an affair with a former coworker. She refused, and continued to talk to him as friends as she told me.
Side note, i travel alot for work, so i have alot of time on my hands.
Anyways, after talking back and forth about him joining us, we decided it was best to not invite him. With all the time i have on my hands for being overseas for work... i look at her phone texting from the previous months....i come to find out she had been texting him (i had a friend call and confirm his number) for months leading up to her telling me she had been approached. She also continued to text him after. So i asked her about him, she got super defensive, and basically threatened divorce since i didnt believe her and respected her enough to not bring him up.
My question really is... should i pursue the truth as to what happened? Or should i just assume? What are your thoughts on what happened?