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How do bi-curious closeted men make themselves approachable

There's a new checker a my grocery store, a hot silver daddy. No ring. I showed myself hard to him today, standing back so he could see what he was doing to me. Don't know if he noticed, but it was exciting to take the risk. I'll be making lots of eye contact and chatting him up in the coming weeks.
 
I work at a big box hardware store. Yesterday, a handsome, older customer seems to be going out of his way to spend time with me. Shakes my hand several times, touches my shoulders...I'm fairly sure he did a slow wink. So I gave him my personal e-mail in case he "ever needed to get in touch with me."

He hasn't written, yet, but I've been hard and dripping thinking that he will.
 
I remember being on the muni thing in SF sitting opposite a young latino guy with the door between us. He seemed to have a well filled trouser and I started to stiffen, he got bigger, we both smiled. I regret I got off before his stop, and anyway I was vastly too old for him so he might have wanted money, but the mental connection was fun.
 
create an account on an app or site Like Squirt dot Org... the rest is up to you. When I was in college (late 87 - 91) there were signals...or something you had in your front or back pocket like a red or blue bandana
Today...just click or find the local Gay bar...and you'll be filled up soon
 
I use Squirt and Silverdaddies. I'm just also excited to try to meet someone in the wild.

klippert said:
create an account on an app or site Like Squirt dot Org... the rest is up to you. When I was in college (late 87 - 91) there were signals...or something you had in your front or back pocket like a red or blue bandana
Today...just click or find the local Gay bar...and you'll be filled up soon
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klippert said:
create an account on an app or site Like Squirt dot Org... the rest is up to you. When I was in college (late 87 - 91) there were signals...or something you had in your front or back pocket like a red or blue bandana
Today...just click or find the local Gay bar...and you'll be filled up soon
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I just wish there was a way that you could do that again. Signal to other bi guys, ( bracelet, necklace or something) I am married (39) years and I like cock and the wife don't know
 
1960curious said:
I just wish there was a way that you could do that again. Signal to other bi guys, ( bracelet, necklace or something) I am married (39) years and I like cock and the wife don't know
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Local sex shop had a a package of hankerchiefs and a booklet that explained the signals...but those are pretty much extinct now.

In reality it's never been easier than it is right now. Just load up sniffies.com or some other app and you can connect with someone in minutes. All it takes is for you to be serious about the desire.
 
TallOne said:
Local sex shop had a a package of hankerchiefs and a booklet that explained the signals...but those are pretty much extinct now.

In reality it's never been easier than it is right now. Just load up sniffies.com or some other app and you can connect with someone in minutes. All it takes is for you to be serious about the desire.
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Regarding Sniffies, you do have to wade through some noise but you can certainly can find a wide range of opportunities on there… particularly if you can host…
 
starfish71 said:
Regarding Sniffies, you do have to wade through some noise but you can certainly can find a wide range of opportunities on there… particularly if you can host…
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That's the thing. Between Silverdaddies and Squirt, it seems like there are at least 200 bi guys within 5 miles of me. None of us can host!
 
Same question

I have often wondered the same thing as far as signaling other men. There used to be a silver daddy at the YMCA that I suspected was gay, and since we showered at the same time, I had ample opportunities to see him nude. I can’t remember a time I wanted to drop the soap so much! Anyway, I was telling him about my marriage issues, and he just looked at me, and said, “maybe it’s time for you to make a change.” I took it as advice, but I remember just hesitating as I wondered if there was another meaning to what he had just said.
 
The anonymity of on line chatting is probably the best way to get noticed, out in real life would seem to have plenty ways of things going wrong.
 
1960curious said:
I just wish there was a way that you could do that again. Signal to other bi guys, ( bracelet, necklace or something) I am married (39) years and I like cock and the wife don't know
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That was my point of signing up to a site...its doesn't have to be a cursing site. just a chat or forum site that is up on the latest trends
 
Samsacks said:
That's the thing. Between Silverdaddies and Squirt, it seems like there are at least 200 bi guys within 5 miles of me. None of us can host!
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...and you can't host?? their in-lie the issue. You have to meet and discuss where you can pleasure each other. that is the big key. Meeting somewhere neutral. have a coffee or a beer.
 
Clearwing said:
Yeah a little advice would be good with this regard

But I’d like to find somebody who would let me suck their cock on a regular basis
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I hear you, and actually I don't suck so I guess this is not an similar situation, but you know almost the best thing for me is wondering if something will happen. Sitting in your car in a gathering place, discrete but obviously showing one is there for a reason is just such a turn on. Sometimes one is lucky, sometimes there's a feel or a show, sometimes more, but for me the anticipation really adds to an event, and when most of the time nothing happens, well that's just life.

Also, unlike you, I rather like the fact that all the cocks are different, it's rare that I wish I could find someone again.

Online porn sites, now everything seems to be anal and right to it. Back in the day a movie about understall action would probably start with toe tapping or a shadow wank, the anticipation definitely stiffens the friend in your hand, and is just more fun than going straight to it.

Is it just me?
 
Musket2 said:
<snip>Online porn sites, now everything seems to be anal and right to it. Back in the day a movie about understall action would probably start with toe tapping or a shadow wank, the anticipation definitely stiffens the friend in your hand, and is just more fun than going straight to it.

Is it just me?
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No it’s not just you. I miss those days too.
 
Shallow or just bad acting?

CuriousGuyVa said:
Seems all porn these days are shallow
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Perhaps it’s because I’m older (58), but I enjoy vintage porn (70s and 80s) since it seemed there was more build up, and sometimes humor involved. I’m not saying I don’t enjoy current porn, but certainly nowhere near as much as vintage. Sometimes, the acting can be so bad, you just want the actors to start so they can shut up.
Other times, it’s as if I’m saying “That’s ALL the build up?”
 
GentlemanJedi63 said:
Perhaps it’s because I’m older (58), but I enjoy vintage porn (70s and 80s) since it seemed there was more build up, and sometimes humor involved. I’m not saying I don’t enjoy current porn, but certainly nowhere near as much as vintage. Sometimes, the acting can be so bad, you just want the actors to start so they can shut up.
Other times, it’s as if I’m saying “That’s ALL the build up?”
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I agree, today is more wham bam thank you maam (or man!). Used to be porn had plots. Bad plots, but plots. More buildup.
My wife and I've just gotten back into watching porn together. All pretty much 20 minute clips of fucking. Give me the vintage stuff anytime.
 
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