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I wish I could express how much I want to be the one you are looking for and need as much as I need you.
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I donāt know jhenry, I think you inadvertently helped me reach an epiphany because being submissive for me is all about a woman walking all over me. I want her to take control over any part of my life she chooses knowing that I have completely surrendered myself to her.I think a lot of it has to do with women not understanding that "submissive" does not mean "letting one walk all over you".
Where have all the beautifully real submissive men gone? The ones who want to know the woman there kneeing in front of? Who crave the connection you can build?
I took a break for some personal reasons. Ive been back a day and the messages are just sad. "Im yours to hurt" "how can i serve you" " im submissive" What happened to actually getting to know someone? Respect and dignity? What you put forth is what you recieve. I feel like there arent any truly submissive men. Simply horny men or sad little boys.
Its hard to have a romantic heart in a hookup world....
So perhaps, with an abundance of respect to you MsBrittany, this might explain why you might find it so hard to find a real submissive man. There are a multitude of definitions of what that might look like.
Hi Beatrix_B,I totally agree with you, Lickewell, which is why I left a comment on one of your threads (Female Dommes ) and voiced this exact sentiment as pertains to your search for femdoms who are "100% dominant."
Humans are complex. It's unrealistic to expect everyone to be the same or that anyone must be "all or nothing" to identify with any given trait or characteristic.
Happy to see that you realize that.
I am a 23 year old guy. I want to develop a relationship of trust and lust that grows into a lifetime of happiness. I consider myself a normal guy, normal sex is good. However when I read stories about women taking over in sexual acts my heart skips a beat. When I read these stories of a woman claiming her man in a way that makes him feel wanted... No, that makes him feel needed.. I feel a since of longing. Am I submissive? Can't say for sure. Some of the darker side of it all scares me. That's why I need that trust to be developed. That's why I am here. Where is my minxy little wife to be? The woman that will fulfill my heart's secret desires? Or will I eventually settle for an average relationship? Who knows... I live in the Montgomery/Mobile Alabama area. Just saying ladies I'm hopeful.
When you find a partner ask her what she likes and tell her what you would like. You'll never get what you want if you dont ask. Younger people especially fail at this, simply not communicating what you're into or being truthful. Whatever it is your looking for in the physical part of the relationship, there is a girl out there for you, trust me.
In short, just ask or simply tell her what you want, its the quickest way to find out if you're compatible..
Hope this helps.
Hi Beatrix_B,
Yep I do recognize that. I agree with you that no Domme can be 100% Dominant. It would likely be very tiring to control everything.
But maybe 100% Dominant can be interpreted differently. To me 100% Dominant means thatās the Domme can give or take whatever she chooses but can leave a sub to control whatever is of no interest to her. The Domme doesnāt control every aspect of a subās life, but rather whatever she wants. Meanwhile, the sub appreciates the freedoms given but should have little control of what the Domme demands.
But thatās my view...... and if thereās one thing I have learned is that in the world of kink, there are as many perspectives as there are kinksters!!
I totally agree with you, Lickewell, which is why I left a comment on one of your threads (Female Dommes ) and voiced this exact sentiment as pertains to your search for femdoms who are "100% dominant."
Humans are complex. It's unrealistic to expect everyone to be the same or that anyone must be "all or nothing" to identify with any given trait or characteristic.
Happy to see that you realize that.
Totally agree with this. Would have to be absolutely tiresome to be 100% dominant all the time...unless you just thrive on that sort of control. Then I could see it.
Me, I'm not into being 100% submissive all the time, but I am into being 100% submissive in the bedroom all the time.[/QUOTE
. I also agree with you. With 52 in my second marriage. I told my beloved wife that I am submissive and want her to take charge in our sex life. That I would like to wear a cock cage and give her the keys to keep me chaste. My wife never had heard of male chastity nor never seen a cock cage. But she thought about my wish and gave it a chance.
We made an agreement for a six months test After this half year, we decided to make my chastity a part of our life.
It was successful and is still working. It has developed. I am now caged 24/7since the last three years and five months. Orgasmns are very seldom for me, but wife gets oral service nearly every day. We go to nudist beaches, me caged of course. That supports my exhibitionistic tendencies and sometimes we meet ineteresting people. I get a rough spanking every saturday and her best female friend is involved.
This is only in our erotic life. In every other parts of our life we are equal. And of course my wife always is my princess.
We both are very happy
. I also agree with you. With 52 in my second marriage. I told my beloved wife that I am submissive and want her to take charge in our sex life. That I would like to wear a cock cage and give her the keys to keep me chaste. My wife never had heard of male chastity nor never seen a cock cage. But she thought about my wish and gave it a chance.
We made an agreement for a six months test After this half year, we decided to make my chastity a part of our life.
It was successful and is still working. It has developed. I am now caged 24/7since the last three years and five months. Orgasmns are very seldom for me, but wife gets oral service nearly every day. We go to nudist beaches, me caged of course. That supports my exhibitionistic tendencies and sometimes we meet ineteresting people. I get a rough spanking every saturday and her best female friend is involved.
This is only in our erotic life. In every other parts of our life we are equal. And of course my wife always is my princess.
We both are very happy