Introvert wanting to break out of shell

IvyakaIvelisse said:

Hi, all. I’m a very sexually frustrated, introvert, 34yr female, single mother and bbw. I crave to have a companion but my life is quite boring to find somebody. I work and just go home. I can’t remember the last time I really went out and had fun. I haven’t had sex in 3 years. I watch porn and masterbate but I never tried toys. I’ve been doing it for 13 years now. I feel if I try toys I won’t enjoy the pleasure of a man as much because if it’s not to the expectation of a toy I’ll be disappointed. I love this website because the moan of men is a huge turn on for me. I’m tired of being alone, masterbating and wanting more and most important being an introvert. It took me forever just to write in here after wanting for a while. I need help? What can I do to break the cycle? I’ve never dated randomly and don’t really online date.

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IvyakaIvelisse said:

Hi, all. I’m a very sexually frustrated, introvert, 34yr female, single mother and bbw. I crave to have a companion but my life is quite boring to find somebody. I work and just go home. I can’t remember the last time I really went out and had fun. I haven’t had sex in 3 years. I watch porn and masterbate but I never tried toys. I’ve been doing it for 13 years now. I feel if I try toys I won’t enjoy the pleasure of a man as much because if it’s not to the expectation of a toy I’ll be disappointed. I love this website because the moan of men is a huge turn on for me. I’m tired of being alone, masterbating and wanting more and most important being an introvert. It took me forever just to write in here after wanting for a while. I need help? What can I do to break the cycle? I’ve never dated randomly and don’t really online date.

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Jada59 said:

Toys and men are not the same. Neither are the orgasms they produce. If you want to find a man, work on self love. You won't have to look. They'll find you. If you want to use the toys, go for it. Also, men like to watch you use your toys and might even want to use them on you!

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IvyakaIvelisse said:

Thanks Jada59 for the advice!

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