Primalex, that is a good point about the coworker thing, and it's something I had considered. I mentioned in my original post that it had the potential to become very awkward because of that. Our workplace isn't typical; there are only 5 employees, three of whom are me, this guy, and my husband. (The other two are hubby's father and uncle.) I don't think blackmail would happen; I can't really conceive of a situation where it might, though I'm sure other people might have had that type of experience.
I'm not sure I understand how one could be a Dom (or a sub) to someone they don't like... For me, at least, some form of emotional connection, at the very least being friendly acquaintances, would be necessary for the level of trust required.
I'm not sure I understand how one could be a Dom (or a sub) to someone they don't like... For me, at least, some form of emotional connection, at the very least being friendly acquaintances, would be necessary for the level of trust required.