Random Suggestions
Mr. G(GG) made mention of having weak PCG muscles might make it harder to get off on G-spot stimulation. If you think this might be a concern, look up cegels (I'm pretty sure I'm spelling it right) to strengthen them up. I'm hardly an expert, but it's a simply hold and release exersize that you can do anywhere and it reportedly increases the intensity of orgasm. Intriguing on it's own, yes?
Next up...
My favorite book in the world, "The Guide to Getting it On" (Third edition, goofy foot press, Saline, Michigan) has this (among other thigns) to say about the G-spot.
The biggest problem with exploring for a g-spot area isn't whether you have one, but what your expectaions are. If you are exploring just to explore, this is a fine thing. If you are exploring because you think you should have something that you don't, then you are sadly misleading yourself (p.98)
(This is back to me again) Remember, much much much of sex is mental. If you're going out there (or in there) with the intent to find 'the thing' and you don't find 'the thing' then it's a let down. No one likes that.
Try this: Instead of going 'for the g-spot' go for pleasure. Take some time to enjoy your partner, don't start out with the intention of finding the g-spot, start out with the intention of having a wonderful evening. Touch, whisper, lick, whatever. When you find your girl on her stomach and your thumb inside of her, explore around. Don't try exclusively to find the g-spot, try to stimulate your parnter. Even if you don't find the elusive bundle of nerves, then you still have a thumb inside her pussy, go wild. Make her moan without the aid of some magical spot. Her ass and pussy are right there. Use your immagination.
Also, my book of sexual happiness says that the g-spot is often '*close to* a patch of vaginal tissue that might feel rough.' (my emphasis). So if you can find some ridges, try looking around a little bit more. Explore. And if all else fails, go for what you know feels good anyway.
One last quote. Read well:
"As for the feelings that accompany G-spot stimulation, some women enjoy them tremendously while others couldn't care less and some even find them to be obnoxious. Also keep in mind that sexual satisfaction is part of a much larger process. How you treat each other when you aren't having sex will probably impact your level of satisfaction far more than simply romancing a woman's G-spot."
Here, Here.
-I
Mr. G(GG) made mention of having weak PCG muscles might make it harder to get off on G-spot stimulation. If you think this might be a concern, look up cegels (I'm pretty sure I'm spelling it right) to strengthen them up. I'm hardly an expert, but it's a simply hold and release exersize that you can do anywhere and it reportedly increases the intensity of orgasm. Intriguing on it's own, yes?
Next up...
I hope you don't mind being made an example of here, Sex and Diamonds, but perhaps this will help.Okay, I tried this.
It didn't work
Just my luck, don't know why I'm surprised.
My favorite book in the world, "The Guide to Getting it On" (Third edition, goofy foot press, Saline, Michigan) has this (among other thigns) to say about the G-spot.
The biggest problem with exploring for a g-spot area isn't whether you have one, but what your expectaions are. If you are exploring just to explore, this is a fine thing. If you are exploring because you think you should have something that you don't, then you are sadly misleading yourself (p.98)
(This is back to me again) Remember, much much much of sex is mental. If you're going out there (or in there) with the intent to find 'the thing' and you don't find 'the thing' then it's a let down. No one likes that.
Try this: Instead of going 'for the g-spot' go for pleasure. Take some time to enjoy your partner, don't start out with the intention of finding the g-spot, start out with the intention of having a wonderful evening. Touch, whisper, lick, whatever. When you find your girl on her stomach and your thumb inside of her, explore around. Don't try exclusively to find the g-spot, try to stimulate your parnter. Even if you don't find the elusive bundle of nerves, then you still have a thumb inside her pussy, go wild. Make her moan without the aid of some magical spot. Her ass and pussy are right there. Use your immagination.
Also, my book of sexual happiness says that the g-spot is often '*close to* a patch of vaginal tissue that might feel rough.' (my emphasis). So if you can find some ridges, try looking around a little bit more. Explore. And if all else fails, go for what you know feels good anyway.
One last quote. Read well:
"As for the feelings that accompany G-spot stimulation, some women enjoy them tremendously while others couldn't care less and some even find them to be obnoxious. Also keep in mind that sexual satisfaction is part of a much larger process. How you treat each other when you aren't having sex will probably impact your level of satisfaction far more than simply romancing a woman's G-spot."
Here, Here.
-I