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IHIW being "nice" means finishing out of the race. Maybe I just need to be a dickhead or a tortured artist or something. But then a "faux me" goes against my nature, and makes me pissed at myself for not just being "me", so I guess I'll just settle for being "nice".

IHIW I think too much.

(I got a two-fer in one post. Yay me.)
 
PervyRomantic said:
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Bottom line, as I read your initial post and the subsequent back and forth bickering between you and others I have to wonder...at what point does this all become a waste of YOUR time?
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Answer: Never. I only cruise through here when I have nothing better to do, so it's not like I'm missing out on doing something important.

This is why I have less than one post per day after seven years on Lit and some other people have over 20,000 posts in a few months. (I'm exaggerating, but I do see some post counts that are so high I can only believe they are on Lit 25 hours a day.)
 
I wish men would stop complaining about how being nice gets them nowhere. Being self depreciating gets them nowhere.

I know plenty of nice guys who have had their share of chicks (my husband included) - they just have a little confidence and perseverance (which funnily enough, is what the assholes have too).
 
Firebrain said:
I wish men would stop complaining about how being nice gets them nowhere. Being self depreciating gets them nowhere.

I know plenty of nice guys who have had their share of chicks (my husband included) - they just have a little confidence and perseverance (which funnily enough, is what the assholes have too).
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I've thought about what I posted earlier and a clarification might be in order. I wasn't grousing about something as mundane as being rejected as a cyber/fuck buddy; it was in reference to a situation in which I had invested 5+ years. I think 5 years pretty much covers the "perseverance" issue. As far as "confidence" is concerned, I don't think I would have spent that much time and energy if I wasn't reasonably confident the relationship would continue to grow and develop. In all candor, I feel a bit foolish by being a little too trusting on a couple of things and her lack of honesty is somewhat disheartening, but hindsight is 20/20, as they say. I'll move on. :)

I appreciate your comments, Firebrain, and agree with what you said. I wasn't trying to pick up chicks by a "woe is me" post, just trying for a bit of catharsis by venting in a public forum. Was just looking at things from a slightly different perspective than it may have appeared on the surface. :rose:
 
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I hate it when...

You are with three women in bed and the worst looking one says "Save it for me!"

Yeah okay a very old line from Jim Carrey...

My actual IHIW is... IHIW your partner has a sexual indescression (read affair) and rather than admit it, hides it first, denies it second, then blames it on you when you find out!...
 
frappdude said:
I've thought about what I posted earlier and a clarification might be in order. I wasn't grousing about something as mundane as being rejected as a cyber/fuck buddy; it was in reference to a situation in which I had invested 5+ years. I think 5 years pretty much covers the "perseverance" issue. As far as "confidence" is concerned, I don't think I would have spent that much time and energy if I wasn't reasonably confident the relationship would continue to grow and develop. In all candor, I feel a bit foolish by being a little too trusting on a couple of things and her lack of honesty is somewhat disheartening, but hindsight is 20/20, as they say. I'll move on. :)

I appreciate your comments, Firebrain, and agree with what you said. I wasn't trying to pick up chicks by a "woe is me" post, just trying for a bit of catharsis by venting in a public forum. Was just looking at things from a slightly different perspective than it may have appeared on the surface. :rose:
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Please please tell me you have learned that five years is way too long to hang around for someone!
 
Firebrain said:
Please please tell me you have learned that five years is way too long to hang around for someone!
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Wasn't exactly hanging around waiting on her... Things were nice and relaxed and fun. Not a waste of time by any stretch of imagination. Just had some expectations for some changes at a certain point and when that point came, the changes didn't. It's complicated, as most of these things tend to be so I won't get into it all. I learned a few things from it, yes, but I don't regret the time I spent. Only that it didn''t work out the way I had hoped. I didn't win the Super Bowl, but I got to play in the big game and that's more than some people can say. She's a hell of a woman. :rose:

My little rant the other night helped me focus and did prove to be cathartic. I'm good. She's a hell of a woman, but I ain't exactly chopped liver, IMHO. :D

Life is all about the journey, right? Learning and loving along the way. (hmmm.... maybe I need to use that as my sig....)
 
IHIW the last few people to message me 'coincidentally' post on the Currently Masturbating thread at the same time.

I feel so cheap [sob]
 
Firebrain said:
IHIW the last few people to message me 'coincidentally' post on the Currently Masturbating thread at the same time.

I feel so cheap [sob]
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IHIW when some guy who is a loser makes a lady sad. :rose:
 
My actual IHIW is... IHIW your partner has a sexual indescression (read affair) and rather than admit it, hides it first, denies it second, then blames it on you when you find out!...[/QUOTE]

I second that!
 
this is for the bullshitters in the world...
I fucking hate it when I catch someone telling a lie, and they don't understand my disappointment or get shitty after they get caught. Its not like Im going to give someone kudos for creative embellishment... I just cannot stand fucking liars, I would rather read a book.
 
I hate it when the dish guy says they will be there between 12 and 5
 
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