BDSM games/obstacle courses? + restriction ideas!!?
I am not creative. So, I ask you, people of bdsm literotica, to brainstorm
I have always had a thing for sexual games and obstacle courses. Call me crazy, I am. Also, negotiations and hmm how do I put this, merit-won punishments? Hence the games, it's like, if you lose this is what you get, and you get it just because you lost, you know? If you win, you get out of it.
So if you have ideas, post.
Also, as a specific help question: Currently I am playing with an online friend. I sub and he doms. We don't cam, and I rarely send any pictures. So what games can we come up with for me to play and him to direct long distance? What obstacle courses can he instruct me to set up in my home?
Also, what restrictions can he set? It's not the same, like no eye contact/eyes on the floor, can't do that since he's not with me. What he has set so far is mouth and legs open at all time when I'm chatting with him, of course that's a trust thing. But those lists of restrictions turn me on, like no speaking until spoken to, can't do that either -.- since well the situation can't call for it. ........ ahem, ideas ideas ideas! please and thank you!
No I don't and won't bring others into play. And I don't have many toys, just a vibe, clamps, and a snake bite.
I am not creative. So, I ask you, people of bdsm literotica, to brainstorm
I have always had a thing for sexual games and obstacle courses. Call me crazy, I am. Also, negotiations and hmm how do I put this, merit-won punishments? Hence the games, it's like, if you lose this is what you get, and you get it just because you lost, you know? If you win, you get out of it.
So if you have ideas, post.
Also, as a specific help question: Currently I am playing with an online friend. I sub and he doms. We don't cam, and I rarely send any pictures. So what games can we come up with for me to play and him to direct long distance? What obstacle courses can he instruct me to set up in my home?
Also, what restrictions can he set? It's not the same, like no eye contact/eyes on the floor, can't do that since he's not with me. What he has set so far is mouth and legs open at all time when I'm chatting with him, of course that's a trust thing. But those lists of restrictions turn me on, like no speaking until spoken to, can't do that either -.- since well the situation can't call for it. ........ ahem, ideas ideas ideas! please and thank you!
No I don't and won't bring others into play. And I don't have many toys, just a vibe, clamps, and a snake bite.
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