I'm in a new online M/s relationship. It's been 2 weeks, and we should be at the end of the trial period. I'm not sure that I want to continue the relationship. She's a well-trained sub, and the play has been fun, but outside playtime, she's a bit "stiff" and I find it hard to relate to her. I've told her before to relax and just be herself when we're not in scene, but she doesn't. It makes it hard for me to get to know her, and I suspect she may be hiding things from me, I'm not sure what.
I've also received emails from 2 of her former Masters who claim that she lied to them and cheated on them. I haven't caught her in any lies, and I'm not interested in monogamy, so she technically can't cheat. Still, I don't want to look like an idiot.
What should I do? I'm thinking of telling her that I can't continue because it's just not working for me, which is the truth. If I was hot for her, then I would see her in spite of the rumors. Does anybody have any thoughts to offer me on this?
Thanks for your time.
I've also received emails from 2 of her former Masters who claim that she lied to them and cheated on them. I haven't caught her in any lies, and I'm not interested in monogamy, so she technically can't cheat. Still, I don't want to look like an idiot.
What should I do? I'm thinking of telling her that I can't continue because it's just not working for me, which is the truth. If I was hot for her, then I would see her in spite of the rumors. Does anybody have any thoughts to offer me on this?
Thanks for your time.