Is your significant other aware you're on Lit?

[jedimindtrik]

My wife has no idea and would be pissed I was on here. She would say I was cheating on her and want a divorce. I have cheated on her several times she is just not sexual at all after we had a kid

 

[followmenow6969]

Both of us are here now (after a morning romp)

 

[StrayKat]

Where is the "no and dont care" option?

 

[Alanija]

I've had it several ways - had a bf who didn't know I was on lit but got suspiciously curious what I'm not showing him occasionally. Later I had a bf who knew pretty much straight out I'm on lit. We had a rather kinky relationship but he wasn't very interested in the fact that I'm posting here or even favouriting stories. I felt a bit disappointed by that

 

[play4fun]

I've had it several ways - had a bf who didn't know I was on lit but got suspiciously curious what I'm not showing him occasionally. Later I had a bf who knew pretty much straight out I'm on lit. We had a rather kinky relationship but he wasn't very interested in the fact that I'm posting here or even favouriting stories. I felt a bit disappointed by that

You should be disappointed. He must have missed out on great fun.

 

[notme1467]

sorry

I'm confused

alcohol was factor.... I meant your lucky and on my end she doesn't and wouldn't approve......

 

[Cabeza]

No... she has a "don't ask, don't tell" attitude as long as it stays online.

 

[ElijaRDC]

Yes, he knows. He signed up for his own account so he can chime in on my AmPic thread here and there.

 

[followmenow6969]

Where is the "no and dont care" option?

It's called unsubscribe to this thread

 

[Spenser41]

It's called unsubscribe to this thread

I think she's saying no he doesn't know and she doesn't care if he did or didn't know. Not that she's against the thread.

 

[smallgirl]

Even if hubby and I had an open marriage I would keep Lit a secret. Sometimes a woman just needs something for herself. I don't see what I do here as wrong, I don't play, or do the cyber thing, or post pics. To me, talking on here is no different then if he watches porn, or has conversations with women at his work. I know he would see if differently, but to be honest? I really don't give a damn.

 

[Dickstroker81]

Of course she knows, she provides a lot of input to my comments.

 

[McSmoothie]

Nope... like many others this is my personal area for exploring my sexuality.

 

[Frindsinitaly]

No she doesn't know. Wifey comes from a suppressed and closed background. I on the other the total opposite end of the spectrum. Over our 10yrs together I have opened her up , no pun intended, a little bit. Maybe in another10 she will be ready for Lit. Until then I'll have to enjoy on my own or with anyone who wants to help me

 

[h0tc0uple_13]

we're both on here! we obviously share this account. he was the one who told me about lit in the first place. he would read the stories, then suggest we join and post pictures of me or us to get feedback.. which we did for a while, got extremely turned on and decided to make our fantasies more of a reality (kind of haha). so we havent been on lit in months and are now slowly coming back.

we have come to notice that MANY men are on here without their spouses knowing. we've gotten messages from a few of those men and we've just simply said we apologize but we do not want to get involved and we'd rather speak to those who are honest within their relationship since we are. obviously we know that this may not be the case for some but thankfully they understood and we all went on our merry way.

 

[ilik269]

yes reading sexual material turns us both on

 

[DonnaBeck]

No. And he does not even know I write erotica. I have thought lately about telling him that part, but it could backfire.

 

[PureAnni]

he knows, cause this is where we met... have to say im a lucky girl

 

[SexKitten93]

Not really… he knows I read stories, but has no clue I post/message people.

 

[Davesmith42]

No not at all, this is my secret fun spot

 

[followmenow6969]

he knows, cause this is where we met... have to say im a lucky girl

Us too.. Cool isn't it???

 

[Rose101]

Yes....and she's sometimes been with me when I'm on.

 

[Leigh81]

My husband has been a member since 2011.
I couldn't imagine being with someone that would be pissed off if they found out I was on here. Obvious communication problems.

L

 

[Anomaly1964]

She does not know I am here...

I sometimes wish SHE was on here secretly...

She is VERY timid though and I would be TOTALLY shocked if she were here...

 

[pantyfruit]

hell no.

My S/O would freak out if I was caught on here. So, I'm only on when she's at work.