Your Opinion on what you'd do (women) if a Lesbian hit on you?

[TN_Vixen]

So, last night went to the local gay club with my best friend and ran into this group of people we'd met the last time we were there.. approx. 2 weeks ago. So this woman was semi-hitting on me intially but was very subtle and I was clear to her that I was straight. She was respectful and kept her distance but stayed friendly.

Last night she was less subtle and wants me to accept a dinner invitation. I argued that my acceptance would in itself lead her to believe that a "relationship" was possible and that I didn't think it was a good idea. She and I argued over this fact.. her point being that she had no expectations. I disagree... your opinion?

 

[Sonora]

I argued that my acceptance would in itself lead her to believe that a "relationship" was possible and that I didn't think it was a good idea. She and I argued over this fact.. her point being that she had no expectations. I disagree... your opinion?

What would you think if a man had asked you to dinner under the same circumstances? Would you go to dinner with him knowing that you had no desire for a relationship with him?

And even so, it would be her that is setting herself up to get hurt. You've been 'straight' with her and so she whould know what to expect and if she still wants to have dinner with you, I say go for it. It could turn out to be a great friendship.

 

[Patryn]

I'd give it a little time, myself. If she's still friendly to you, then she probably wants to be friends. If not, she probably just wanted to sleep with you.

 

[CreamyLady]

Why do you see her interest in you as solely sexual? You've already let her know that you aren't interested in her sexually.

If she's sincerely interested in friendship, you could have a great dinner and make a great friend. If all she wants is sex, well, she'll be disappointed, but you might still end up with an enjoyable evening.

 

[Naked Hunny]

CL said exactly what I was thinking but said it better than i would have been able to!!

 

[Andra_Jenny]

Life is to short!

I tend to give in to whatever will hit on me. I also tend to frequent good(?) places. I mean, like the neighbor's dog gave it a shot but...,

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Well, the last time that happened to me.....

I slid my hand down under the table and stroked her inner thigh and moving my hand further up toward........?????

Hey, oh yeah.......

I'm no lesbo.

Oh well.

 

[Guest]

 

[TN_Vixen]

thanks for the comments. She sent me an email recently that I'm going to respond to, but have been waiting to read the comments here first.

As for the person who asked "what if it were a man" then I would automatically assume they still want sex even if they said differently. I mean, they're men right? hehe And I think I would feel uncomfortable going under those circumstances especially if he told me he was attracted to me first.

I doubt I'll accept the invitation. It would just feel wrong.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Sometimes...............

Feeling wrong is extremely and exactly - what is right. Especially in an erotic context.