Your best dom/sub experience EVER?

sheath

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I'm shaky and breathless after just being fucked silly by my boyfriend, who happens to be letting his more dominant streak show lately. ;) I'm just so damn happy right this second that I can't possibly sleep...thus...a question for all of you!

What is your best experience ever with dom/sub? The kind of experience that makes you do nothing but smile and want more and more and more for days and days? What was it about the experience that made it so special? How did you feel before, during and after? How long did it last?

In short, give us the details. ;)

I've recently discovered the joys of submission...and I'm just dying to hear from others who have known about this awesome feeling all along. :D

Thanks!

S.
 
YOU TOO?!!!!!!!!! My legs just stopped shaking. Oh wait there was one more!:D

I just came clean this weekend about what I wanted and my husband was all for it. No we haven't brought out any equipment yet but he's so fucking big he can hold me still with one arm.....ok well two, but if I keep fucking like this he'll be down to one as soon as I lose weight!

God they way he did me tonight was just wonderful. If I could bottle the way he...damn I should just forget wearing panties. Iwonder if he's had enough sleep yet?:D
 
Dammit... there's too much fucking going on. NO fair!

LOL Just kidding. Glad to hear ya'll have made such a cool discovery :)

Keep at it and good luck

PBW
 
* is totally jealous*

The only thing I've experienced that remotely resembles D/s was with a friend I'd met online. We decided to meet for real for a weekend - strictly sexual, no romance. He had told me ahead of time he was going to do this, so it kept me wet for weeks thinking of it. When we got into the hotel room, he made me stand perfectly still about a foot away from the edge of the bed, and keep my eyes closed, and hands down at my sides. I was not allowed to touch him or open my eyes. He proceeded to strip me down - one piece at a time, very slowly. He'd touch me - here, there, in front of me, behind me - one minute his hot breath on my nipple, the next his teeth on my neck. He touched my entire body, with his hands, tongue, lips and teeth...exploring and seeing where my sensitive spots were. This went on for about 45 minutes - what absolutely delicious torture. Then he fucked me silly for 3 days.
 
wow, lots of blossoming bdsmers out there! i'm so happy for you all! as for picking a FAVORITE dom/sub experience....oh man, that's just way too hard. there's so many that stand out in my mind. i remember being bent over the arm of the victorian couch in my father's living room while my current boyfriend did the most dispicable things to me...he would mix punishment with sex, i was crying so hard and had cum so many times by the end of the hour. not an experience i'd repeat daily, but i did enjoy it. and then of course, there was this other guy. he had this way of ignoring my attention, purposly disregarding me. i would try to kiss him, and he would remain motionless, refusing to acknowledge me. i always had to work for it. that got kind of hard to take after a while, but i can't deny that it did turn me on. and my most recent ex would asphyxiate me, painfully grip my wrists, really get into the nonconsent thing, and i really loved that. and of course there's my current dom. He and i are taking things slowly on the bdsm level. He says that "that kind of intimacy only comes after getting to really know a person" or something like that so we're moving along with the handcuffs and the riding crop and LOTS of biting (fun!) so i'm really having the time of my life. but i could never pick one favorite experience!
 
Freya2 said:
* is totally jealous*

The only thing I've experienced that remotely resembles D/s was with a friend I'd met online. We decided to meet for real for a weekend - strictly sexual, no romance. He had told me ahead of time he was going to do this, so it kept me wet for weeks thinking of it. When we got into the hotel room, he made me stand perfectly still about a foot away from the edge of the bed, and keep my eyes closed, and hands down at my sides. I was not allowed to touch him or open my eyes. He proceeded to strip me down - one piece at a time, very slowly. He'd touch me - here, there, in front of me, behind me - one minute his hot breath on my nipple, the next his teeth on my neck. He touched my entire body, with his hands, tongue, lips and teeth...exploring and seeing where my sensitive spots were. This went on for about 45 minutes - what absolutely delicious torture. Then he fucked me silly for 3 days.


DAMN girl... you have the yummiest posts! :)

But.. except for that first 45 minutes, that sounds like a good fuckfest weekend. hehe. Didn't he tie ya up at all? That makes the teasing even better :)

PBW
 
Hotel room for the weekend...my "Silver Case" full of my toys...I laid out his clothes...made him shower...put on his collar...told him to put on the thigh high stockings, the corset, panites..strapped his cock down....had him sit on the rooms luggage rack tied his hands and legs to it....blindfolded him and used various "toys" on him...spanked him...whipped him...teased him....untill he was begging for release...

he had never done that before...didnt care for the womens clothing...although he didnt say he didnt like it...but, the combination of the whole night made my pet a very content pet...and me a very, very happy Mistress....

:kiss:
 
The best RL experience I have had with d/s was in a semi d/s relationship (actually, more top/bottom, as it stayed in the bedroom). Anyway.. it was with my ex-fiance, the first man I was ever with. I was staying with him for a week, and one morning, when he got up to go to work, we showered together, and when I was still nude, he told me to lay down on the bed. He blindfolded me, and then tied my ankles and wrists to the bedposts with rope, rope that hurt my wrists (which I happen to like). He then climbed on the bed, between my legs, and rubbed the head of his cock over my pussy, and then kissed my clit, and without a word, left to go to work. I stayed there all day, turned on, and during the day, our kittens happened to come in, and they took full advantage of the situation, lapping away happily at my juices.... when he came back from work, I was boiling and so ready for a lay, but he merely kissed me, ran cold water over me, and went to get dinner, which he fed to me while I was tied up. Finally, he let me loose, and ordered me onto my hands and knees, where he proceeded to fuck me until I was a shaking puddle of vixen on the bed. As I lay there, on my stomach, in a post-orgasmic daze, he tied me up again, and then left the room to watch TV, then returned a few hours later to fuck me sensless again.

After this, he untied me, took care of my (by this time, bloody) wrists and ankles, made me drink a ton of water (I get very dehydrated when I fuck), and then cradled me in his arms for the rest of the evening, telling me how he loved me, and if I needed or wanted anything at all, he would jump up to get it for me....


what a wonderful day/night...
 
P. B. Walker said:
DAMN girl... you have the yummiest posts! :)

But.. except for that first 45 minutes, that sounds like a good fuckfest weekend. hehe. Didn't he tie ya up at all? That makes the teasing even better :)

PBW

LOL! Glad you like them.

It was a total fuckfest weekend, but the rest was just straight sex. I haven't yet been tied up, but somehow I found that to be almost more erotic than my imaginations of actual bondage. It was even more of a giving up of control - because I could move if I chose, but didn't. So I was fighting that temptation (because I love to touch), keeping my eyes closed , and just the thrill of not knowing what he would do next or where he'd be.
 
Now that I'm not shaking (as much)...

I'm very new to this, so I'm sure that my experience will pale in comparison to others on this thread. Do you all remember how you felt when you first realized, wow, I'm actually being completely submissive? (Or dominant?) That giddy, higher-than-the-clouds feeling that makes you tingle all over and smile like an idiot all through the next day? Well, that's what I'm feeling RIGHT NOW. So if this post seems really eager and giddy, please excuse me. ;)

Last night was my first experience with being completely submissive. My boyfriend sat me down and we had a long conversation. First, he spent a lot of time telling me what I already knew: that he loved me, that I was the center of his world, that he would do anything at all for me. He assured me that if I didn't like the things he wanted or what he said, that was fine. He reminded me of the deep and trusting relationship we have. We talked about that quite a lot. Then he said: This is the mood I am in right now.

Then he told me what I would do for him, both sexually and otherwise. I would do it all without complaint. I would cater to his every whim and need. For instance: If he wanted the house quiet, I would not run the dishwasher...I would do them by hand instead...I would not turn on the television...I would keep the house quiet. If I was doing those dishes and he wanted to fuck, he would bend me over and let me have it right there, however he pleased, and I would take it without complaint. If I enjoyed it, fine. If I didn't, fine. And when he was done I would continue doing the dishes. If he said, please me, I would fall to my knees immediately and without a word of dissent. My body was his for whatever he chose, no matter how painful or pleasurable it might be for me. His word was command, and he was to be the only presence in my thoughts. If I had the nerve to think of anyone else, I was to tell him immediately and I would be punished accordingly. And he kept reminding me that he loved me.

Then he fucked me. Oh, hell yeah. He told me exactly what he wanted and exactly how, and I was to do it without complaint. And I did. :) He got a little rough, but he didn't have to. By then I was so mesmerized simply by his tone and his attitude that I had no choice but to entirely submit. I guess last night was when I learned that submission of the mind is much more powerful than any submission of the body could ever be.

By the time he did tell me to fuck him, I was so turned on by the fact that he WAS the master of his domain (and ME) that all I could possibly want in the world was his pleasure. I didn't give a damn if I enjoyed it physically. I was absolutely ravenous just to please him...I've never been like that before. It was a curiously liberating feeling.

Turns out I DID enjoy it...more than I have ever, ever, EVER enjoyed sex in my entire life! :D

And when it was over...I have never felt more loved, more cared for, more desired. I was absolutely thrilled with the feeling of being nothing but his little plaything. I'm sure that from this point on he will become more dominant physically...and he's really into pain, and I'm learning that I have a serious masochist streak in me as well. :) We've gotten into the pain/sex thing before, but never on a regular basis, and never with this level of dominance in our relationship.

I am...WOW! I am just so deliriously happy. I never dreamed I would feel like this. I'm like a kid in a candy store! LOL

Everybody, tell us more...keep this thread going...I am enjoying reading all of it! (more than once!)

:D

S. (The completely and utterly satisfied S.)
 
wow. Im so jealous, sheath! *grin* But at the same time, it's not jealousy, it's happiness for you, and wistfulness for something like that.

Congratulations on finding such happiness!
 
Terrific, sheath!

I am green with envy! ------>:p


Hmm but if I posted my best experience, the most intense, awe inspiring experience...

It would be too much information!

:devil:
 
I've been thinking about this one since I stumbled on this thread

Since I became active in the lifestyle some years ago I've had a LOT of great experiences and I'm not sure how to quantify them

How do you compare a tender moment with your first sub to the first time you play in public to the first time you get asked to teach someone else to the first time someone you've trained moves on?

VERY hard :D If no one objects, I might post a few different experiences

I'll mention this one :

Earlier this year, I went to a well known scene club. I had been there once before in the company of a pro-Domme, who's also a full-time lifestyler, and her boy.....Mistress Katz & t. I play with male subs occasionaly......I find I have a little easier time letting my Sadist side out than I do with any women except for 2 I know to be SEVERE pain sluts ;)
The last time I was there, I had played t VERY severely on a device the club has known as a "Punishment Chair", sort of a stiff upright piece that looks like an old electric chair, excep the seat splits, allowing the legs to be bound & seperated, leaving the buttocks bare for assault as well as a ready path for CBT. One technique I like to use with play-partners I am very familiar with is application of acu-pressure points.........I learned them first thru martial arts then thru massage therapy training, and I realized early on they could be used to inflict pain with no marks or damage....I said I was a sadist :D
Katz & I put on QUITE a show with her boy that night, and several of the pro-Dommes who work the club complimented us afterwards.

This was my first visit back since that trip, and I was taking some interested semi-nilla friends to see the club and meet my friends. Unfortunately, we got there late & missed Katz & t. We looked around, watched some of the scenes in progress, and were about to leave when one of the pro-Dommes approached me. She said she's seen my scene with t last time, but had been too busy with a client to speak to me. She asked about the technique I'd used on t, and I explained it to her. She was very interested, and then paid me one of the greatest compliments I've ever received. She offered to bottom for me in order to learn my techniques. It was almost closing time for the club, so we cleared it with the Mistress who owns the place and I set the lady up & played thru a whole scene......Just me, my guests, and the staff of the club (owner, club slave, and 2 other pros who work there). Afterwards they all thanked me for the demo and welcomed me back any tine I wanted to visit again.

Luckily, my head still fit thru the door and we were able to leave :D

I think all of us, even those of us in "alternate" groups, crave the approbation of our peers. Certainly that moment of having not only long-term lifestylers but PROFESSIONALS who get PAID to do what I do for fun validate what I do was one of my most gratifying moments as a Top.

Ok, sorry I went on so long. If anyone cares to hear it mebbe I'll post something more personal at some point :D
But that was certainly my best PUBLIC moment ;)
 
Sheath, let me add to the compliments on finding yourself the way you did. I know the feeling you are having right now (granted I was on the other end of the coin) and no doubt things will only get better.
 
Completely totally and utterly shameless BUMP

BUMP!....

Simply because I want to hear more. :)

I did mention that I was shameless, right?

S.
 
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