Seeing your dom(me) be a sub for another

[Yarglenurp]

Wondering how many subs and sub-adjacent people here would enjoy seeing their dominant partners be submissive to someone else?

I used to think that this breaks the “roles” of the relationship and would make the dominant seem less attractive, but now my tastes have changed. Given the number of stories on here on Lit, I think a fair number of submissive guys would actually find watching their dominant partners sub for another guy or girl to be extremely erotic.

On the other hand, I wonder if it’s fundamentally different for a woman… I wonder if a dominant partner loses his or her appeal to the submissive woman if they ever act out of character.

 

[AG31]

Wondering how many subs and sub-adjacent people here would enjoy seeing their dominant partners be submissive to someone else?

I used to think that this breaks the “roles” of the relationship and would make the dominant seem less attractive, but now my tastes have changed. Given the number of stories on here on Lit, I think a fair number of submissive guys would actually find watching their dominant partners sub for another guy or girl to be extremely erotic.

On the other hand, I wonder if it’s fundamentally different for a woman… I wonder if a dominant partner loses his or her appeal to the submissive woman if they ever act out of character.

I can't speak from personal experience, only regarding fantasies, but I would love to read about such a scenario. My thing is strong men surrendering with dignity. It doesn't matter much what they surrender to. Certainly the sex of the other doesn't matter. I'm female.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I would, this is very popular with cuckolding and cuckqueaning fetishes.

It's so sexy to be submissive to someone and then watch them submit to another bull or Domme, that means they'd own you too and you can service them both.

 

[Lotus_Kitty]

Wondering how many subs and sub-adjacent people here would enjoy seeing their dominant partners be submissive to someone else?

I used to think that this breaks the “roles” of the relationship and would make the dominant seem less attractive, but now my tastes have changed. Given the number of stories on here on Lit, I think a fair number of submissive guys would actually find watching their dominant partners sub for another guy or girl to be extremely erotic.

On the other hand, I wonder if it’s fundamentally different for a woman… I wonder if a dominant partner loses his or her appeal to the submissive woman if they ever act out of character.

Woman here. I love switches and switchy Doms. I find it far easier to trust them. I think they understand me better. They’re incredibly sexy to me. The sexiest.

 

[subdudeme13]

My favorite Domme was a married slave. She was terrific and knew how to ring my bell. I did my best for her as if I had a choice!

 

[Lotus_Kitty]

Apologies for my off topic replies to others earlier. I got over excited and forgot forum etiquette. I'll do better!

 

[Yarglenurp]

Apologies for my off topic replies to others earlier. I got over excited and forgot forum etiquette. I'll do better!

I think you’re more than fine.

 

[Yarglenurp]

My favorite Domme was a married slave. She was terrific and knew how to ring my bell. I did my best for her as if I had a choice!

So, what kind of stuff did she do to you? How’d it even happen if she was married?

 

[magic_rat]

My partner is sub, I am her dom. That's just how we are. Our swing partner is domme in a dungeon, very sub in bed. I've experimented lately subbing for her in a dungeon scenario. Still deciding how I feel about it.

 

[subdudeme13]

So, what kind of stuff did she do to you? How’d it even happen if she was married?

What didn't she do and they had an open marriage.