Your Advice To A New *litster*

[koalabear]

Perfect quote fellow bear.. sums the GB up perfectly

The good side is,they will find the cure for cancer. But then again they will argue and fight about it and lose the formula!

 

[vibes]

Indeed all of the above.

Something I haven't found written yet, maybe it's obvious but one never knows: don't assume that something you have been told in private can be shared in public

 

[Friendly_1]

Hi

Hello...
Just found the boards here at lit recently
so thanks for all the good advice!

 

[elizabeth22673]

Indeed all of the above.

Something I haven't found written yet, maybe it's obvious but one never knows: don't assume that something you have been told in private can be shared in public

exactly! been there, done that LOL

 

[koalabear]

By the way....noob females should always post a full body nude to show how friendly they are.

 

[elizabeth22673]

By the way....noob females should always post a full body nude to show how friendly they are.

lol. i would have to agree. *blushing

oh, and males too!

 

[starrynightin64]

I'd say filling out a profile to something beyond N/A is important. If I'm gonna get hit on it's be nice to know if it is male or female...

Or for that matter reading a profile would be nice before a PM is sent...

 

[koalabear]

lol. i would have to agree. *blushing

oh, and males too!

I did many years ago....lol

 

[koalabear]

I'd say filling out a profile to something beyond N/A is important. If I'm gonna get hit on it's be nice to know if it is male or female...

Or for that matter reading a profile would be nice before a PM is sent...

Excellent point.

 

[Guest]

I'd say filling out a profile to something beyond N/A is important. If I'm gonna get hit on it's be nice to know if it is male or female...

Or for that matter reading a profile would be nice before a PM is sent...

Briliant point. Very annoying when people don't put that. I usually assume it's an alt.

 

[foofoo416]

Be honest with your new friends, especially anyone you would like to become more than friends. I'm not saying you have to tell them every private detail about yourself, only that what you do share should be TRUE. Don't waste someone's time with bullshit if you just wanna play around, you wouldn't like it if they did it to you. There are enough people on here looking to keep things casual and fun, you don't need to monopolize the time of someone who is open and honest about wanting more than that if you aren't really interested. We run on an honor system here... all we can go on is what you tell us. I'm not saying that we will take everything at face value and that we don't have our own bullshit detectors, though. I haven't known one poster here who has turned out to be completely full of shit that hasn't lost a LOT of potentially very good friends because of it. If you wanna fuck around and be a big flirt, or are trying to hook up in r/l with lots of people, just own it. There are plenty of others out there who will appreciate it and respect your honesty, and then there are also no hurt feelings when the truth comes out.

 

[elizabeth22673]

Briliant point. Very annoying when people don't put that. I usually assume it's an alt.

yea, i have to agree. its like meeting someone w/ no face.

 

[starrynightin64]

lol, I get hit on by guys who know I like older men... too bad they don't look at my age
IN MY PROFILE and figure out older should at least be older then I am...
Oh the AV may not mean anything since a lot of us go to the AV sites for pics...
NO THAT IS NOT ME...

 

[vibes]

I'd say filling out a profile to something beyond N/A is important. If I'm gonna get hit on it's be nice to know if it is male or female...

Or for that matter reading a profile would be nice before a PM is sent...

very true, but not too much ... discovery is so intriguing

 

[hdlynnette]

Be VERY careful of who you trust. I've been gullible a few times...but it was a lesson well learned.

 

[elizabeth22673]

you know yourself better than anyone. don't let someone's negative perception of you bring you down.

((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

 

[virgin_not]

By the way....noob females should always post a full body nude to show how friendly they are.

Don't scare the newbies bear...LOL...http://bestsmileys.com/lol/9.gif

 

[elizabeth22673]

Don't scare the newbies bear...LOL...http://bestsmileys.com/lol/9.gif

lol

 

[omahaman2]

BE YOURSELF!

Even in here, even behind a screen, you can never masquerade forever.

 

[Guest]

BE YOURSELF!

Even in here, even behind a screen, you can never masquerade forever.

Excellent point.

Some top advice in here.

 

[SCblondetiger]

Don't be afraid of threads with large post counts... just jump right in.. most threads on the Playground will welcome you and catch u up on something if it really is that important... and don't be afraid to start your own threads

 

[starrynightin64]

Bump for the important info for the new Lit members...

 

[NorthernPA4U]

I'd say filling out a profile to something beyond N/A is important. If I'm gonna get hit on it's be nice to know if it is male or female...

Or for that matter reading a profile would be nice before a PM is sent...

This is a good point. I'm new (at least I created an account recently, have lurked as a guest for a while) ... what would YOU recommend should go into my profile?

 

[starrynightin64]

This is a good point. I'm new (at least I created an account recently, have lurked as a guest for a while) ... what would YOU recommend should go into my profile?

The basics you think people should know. Male or female, what you are looking for... friends, straight or Gay or Bi, things like that

 

[NorthernPA4U]

The basics you think people should know. Male or female, what you are looking for... friends, straight or Gay or Bi, things like that

Thanks for the advice. I made a few adjustments, but I don't know exactly what I'm looking for from Literotica quite yet. I guess people revise their profiles anyway, so it shouldn't be a problem in the future.