You ever just feel like....

[little_dragon]

Being the other gender---just for one day or so? Sorry if it's already been posted, but....

Basically, there are times when I feel like I'm a guy trapped in a girl's bod. I mean, lesbians are attracted to other lesbians--we all know that---but what if the girl (like me) is..."way too manly", as I've heard it called? i.e.---"being in love with you is like being straight." Yeah, I've heard that once.....

Any suggestions? Are there girls out there who basically like lesbo guys? (I don't know how else to put it....) Or should I just save up for a gender change?

BTW--my name would be Kiro...long story, lol.

Little Dragon

 

[temp256]

I do, constantly. I'm a lesbian trapped in a guy's body. I hope to fix this soon.

Are you basing this off your own opinions about yourself, or just what other people say? Either way, therapy is the way to go. The sooner the better. I spent a few months figuring things out for myself, and I wish I had just started therapy at the first sign of confusion. Now when I need it the most, it will take over a month to get an appointment.

Some questions to ask yourself: Is there anything inheritly special you like being a girl? Do you want to be a guy for everything, or just sexual abilities? Are you sure you're not just a lesbian butch?

Gender changes are a long and complex process, not simply surgery. You won't have to worry about any permanent changes for many months.

Resources:
http://transsexual.org/
http://www.tsroadmap.com/

 

[little_dragon]

Now that I think about it.....

This might sound weird...(lol)....but I've always thought that I looked at love (when I'm with a girl) from the guy's point of veiw....and it's always bothered me. I'm just come to realize I don't really know how to go about it. I want to be with a girl, but I don't want them to be all like "god, this is just like being straight" either.

Little Dragon

 

[human_male]

It's my single biggest fantasy. Not to switch permanently because I like being me, but to be able to magically transform into some cute little hottie... oh the things I could do. Or have a female friend and we jump bodies now and again. We'd just have to promise not to get each other into too much trouble.

I wouldn't want a sex change though. I want to be a woman, not some big gormless guy wandering around with a vagina where a penis used to be. Plus you obviously can't switch back.

 

[little_dragon]

Yeah that would be cool.....

And I like being girl, don't get me wrong....it's just that.......I don't know. I always grew up with the "knight" stories. Girls were never knights, and so, since I always wanted to be a kinght (and serve the round table) I kinda just fit the tom-boyish role......now that I'm older though, there *seems* to be a lot of probs with being a girl's knight. Sigh.

I think I do need therapy ....or something. I'll wait till I'm outta the house though for that one.

Little Dragon

 

[RazorSplitClit]

I've had similar feelings. Yes, sometimes I think it would be nice to be a girl, though I love being male. I don't think it's all that unusual, I have straight "normal" friends that have admmitted they would like to change genders temporarily.

I can even relate to having a partners that question their sexuality because they are attracted to me. One of my wittier friends like to refer to me as his favorite male lesbian.

I'm not sure what you're asking, but if you're worried about being able to find a partner because you are so much like a member of the opposite gender, I don't think that would stop them from being attracted to you, you may just appeal to another set of gals.

 

[little_dragon]

I've had similar feelings. Yes, sometimes I think it would be nice to be a girl, though I love being male. I don't think it's all that unusual, I have straight "normal" friends that have admmitted they would like to change genders temporarily.

I can even relate to having a partners that question their sexuality because they are attracted to me. One of my wittier friends like to refer to me as his favorite male lesbian.

I'm not sure what you're asking, but if you're worried about being able to find a partner because you are so much like a member of the opposite gender, I don't think that would stop them from being attracted to you, you may just appeal to another set of gals.

Just musing out loud mostly, but yeah, I was worried that it might be a bit of a "turn off" for me to be so manly.

 

[RazorSplitClit]

Just musing out loud mostly, but yeah, I was worried that it might be a bit of a "turn off" for me to be so manly.

To a few maybe, but it what to some is a turn-off, to others is sexy.
If it weren't a fact, I would be very single.

 

[little_dragon]

To a few maybe, but it what to some is a turn-off, to others is sexy.
If it weren't a fact, I would be very single.

Thanks---this might sound corny, but your words helped more than you know .

 

[RazorSplitClit]

Thanks---this might so corny, but your words helped more than you know .

I wasn't sure if what I was saying was helping, I'm glad it did.

 

[temp256]

Don't worry about what others think. Be yourself. It's the secret to happiness.

If you think you need therapy, get it. Don't wait.

 

[little_dragon]

Between confusion and budding depression---nothing serious, just a minor slip in life, lol---this really helps guys thanks.

 

[mreneetg]

And as a further thought, you may have to visit several times with three or four different psychologists before you find one that you "click" with. You might want to do a google search on "transgender feelings" or something similar to see if it helps.

 

[human_male]

When you say manly, what do you mean exactly? Are you manly in appearence, or do you just like the kinds of things that blokes mostly like? Like beer and farting.

 

[human_male]

Yeah that would be cool.....

And I like being girl, don't get me wrong....it's just that.......I don't know. I always grew up with the "knight" stories. Girls were never knights, and so, since I always wanted to be a kinght (and serve the round table) I kinda just fit the tom-boyish role......now that I'm older though, there *seems* to be a lot of probs with being a girl's knight. Sigh.

I think I do need therapy ....or something. I'll wait till I'm outta the house though for that one.

Little Dragon

I don't think it's at all weird to have fantasies like that. You certainly don't need therapy. I like playing fantasy role playing games because you can be a female warrior. I always play a female in them, part of my little fantasy I suppose. Plus I think kick ass women, well... kick ass.

 

[neonflux]

am happy being female

but love the idea of really being male for a day, feeling what the world would be like walking around with a penis, etc. there is a charming short, directed by I think Rosie Troche (Go Fish), about a group of four dyke women friends who find a magic potient that allows them to all have real penises for a day...

are you thinking you might truly be trans or that you are just interested in gender play? ever thought of dressing in drag? the idea intrigues me and am planning to pursue the same with the help of a couple of friends and in the company of a bi male friend...

like human_male, i love the imagination/fantasy and play of it...

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

yeah, i think it would an hallariously funny new experience