You can now call me the bionic single Dom

[Kajira Callista]

hi kc

how ya doin?

I read where you said you really liked "him"
I hope it is working out
no matter who "him" is

"Him" is Sir Winston...you really need to get outta your thread and look around a bit richard lol

 

[Richard49]

"Him" is Sir Winston...you really need to get outta your thread and look around a bit richard lol

I do occasionally
and as I posted above
when I post outside this thread
I find my self in position I do not like being in

anyway
I hope it works out

I think anyone that finds you in thier life
has found a rare value

 

[Kajira Callista]

 

[Richard49]

I need some advise

I have meet someone
well sort of

The vampire at my local VA clinic
she is to young for me
she is 35

She is a veteran
13 years
Got medical discharge
had an Aneurysms break

In our exchanges as "patent and client"
we have had soem interesintg touching and eye contact

ok this
is all proably in my head
but there seems to be something there
maybe nothing more than my loneliness

today I gave her my herbal card

and well I was BSing with the office staff she came out and stood by me for a few

I am never very good at reaching out
and other than when schudled for blood draws
I have no reason to see her

(though my Veterans Rose has two new buds)

another problem is that VA staff is not suppose to frantinze with the clients ........

and still another is I do not want to place her a position where she feels uncomfortable with me

as I write this
I see I am proably braking up the wrong tree
and if I do anything
I will step on my dick

oh well

 

[RJMasters]

Re: I need some advise

I have meet someone
well sort of



Well I have been praying for freindship opportunities for you bro.



The vampire at my local VA clinic
she is to young for me
she is 35


Legal adult age difference never bothers me in the slightest.




She is a veteran
13 years
Got medical discharge
had an Aneurysms break



Obviously you two can relate and identify with each other as you share past experiences




In our exchanges as "patent and client"
we have had soem interesintg touching and eye contact

ok this
is all proably in my head
but there seems to be something there
maybe nothing more than my loneliness



All you can do is speak for yourself in this. If YOU felt an exchange or a connection, then it is true from yourside. Now the question is is it true from herside as well. Which is what this thread is mostly about if I read it right.





today I gave her my herbal card



Good start.




and well I was BSing with the office staff she came out and stood by me for a few



Can't read too much into this, could be just socializing(sp) or could be something more. you would be in a better position to determine if there was something more to it.





I am never very good at reaching out
and other than when schudled for blood draws
I have no reason to see her



Unless you are interested in her, then you got a reason even though its not a professional medically related reason.






(though my Veterans Rose has two new buds)

another problem is that VA staff is not suppose to frantinze with the clients ........

and still another is I do not want to place her a position where she feels uncomfortable with me



There may be some legality issue with medical staff/patient. Depending on how strict the rules are. Meaning, just because she draws your blood, does that mean you cannot have a relationship outside of the VA. I could see where if she was your full time doctor the issue would be more complex, but a lab tech drawing blood may not fall in the defined scope of legality. It could, so I understand your concern. Two ways to look at it.

1. Look to see if the definition extends to your situation, if not proceed.

2. If your situation does fall under this legal "no-no", then it comes down to the two of you and if your both willing to work around it. This would be definately have to be part of the consentual aspect for any relationship to move forward.






as I write this
I see I am proably braking up the wrong tree
and if I do anything
I will step on my dick



All seems pretty normal to me. As you were going about you life you ran into a person you have an interest in. You may have aniety as to weather this person may have an interest in you. The circumstances of the meeting are minor and can probably be worked around if you BOTH really want to and the level of interest will probably dictate that.

I think your asking if there is a way to approach this lady and express an interest to her without putting too much out there. My recommendation, is invite her to lunch. Tell her you just don't feel like eating alone and would welcome some nice conversation over lunch/dinner.

If she is interested, then she will either accept or ask for a rain check because of current plans. If she responds and say she can't do that because(fill in the blank) then you know there is not enough interest and can politely say you understand and let it drop. Yes she will know you have an interest with her, but not so much so that you feel you lose that much if she declines. Nor will you feel embarassed at your next blood donation as nothing to intamate was exchanged.

What ever you decide, at least you have one thing to look forward to when you go to the VA.




oh well

Oh well my ass heehee. If you like her and you feel there might be a mutual connection, then go for it. As you have told many countless times before

Begin with communication
Develop a friendship as a foundation of Trust
Let things proceed to the next level as interest increases and trust deepens.

Guess that's my advice.

 

[snowy ciara]

Thanks for the and a for yourself too.

I think RJ's right, you should ask her to lunch or something. Nothing major, just friendly stuff.

Yup, my big brudder takes good care of me. Even if he won't let me get all homicidal. He says "It's too late, sweetie; he's allready donated to the gene pool.."

 

[lady-kat]

morning my friend

*peeking in, walking softly to the kitchen to make a pot of coffee and leave some cindy's cinamin buns*

looks like your day was an interesting one yesterday - mine was too

i agree with the others....
take the yummie vampire one of your lovely veteran's roses and ask her to meet U for coffee & conversation

 

[Bandit58]

*smiles* Richard you will never know if you don't take the chance......ask her to lunch, you never know.......

Master had given up hoping to find someone before He met me......it took a while for us to get our act together but now we are together and so very happy.....

 

[dejah]

agrees

i agree Sir!

Talk to her, call her, ask her to lunch!

If the goes well? Then ask her out to dinner, movie, dancing, whatever seems to be appealing to the 2 of You!

i, for one, would love to see You happy Sir!

hugsssssssssssss and kissessssssssssssssss!~

dejah

 

[Richard49]

That's lady_kat for the coffee



I have no way to just call the vampire direct
I would have to call through the clinic
and I can not come up with an honest blind

That you all for your support

I see today that the veterans rose has not two buds
but three buds on one stem and one bud on another

we shall see

perhaps I can find courage some where

 

[Richard49]

Who am I kidding

With my history
and my issues

no woman in her right mind would stick around
hell "she" had disappeared and as has our mutal friend

Today a male freind was here
and made fun of the condition of my house

and if I should disappear
know that my computer is acting up

dumped 2 months of e-mail
into never never land

and e-mail program is not working good

oh well

such is my life

 

[rosco rathbone]

and if I should disappear
know that my computer is acting up

oh well

such is my life

"If you should disappear", we'll all rest easy knowing that you have been taken in by the Spelling Police and are probably in a dark cellar somewhere downtown, being beaten with a copy of the dictionary.

 

[Richard49]

remember children & friends
do not feed the trolls
and the bad mannered people

 

[rosco rathbone]

remember children & friends
do not feed the trolls
and the bad mannered people

*golf clap*

So you CAN spell when you make an effort!

You'll be out on bail soon.

 

[RJMasters]

Who am I kidding

With my history
and my issues

no woman in her right mind would stick around

Good thing your not looking for a woman in her right mind.


And Rosco, how about a little "do unto others as you would like done back to you eh?"

And I am not talking about spelling either, I am talking about crashing a thread which the "spirit" there of has special meaning to Richard on the forum boards. This is like his place where he can hang out and friends can stop by and say hello. It is not here for people to come in and pass judgement or point out mistakes publicly.

How would you like it if someone came into your house and started telling you everything that was wrong with it and with you. You would throw their ass out the front door as quick as you could.

Your post smacks of low-blows and cheap-shots disguised in humor so as to make it ok.

I know your tendency to be rough and even crass, but this is ... well its just a plain loss of respect for you. I don't know if you care or if it was a failed attempt at humor, just from my point of view it was uncool.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Your post smacks of low-blows and cheap-shots disguised in humor so as to make it ok.

Not trying to disguise anything. The guy irritates me and I like to break his balls; from time to time.

 

[RJMasters]

Moving on

Looks like I am taking a few chances of my own there Richard. I am really getting to like this lady alot. We have alot in common and been talking for a week or more getting to know each other online. Both of us are not looking for anything beyond that, so what were looking to give each other, is exactly what each other wants.

What is amazing to me is how quickly we have become friends in such a short itme. I think that's due alot to our background and upbringing being very similar. We not only identify with each others wants, but can also relate to each others past struggles. Anyways, I'll be working all night as I have some dropdead dealines to meet by monday, I'll come by in the morning for a cup of joe.

When you say don't feed, I'll listen. Sry about the side track.

Be well.

 

[lady-kat]

And Rosco, how about a little "do unto others as you would like done back to you eh?"

morning Richard & RJ
*waiving a hello*

pay no attention to the local school - yard bully dropping in. the poor little guy must have missed his nap.


whose turn is it to make coffee? i have hot croisants from the local artisan bakery to share.

it's a lovely fall day here, sunny and cool.

 

[lady-kat]

I see today that the veterans rose has not two buds
but three buds on one stem and one bud on another

Richard. please take a picture to share with us of your roses?

the last bloom was beautiful.

 

[RJMasters]

GM

Good Morning Richard, Good morning Lady Kat. "Brings in Starbucks"(that how Doms make coffee...sheepish grin).

I'm getting a jump start on my work, I'll check back in from time to time today to see what's up.

:snags croisant...oh yeah...ty Lady Kat.

See ya Richard

 

[Richard49]

I thnk it is time for me ot leave lit again

I have had my fill of cowards, lairs and wannbes

this place has not been the same with the "new" moderators

I can remember when one of them left me out to dry
proved they were lairs and wannbes
I left han
I have no idea why I came back or why I keep this thread going

rosco and his kind are waste of oxygen and human DNA
they can not even leave me alone here
and yet when I go to there threads and fight back
others attack me
other 2 cell idoits that have no idea of hisotry

anyway
If you do not hear from me here
you know i have left
at lest for a while

call me fucking insane
it is like the government
you fight back
and your the one insane

 

[InnerDarkness]

I hope you DO return...I like seeing you post here and there, especially here

 

[RJMasters]

I thnk it is time for me ot leave lit again

I have had my fill of cowards, lairs and wannbes

this place has not been the same with the "new" moderators

I can remember when one of them left me out to dry
proved they were lairs and wannbes
I left han
I have no idea why I came back or why I keep this thread going

rosco and his kind are waste of oxygen and human DNA
they can not even leave me alone here
and yet when I go to there threads and fight back
others attack me
other 2 cell idoits that have no idea of hisotry

anyway
If you do not hear from me here
you know i have left
at lest for a while

call me fucking insane
it is like the government
you fight back
and your the one insane

I know you got to do what you got to do Amigo. Some times a break is good. Just do it on your own terms. Don't let the ignorant actions of others determine what your gonna do.

Hey I took my licks for lack of respecting certain people on here. I learned a valuable lesson.

I hope you continue to hang out. I'd realy miss talking with ya.

I might be planning a trip to MI to visit my father and mother n law in Cadillac sometime in the next few months. Lets grab a bite to eat and visit when I come ok.

If you do take a break send me an email to stay in touch.

 

[Richard49]

Let's see if this will work

it did not work
oh well

 

[RJMasters]

Good Morning

Extremely tired here.

Trying to finish up some work, pokes around kitchen looking for some coffee.

Hope today is a good one for you Richard.