You can now call me the bionic single Dom

[spott]

I am not the egotistical
I am 53 years old and have never had a successful relationship
and my submissives seem to desert me

ah...hahahha, Richard! And my Doms always leave me.
But we've spoken of this...there's a lot of idiots out there

-SPOTT

 

[Richard49]

I am not the egotistical
I am 53 years old and have never had a successful relationship
and my submissives seem to desert me

ah...hahahha, Richard! And my Doms always leave me.
But we've spoken of this...there's a lot of idiots out there

-SPOTT

and you have now chosen to be in nilla relationship

I have discovered about me
that I "need"
because it is part of who I am
the D/s relationship

Welcome aboard sweetee

 

[spott]

How about instead we call you the Bionic Imprisoned Predator?

The clock is ticking.....

How about we get you a nice ballgag and some hot sauce for your hiney? You obviously want some special attention or you wouldn't be so rude and insensitive. Am I right?
-spott

 

[spott]

and you have now chosen to be in nilla relationship

I have discovered about me
that I "need"
because it is part of who I am
the D/s relationship

Welcome aboard sweetee

Yep. well, nilla won't be so bad, I hope. Who knows? maybe after some time, he'll develop a taste for sauce and pickles, too

Thank you for the welcome, Richard...
-spott

 

[Richard49]

Yep. well, nilla won't be so bad, I hope. Who knows? maybe after some time, he'll develop a taste for sauce and pickles, too

Thank you for the welcome, Richard...
-spott

IMHO

we are either D/s or we are not

playing at it
is not my cup of tea
though I know it is others

to each his/her own

You will find a lot here for fun and sharing

There are some people in 12 step programs
That give me an idea
I am ghoing ot start a thread for us 12 steppers
I will have to do it over on the genral board

 

[spott]

IMHO

we are either D/s or we are not

Probably true, but often we have an "undiscovered side" and just need someone to introduce us to the possibilities.

I lacked a partner, so I was celibate for many years. Not that there weren't possibilities and offers, but I'm really selective.
Why not? it's my life and my heart I'm offering. I even was told that I'm not special and I should be grateful for what I can get...

wrong. I am special. Everyone is special. No one should "settle". Why cast pearls before swine?
-spott

 

[lady-kat]

Yep. well, nilla won't be so bad, I hope. Who knows? maybe after some time, he'll develop a taste for sauce and pickles, too

Thank you for the welcome, Richard...
-spott

*waiving* Hello @ spott......

with regards to him developing a taste for sauce and pickes.... u will let me know how that recipe developes?

lol....

i have interest in such recipies....

 

[lady-kat]

Probably true, but often we have an "undiscovered side" and just need someone to introduce us to the possibilities.

I lacked a partner, so I was celibate for many years. Not that there weren't possibilities and offers, but I'm really selective.
Why not? it's my life and my heart I'm offering. I even was told that I'm not special and I should be grateful for what I can get...

wrong. I am special. Everyone is special. No one should "settle". Why cast pearls before swine?
-spott

spott.

agreed wholeheartely..

a local "dom" used the word "worthy" to me resently in an IM....

after i got done ROTFLMAOPIMP.... i blocked his sorry ass...

 

[spott]

*waiving* Hello @ spott......

with regards to him developing a taste for sauce and pickes.... u will let me know how that recipe developes?

lol....

i have interest in such recipies....

oh really? I may have to sell my canning supplies on EBay

Nothing sadder than when a Dom abandons you, and you have to dispose of your toys. What do you do? Have a yard sale? (Pardon me, but is there someplace I can try this flogger out?);
Flip them out a moving car on the expressway? (Wow! Look at Big John bounce!); have a ritual burial of the past, and worry about the dog digging Big John up and parading him around the neighborhood? How about erosion, and Big John emerging like giant pink asparagus in the Spring?...it is so very problematic!
-spott

 

[spott]

*
with regards to him developing a taste for sauce and pickes.... u will let me know how that recipe developes?
lol....

i have interest in such recipies....

certainment, madamoiselle! I'm not sure how to broach the subject, but he has recently shown some interest in glass dildoes...

-spott

 

[Richard49]

Nothing sadder than when a Dom abandons you-spott

How about when a submissive abandons a Dom?
What is he to do?

 

[Richard49]

oh really? I may have to sell my canning supplies on EBay

Nothing sadder than when a Dom abandons you, and you have to dispose of your toys. What do you do? Have a yard sale? (Pardon me, but is there someplace I can try this flogger out?);
Flip them out a moving car on the expressway? (Wow! Look at Big John bounce!); have a ritual burial of the past, and worry about the dog digging Big John up and parading him around the neighborhood? How about erosion, and Big John emerging like giant pink asparagus in the Spring?...it is so very problematic!
-spott

You made me laugh
almost a hard laugh

I left mine in there bag

Now when I dy
I wonder what people will think

 

[spott]

How about when a submissive abandons a Dom?
What is he to do?

Depends on the circumstances.

If the sub ain't coming back, or it is your policy not to take back a sub when she breaks trust, then you take some time to heal, and make yourself open to the possibility to love again.

There is no timetable. If there were, there would be a franchise of subs-R-Us, and I ain't talkin' 'bout no sandwich, Willis.... well, not right away

-spott

 

[lady-kat]

oh really? I may have to sell my canning supplies on EBay

-spott

eBay?
*ears perking a bit here*

lol.....

ah. please let me be of assistance with that..... for the selling of ...er...um...."toys" and canning suplies on eBay....

 

[spott]

You made me laugh
almost a hard laugh

I left mine in there bag

Now when I dy
I wonder what people will think

Well, Richard, that day comes for all of us... I just hope everyone gets a big laugh going through my stuff...should i will them to some non-friend and have them delivered to their office with much fanfare?

Maybe have a basket at the viewing with a handprinted sign that says "Help Yourself" ???

Hmmmm... the possibilities It's certainly nothing to be ashamed of.
-spott

 

[Richard49]

eBay?
*ears perking a bit here*

lol.....

ah. please let me be of assistance with that..... for the selling of ...er...um...."toys" and canning suplies on eBay....

Come on
it is OK
to tell people that you run E-bay auctions

you need to add a link

 

[Richard49]

Oh God Spott

I am glad I did not have coffee in my mouth reading your posts

I am not having a funeral
or
I Would have basket with stuff in it

It would blow the minds of some people

 

[lady-kat]

Come on
it is OK
to tell people that you run E-bay auctions

you need to add a link

perhaps Richard.

i will ask spot about her canning supplies and "other" interesting items.....

perk up my auctions a bit....
*looking around innocently*

 

[spott]

eBay?
*ears perking a bit here*

lol.....

ah. please let me be of assistance with that..... for the selling of ...er...um...."toys" and canning suplies on eBay....

I think I can sell my panties on EBay as tonneau covers...whaddyathimk?
-spott

 

[lady-kat]

I think I can sell my panties on EBay as tonneau covers...whaddyathimk?
-spott

oh big yes! lol.... panties on ebay, if not washed first..lol.... sell for big-o bucks... and socks as well......

we should discuss this....

 

[spott]

Oh God Spott

I am glad I did not have coffee in my mouth reading your posts

I am not having a funeral
or
I Would have basket with stuff in it

It would blow the minds of some people

I have asked for canned goods in lieu of flowers...dammit, if you can't send me flowers while I'm alive and can enjoy them..***** is short, ladies and gents...

Actually, this subject isn't as morbid as one might think...that is how i knew...how I knew it was love and that it would last...when we started swapping funeral plans...get all that nasty stuff out of the way so we can just LIVE...as long as we have, and just pour it all out for each other.
-spott

 

[spott]

oh big yes! lol.... panties on ebay, if not washed first..lol.... sell for big-o bucks... and socks as well......

we should discuss this....

did you see that auction for her husbands sox and a CD of her feet...too funny. I am serious.

Actually there was this little game I used to play when I was out of town...drop a pair of panties on a busy street and then watch the poor freaks circle for them...no one actually wants to get caught picking them up, but they WANT them, you know...?

Bars, too...but it depends on the bar

I call them poor freaks because they obviously don't have anyone that can provide them with their desired objects...how sad.

-spott

 

[Richard49]

Anyone want my underwear?

 

[spott]

Oh God Spott

I am glad I did not have coffee in my mouth reading your posts

I am not having a funeral
or
I Would have basket with stuff in it

It would blow the minds of some people

Yah, especially the half-used tubes of Doc Johnson's JoyGel, with the teeth marks on them
-spott

 

[spott]

Anyone want my underwear?

Crusty old boxer shorts? or the leather posing briefs?
-spott