You can now call me the bionic single Dom

[snowy ciara]

we're down to brat brew, I think..

pushing the Fuzzy Domme off my lap and going to make coffee..

 

[PrettyKitty427]

Re: Another loss in my life

I am not close to any of my relatives
My Aunt Iona's kids and I were close when I was very young
Iona was same age as my bio mother

I was also close back than to my cousin Billy
He was a gang member
and I learn a thing or two from him
he spent most of one summer with us

Billy passed away this morning

When people pass away it is only their flesh that hardens and their blood that runs dry.
They live on through your memory of them.

Still sucks though

for your cousin

 

[snowy ciara]

morning ciara.
this has been such a beautiful summer here, i am going to be sorry to see it go too ;-(

my only consolation is that the falls are usually as lovely as the summer.

it's what comes after fall that i dread
grrrrrr....
all that wonderful snow
NOT.


here's a few fall pics from a couple of years ago.

i think it was one of our best ever

Absolutely stunning pictures, kat. I like the migrating geese ones best I think. Or wait, maybe I like the wooden bridge best. But the tree colours were lovely too. Oh heck, I just like them..

 

[lady-kat]

Absolutely stunning pictures, kat. I like the migrating geese ones best I think. Or wait, maybe I like the wooden bridge best. But the tree colours were lovely too. Oh heck, I just like them..

hi ciara. i'm glad you enjoyed. i had fun that day with that walk thru the woods near me.

 

[Richard49]

Home from the fair
Home from the fair
Home from the northwest Michigan fair

oh what wonderful eye candy

but I missed her

 

[snowy ciara]

Did you have fun? Did you eat lots of cotton candy and turn your tongue pretty colors? Tell us about the eyecandy, please!

curling up on the sofa with a glass of chocolate milk

 

[Richard49]

Did you have fun? Did you eat lots of cotton candy and turn your tongue pretty colors? Tell us about the eyecandy, please!

curling up on the sofa with a glass of chocolate milk

Well no cotton candy

I did eat Gibby fries
oh so yummy
and a smoked BBQ pork sandwich

It has been cold and rainy here for days
and tonight no rain but chillie
and still

sweet little young breasts
yummy tummies
tigh little asses in shorts, short skirts
or tight jeans

Oh when I was young I traveled with carnival
tonight brough back memories ... sweet sweet memories

 

[snowy ciara]

hmm.. Circus life sounds fun..

I'd be a lion tamer (RAAAAARRRR!) or a clown or a magician or something..

What's a gibby fry?

 

[Richard49]

hmm.. Circus life sounds fun..

I'd be a lion tamer (RAAAAARRRR!) or a clown or a magician or something..

What's a gibby fry?

i never lived circus life
just carnival
i was pitch man

Gibby's is traveling french fry thingy
the best fries ever

 

[snowy ciara]

bebopping in, leaving cleats, pads and soccer balls neatly in the front closet

Hi Richard..



How are you today? Today we kicked some southside booty all over the feild. Sadly, I did take a spill and get some else's cleat marks across my butt. Grumble grumble, that's so gonna leave a mark!

French fries sound good, but I think I want a pb and rasperry j shamich with chocolate milk..

heads for the kitchen

 

[snowy ciara]

bebopping in, leaving cleats, pads and soccer balls neatly in the front closet

Hi Richard..



How are you today? Today we kicked some southside booty all over the feild. Sadly, I did take a spill and get some else's cleat marks across my butt. Grumble grumble, that's so gonna leave a mark!

French fries sound good, but I think I want a pb and rasperry j shamich with chocolate milk..

heads for the kitchen

 

[Richard49]

bebopping in, leaving cleats, pads and soccer balls neatly in the front closet

Hi Richard..



How are you today? Today we kicked some southside booty all over the feild. Sadly, I did take a spill and get some else's cleat marks across my butt. Grumble grumble, that's so gonna leave a mark!

French fries sound good, but I think I want a pb and rasperry j shamich with chocolate milk..

heads for the kitchen

make some coffee for me please
and we will talk

before I send you kneeling at the foot of my bed

Congraluations on kicking booty

 

[snowy ciara]

making himself a half cup of bitchin brew

wanna see the cleat marks on my booty?

 

[Richard49]

making himself a half cup of bitchin brew

wanna see the cleat marks on my booty?

yummy coffee
it pleases me

let me see your booty

 

[Richard49]

Well I almost meet the pres today
ened up being disrespected by his staff
and called a baby killer by the protestors

 

[snowy ciara]

(((Richard))))

Wish I was there to kick some booty for you. I'd do it too. Cleats and all.

wandering out to make coffee before work

 

[Richard49]

(((Richard))))

Wish I was there to kick some booty for you. I'd do it too. Cleats and all.

wandering out to make coffee before work

yup
you know she was a hit subbie also <smile>

Bring your booty back here
and let me look at those cleat marks

 

[Richard49]

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=2499&Tracking=516311&BannerID=544657&GT1=4628


Young women, same old problem
By Margot Carmichael Lester

William, 45, has always dated younger women. It was only recently, however, that he detected a pattern in those relationships. “I end up raising them — helping them solve their problems, grow up and expand their horizons,” he says.

And what’s wrong with that, you might ask?

Plenty, says William. “Sure enough, they always leave me for a younger guy.”

So why does he keep going back? We asked relationship expert April Masini, L.A.-based author of the best-selling book, Date Out Of Your League, why guys like William persist in putting the men back in mentoring.

Besides ego-boosting good looks, what does a younger woman offer an older man?

“There is actually quite a bit that young women have to offer older men besides looks alone,” Masini says. “On the most obvious level, there’s that fun, young energy they have. There’s naiveté, which can be attractive when compared with the cynicism of some older women. There’s a playfulness — a lack of the seriousness that can sometimes accompany being an adult and having responsibility. And, for some men, there’s the fact that these young girls look up to them — as father figures and as mentors. That, in and of itself, is very attractive.”

All of these things, though mutually beneficial for a while, eventually wear thin for most women.

“If the relationship is… based on the man being a sort of father or mentor figure, problems can – and likely will – arise once [the younger woman] really begins to grow and come into her own,” Masini notes. “Even for couples where there is little-to-no age discrepancy, people often grow in different directions, leading to the dissolution of the relationship.”

Add to that a generation gap and you’ve got an even higher chance that the direction each person moves will be away from the other.

Masini explains: “Like any child breaking away from a parent, she may want to establish more of an independent life, depending on him less and less, perhaps even becoming resentful toward him for the power he has wielded over her.”

The result can be a nasty break-up, because as she tries to break away, he realizes he’s losing her along with his control. That often spurs a role reversal.

“The man she once looked up to begins to become more and more insecure, more possessive, more demanding and more needy as he tries to regain control of the relationship and her,” Masini says. And, unfortunately, this behavior usually does just the opposite. “Not only is he unable to regain his position of power in the relationship — he succeeds in driving her away for good.”

Is there hope for William and his brethren to break the cycle? Yes, Masini asserts.

The older man/younger woman can increase their odds of staying together if they:
Are motivated to grow together in the same direction
Share interests, goals, values and belief systems
Commit to making it work
Accept that they will both go through changes as individuals – and that their relationship will change, too
Success in this arena is dependent on what each party wants to get out of the relationship.

“If he simply likes the physical attraction or energy of a younger woman with little concern for what lies beneath the surface, both parties should beware,” Masini continues. “Fortunately, there are some [women] out there who have their lives together, who aren’t looking for a father figure, and who just find the stability, wisdom, and maturity of an older man attractive. But if he’s drawn to girls who will idolize and defer to him, he enters into these relationships at his own risk – knowing full-well these can only go so far or last for so long.”

 

[snowy ciara]

bouncing in, flashing my cleat marked booty at Richard then pouncing with a big old

Interesting post up there, Richard. Requires some ponderation..

plops down on the pondering couch, and well, ponders...

 

[Richard49]

You know us guys have body image issues also

 

[snowy ciara]

I do now.. never really thought of it before.. I mean, with girls/ladies/whatever, there's a lot of pressure to look like Cosmo or Glamour or something. And I'm not just talking about tall, skinny women with no breasts. Lets face it.. I'm kinda short, and kinda muscely and a bit too athletic looking for most guys. When I do hit the gay bars, most folks think I'm a boi or a baby butch. Personally, I find it flattering and I think they're both sexy as hell. But I'm not a baby butch or a boi. It's not me. I'd be a girly girl if I thought I could pull it off. But even if I was a girly girl, I still wouldn't be the next Tyra or Iman or anyone. Everyone has these labels they wanna stick on you according to what they think you look like.. Like you were a jar of pickles or something.. (I'd be a dill pickle I think.)

Sorry for randomly ranting in your thread, Richard. Hope you're having a good night.

curling up on the sofa with a glass of chockie milk and a book and the Fuzzy Domme

PS.. Bonus Geek points if someone can find the random literary reference in my rant...

 

[Richard49]

For us guys there is everything from rock stars, sports stars and movie stars ............................

than some of us have been told we are ugly by one or more people and it had hit home ...................

maybe we have/had a something ...for me it was buck teeth..
that people made fun off

now I fight weight like no tomorrow

ya
I got body image issues

 

[Richard49]

As you can see from other threads I have started a new exploration of self and the lifestyle ...................

I hope ya all will go over and read the Daddy thread
(found one on collarme also ... it has a different tone and information .. it is worth a read)
and the submissive, slave or sensualist thread

I have also posted to some other threads
and of course my detractors have taken there shoots

WD posted I need to read the book on positive thinking
I wanted to respond that his woman was just the pilot
to "she" who was deported

I did hear from "she" last night
It was a sad call IMHO

and than someone took a shoot at the way I ask
for clarifcation ... good old rosco .......

I am enjoying my learning and with the exchange of e-mails
I am having ............

the being called a baby killer the other day has taken a lot out of me ................... to many memories back ............
and to be treated so badly by the snut nose Bush staff person ..
shaking head.......

and the leavs are already changing color .........

a year ago I had been to school in Provo
and was preparing to go to San Franisco ...
and had $ in my pocket ..............

and life moves on ...............

 

[Bandit58]

Hello Richard

I tend to be a "lurker" more than a poster on this board but will definitely go and check out those threads

It is interesting that you also have detractors here.....Master only posts here infrequently because apparently He doesn't fit what certain others think of as a "real Master".....it is also interesting that when He did post, 2 or 3 years ago, one of His detractors did not have a sub of his own but at that time Master had two

I am glad that you have heard from her, even if it was not a happy call....at least you know she is all right

There is so much in the lifestyle to explore.....I feel like I have only scratched the surface.....

 

[Richard49]

My detractors go back to when I exposed a certain person
who is still with us
unfortunately
for what she really was/is
and the changes that were made on these BDSM
boards

I seldom post on lit any longer
except here

but i did venture out today
or was it yesterday

and of course the two new threads I posted