Would you sleep with a married person?

I agree as well maybe not in every sense cuz we haven't talked extensively about this. However, I do believe that you can have a relationship outside of your marriage that does not take away from the marriage. There are times when it's simply a physical act and there's times when your meeting and need that you're not getting in your marriage. I love my wife and coming to this site is not a matter of not caring about her or her not turning me on it's about meeting a need that's just not met in my everyday life.

^^^^ THIS. This has always been my no 1 criterion in selecting my lovers. I do not believe in the institution of marriage, it's not for me. My early experiences have shown me that none of these wo/men would cheat on their spouse willingly, and except for that ONE crucial thing that's missing, their marriages are important to them.

However, there are any number of men and women who are not getting their needs met within marriage. I like to provide married men that safety valve that would help them fulfill their own desires/needs while meeting the expectations of society as a family man. It's immaterial to me whether such men are related to me or not - hence my incest experiences.
 
I used to think not, but then I used to be married too. Now, generally, my approach is that the fidelity of other peoples relationships isn't really my business. That's not to say someone being married wouldn't factor at all in mg decision to sleep with them. I'd want to know what kind of relationship they wanted with me: if they're planning on replacing their spouse, or just getting revenge, I'm not interested. If they just want an easy fuck and they don't expect anything more from me, I don't see why I wouldn't oblige.

I've slept with my ex 5 or 6 times since we split up and she's got in to a (long-distance) relationship with someone else although it's worth mentioning that we do still live together.
 
I did and justified it to myself by thinking I wasn't doing anything wrong cause I wasn't married.
 
Married meln

My wife prefered that the men I had sex with were married. I generally honored her preference.
 
I haven't knowingly. All partners know and accept yes. I would never accept or trust someone that is sneaking around.
Agree wit this, all parties should know what is going on.
But in sissy's case She knows all and is the one that sets up and approves the sex.
 
This girl in college wanted to have sex with me. She had a fiance & was willing to leave him for me. Nothing even happened between us. She had this obsessive fixation on me. I turned her down though.
 
This girl in college wanted to have sex with me. She had a fiance & was willing to leave him for me. Nothing even happened between us. She had this obsessive fixation on me. I turned her down though.

Not your type?

I'd only do girl-on-girl somehow fucking a married woman as a woman doesn't feel like cheating
 
This girl in college wanted to have sex with me. She had a fiance & was willing to leave him for me. Nothing even happened between us. She had this obsessive fixation on me. I turned her down though.

It sounds like cold feet to me.
 
Yes. And have. 3 women total. 1 was a fling. 1 was a short affair. 1 turned into a 2.5 year relationship and the best sexual partner I've ever had.

And if things work out with my boss, I'll do it again...
 
No I wouldn't. From the sites we're on, I get probably 10-15 hits a week from married guys. I send a no thanks and go from there. In the rare case they email back, I tell them we'll meet for coffee if she comes along. No takers yet.
 
When I was younger, my coworker invited me over to hang out at his house and help his wife with their new computer. He went to work. She led me to the bedroom where the computer was. Within seconds my shorts were around my ankles and my cock was in her mouth. I didn’t last long and shot a load down her throat. Later we were in the living room and she hopped up on my lap and started kissing me. I resisted at first but eventually gave in and fucked her on the floor. I blew a huge load inside her. They eventually got divorced. I still work with him.
 
Married couple

I met a couple years ago. I met them several weeks ago for some "mutual over the clothes touching". Well, weather kept us in the car longer & I ended up getting a blowjob ... which was awesome. The couple would like to keep progressing with me having sex with her. I would like to be all on board, but I still have married guy guilt. Ugh! I am just hoping that they are on the up & up & are clean, but I am not sure I can rely on email relations. Any advice/thoughts?
 
I didn't sleep with her, but we did spend two hours naked in a hotel room in Quito.
 
I would. I have.

There's something about them that makes the situation so hot.
If their partner (s) know, it's good to find an open minded person.
If they don't, there's a taboo element.
 
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