chitrashi
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Feb 9, 2011
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- 260
I agree as well maybe not in every sense cuz we haven't talked extensively about this. However, I do believe that you can have a relationship outside of your marriage that does not take away from the marriage. There are times when it's simply a physical act and there's times when your meeting and need that you're not getting in your marriage. I love my wife and coming to this site is not a matter of not caring about her or her not turning me on it's about meeting a need that's just not met in my everyday life.
^^^^ THIS. This has always been my no 1 criterion in selecting my lovers. I do not believe in the institution of marriage, it's not for me. My early experiences have shown me that none of these wo/men would cheat on their spouse willingly, and except for that ONE crucial thing that's missing, their marriages are important to them.
However, there are any number of men and women who are not getting their needs met within marriage. I like to provide married men that safety valve that would help them fulfill their own desires/needs while meeting the expectations of society as a family man. It's immaterial to me whether such men are related to me or not - hence my incest experiences.
