why is it the only girls interested in fucking me

[perks]

you must of misunderstood the other thread or else i didn't explain well, it was using a hypothetical example of me being married to a girl sorry for any confusion.

and once more I am not meeting with these girls in school, I am meeting them in there homes with thier parents at thier parents request to tutoe to mentor, to be a stabalizing influence in thier life.

I do not talk ever about sex. I won't even do that if that is the school subject being tutored. I get the parents to handle that.

I don't look talk, behave to these girls in any sexual manner.

do you think talking or behaving sexually is the only way to be open emotionally to a person? It's not.

When a girl is young and a virgin, she doesn't have a clue about the reality of sexual things anyway. She knows when someone cares about her. She knows when the path is open for her to care about someone else. That emotional connection along with a physical attraction<which is biological> is more than enough.

I'm sure it's difficult for you to be in the situation. But, it's not okay for you to be obtuse. You need to be aware that the possibilities are there. You're the adult.

 

[rexfelis]

A friend of mine has a saying:

If there's grass on the field, play ball.

I have a better saying.

Jailbait is called that for a reason.

 

[BustyTheClown]

I have a better saying.

Jailbait is called that for a reason.

Excellent.

 

[Wizard]

Carefull Todd.............I run the other way anytime there is an under age girl around............Hell I won't even ride the baby sitter home after a night of sitting..........My wife rides them home.

Only takes one false comment to make your life hell........I help out with alot of groups that have young girls and guys..I am very careful of my actions and what I say to them.........I also as you said try really hard never to be alone with one..........Male or female..............
I have to much to loose in my life to have some little pissed off teenager try to take it away.

All I want to say is just be very carefull.......These are crazy times..........

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

Carefull Todd.............I run the other way anytime there is an under age girl around............Hell I won't even ride the baby sitter home after a night of sitting..........My wife rides them home.

Only takes one false comment to make your life hell........I help out with alot of groups that have young girls and guys..I am very careful of my actions and what I say to them.........I also as you said try really hard never to be alone with one..........Male or female..............
I have to much to loose in my life to have some little pissed off teenager try to take it away.

All I want to say is just be very carefull.......These are crazy times..........

believe me wizard that id front and foremost in my mind, that iw why the parents have to invite me over and that is why parents have to be in the room, in eyesight and/or ear shot.

the girls usually let themselves be know through notes, which do/will/have been seen by thier parents and usually discussed witht he girl and me and the parent{s}

I hide no secrets from the parents they are the ones who entrust in me thier girls.

 

[Starblayde]

I may be the only one out of the loop here but...

What the heck do you do as a job, Todd?

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

I may be the only one out of the loop here but...

What the heck do you do as a job, Todd?

Jack all trades ace of none is the easiest explaination, aside from saying everything

 

[Starblayde]

aaah, a finger in every pie....


oh wait, bad analogy, given this thread's subject

 

[Ishmael]

always are underage girls?

Another one today while talking to me told me how much she valued my friendship and guidance and metoring in the last couple of years. and said she thought that someone as sensitive like me would be a great first sexaul partner to learn with.

As usual I said no and told her to wait until she was legal and to see if she still felt that way. The ones before never did after the wait.

Most are still my friends and most thank me for not taking advantage of them at that time. Most of them really respect themselves more now for having not done it.

And no i didn't try to save thier souls

I became a friend/mentor stayed a freind/mentor.

Why can't some legal age girl want to bump funkies with me, why do they always have to be underage?

Because that is the person that you are Todd, and the person that you want to be. And Todd, that isn't a bad thing.

Ishmael

 

[rexfelis]

Carefull Todd.............I run the other way anytime there is an under age girl around............Hell I won't even ride the baby sitter home after a night of sitting..........My wife rides them home.

Only takes one false comment to make your life hell........I help out with alot of groups that have young girls and guys..I am very careful of my actions and what I say to them.........I also as you said try really hard never to be alone with one..........Male or female..............
I have to much to loose in my life to have some little pissed off teenager try to take it away.

All I want to say is just be very carefull.......These are crazy times..........

You can say that again. They's sad and sick, these times we live in.

 

[dreamer]

Maybe you'd have better luck with more mature women if your attitude was a little more mature?

Why are you concerned with finding someone to 'fuck' you instead of finding someone to have a relationship with?

In my limited, and VERY unsuccessful experience women seem to like that.

just my two cents