Why is it that family SUCKS???????

[Nobody Special]

I'm just wondering why it is that some people in families are so supportive yet back stab you at the same time... and play games with you till you are about to say FUCKIT!!! and do something rash.... Like Suicide, or just move with out telling anyone where you are moving to??

One Example: At my family Christmas party, that we have every year, I was going to anounce the new baby..... But I had annouced it earlier to a far away Aunt that wouldn't be there and asked her to keep it to herself..... ( We hadn't told anyone on my side of the family yet, exp.for my mom 2 months ago to wich she had told me that she wasn't telling any one about it cause it was my responsibility to do so). Well I get to the Party and before I can even say a word every one is either Congratsing me or giving me the 3rd degree of why I havn't told them yet... I then talked to that Aunt that I mentioned and asked her about it and she went on to say that she knew about it long before I told her...

Now.... My Mother has given us grief over having another dog in the house and has wanted us to have her distroyed since the first time I told her of her. and wants to send NSW back to Ohio so that My mother can have me sign over my paychecks to her so that the bills will get paid..

My Brother.. has made many comments to me and freinds of mine saying how against NSW he is and how I should be happy that I'm only shooting blanks where my dick is concerned..

I do try to Ignor them.. But things just get to piled up to the point that I start taking things out on NSW and that is not fair to her... If she wasn't 9months along, I would be packing up and moving tonight and just dissapearing from every one for a wile.... Even feel like just leaving my mother a note saying that she will see her Grand baby(s) when they are old enough to come and visit her, maybe in about 18 to 20 yrs...

I'm really don't know what to do at this moment....... Exept just Grin and bare it.... till march or april when NSW and the baby can go on long trips again....

sorry to be all bitchy but I'm tired of making NSW feel like shit when she is not the ones that I'm pissed at....

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[Rick DeVille]

It's that time of the year when that old saying.

What do familes and garbage have in common?

They both stink after three days

 

[nasty]

Am I missing something

Families who suck? Isn't that incest? OH...you mean suck, as in stink. I get it, now.

 

[tmuyo]

hell, my family drove me insane until i left. now i have a surrogate family, a fiancee, and HAPPINESS !!!

yes, you and nsw should run away from the evil members of your family. i did and now i'm feeling slightly sane.

^_^

 

[Siren]

 

[Cheyenne]

Your family sounds relatively normal to me. A new baby is big news! I'm surprised you tried to keep it so quiet from your family rather than shouting it from the rooftops! If they aren't happy for you, it is their loss. All that matters is that you and NSW are happy and looking forward to being parents soon. Enjoy what you can from the time with your family and then be grateful that you don't live with them anymore.

 

[LadyDarkFire]

It's that time of the year when that old saying.

What do familes and garbage have in common?

They both stink after three days

That's Guests and Fish. It's actually a quote from Benjamin Franklin.

 

[Moridin187]

This is the exact reason why I did what I did Nobody...

The last major family gathering I went to was my Aunt's wedding, everyone got piss drunk, my cousin hit on me, and my grandfather threw my uncle over the side of the boat while they were in a fist fight. This is the kind of demented shit that families will do to you.


Do what I did, distance yourself from your family and start a new one. I've adopted one brother and three sisters into my family, and I love all of them and get along with them a Hell of a lot better than blood relatives. Don't have family gatherings at your house, don't go to them unless it's necessary, and if the shit starts to fly, remember.

You Don't Owe These People ANYTHING!

You can leave at anytime. The only person you owe anything is your mom, and you don't owe her enough to go through this kind of bullshit, especially when she's slinging the shit at you from the other side, when she should be backing you up.

 

[lobito]

well, the way I se it is ya fucked up FIRST, by telling your Aunt, NOT to say anything, that's like saying go ahead, if ya want to tell EVERYONE else, then be our guest, it's really not that big a deal.

Next ya fucked up by telling someone who didn't care about, much less for your wife. Family of not, mother or not.

Family sucks as Siren said, because they can. They'll tell you one minute they love you and your wife, tehn teh next their stabbing both of you in the back, as evidenced here.

Hell if that was my family situation, I wouldn't have told anyone at all in my family. Especially if I new they didn't care for my wife.

The best thing I can say for you to do, is do everything you possibly can, to convince NSW that SHE'S the number one in your life, over the rest of the assholes in your family. Don't so much as bring up any of their names, or anything they do/did, to help get you into this situation.

(I hope you read this the way I intended it to come out)

lobito

 

[tmuyo]

families are meant to show you how to REALLY learn to hate people. otherwise you'd go through life taking offense to everything said to you by someone who had the beneficially shitty family, that tought the person to be cruel, evil, and a smarmy dickhead when needed.

the only exception to this i can find tend to be the unregistered pussies and yoyoslut.

 

[Siren]

Lobito baby

 

[lobito]

Re: Lobito baby

We think alike............

Let's fuck.

Well, I was just planning on going to bed, but I've got another 3-5 minutes in me I think.

 

[Nobody Special]

Here is some more of the Situation:

I was mind set on moving to Ohio over a year ago to be with NSW. so on the first visit here, to my Mothers House that I was and am still living in, I got a phone call from my mom at 9am giving me the 3rd degree on the girl that I brought up with me... well that is not as bad as to say that we had gotton in at 3am that morning and she lives more htne 15 min away..

so after that weekend Mom Offerd us to stay here till we could save money move... so then the Job search began to where neither of us could find jobs for a month, and then we both kept getting laid off from the jobs that we did find and that has been going on for the last year and half with many weeks inbetween jobs... and now the bills have been pilling up and shut off cause we can't pay them. And so my Mom is being a bitch and blamming NSW cause Nobody in this fucking town will hire us.. ( I knew that this is what was going to happen if I stayed here any ways) and the bills arn't getting paid.

that is one reason why we are looking to go back to Ohio... where we can get decent paying Jobs that will pay the bills and then some..

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[Guest]

Perhaps if you accepted Jesus Christ into your life, things would get better.

 

[Nobody Special]

Perhaps if you accepted Jesus Christ into your life, things would get better.

Sorry Todd and No Offence intended.

I don't Believe in a Mythology

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[lobito]

Perhaps if you accepted Jesus Christ into your life, things would get better.

So, Jesus Christ is giving people jobs now? Wow, I knew I shoulda applied there. I bet the pay is really good too, huh? Maybe it's the relatives that "NEED" Jesus in their lives, then they might learn to be accepting of others.

 

[Moridin187]

Perhaps if you accepted Jesus Christ into your life, things would get better.

What the Hell does He have to do with Anything in this thread??

 

[Laurel]

The family I was born into was similarly inadequate. Therefore, I ditched them and formed my own little family. And what a cute lil family it is! Mommy, daddy, boy kitty, girl kitty!

Kinship should not be an excuse for abuse. When a family member takes advantage of the family tie to treat you like shit, I say ditch 'em. Easier said than done, I know, but once done you will be SOO much happier. Family members should be held accountable the same way non-family members are. You shouldn't have to put up with cruelty for the sake of "family".

Break the chains! Be free! Happy Holidays!

 

[Guest]

Sorry Todd and No Offence intended.

I don't Believe in a Mythology

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Satan hasn't pointed out your troll either, has he?

 

[Nobody Special]

Satan hasn't pointed out your troll either, has he?

Why would a Mythological Creature point out my troll??

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[Nobody Special's wife]

honey just wanted you to know that I love you

 

[Todd]

If I want to say something I will say it under my own damn name, not a troll name or a fake name.

Nobody Special and Nobodies Specials wife and I talk on Instant messangers I think we know what each feels about the other and the troll is no where near the truth about how we three feel toward one another.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

If I want to say something I will say it under my own damn name, not a troll name or a fake name.

Nobody Special and Nobodies Specials wife and I talk on Instant messangers I think we know what each feels about the other and the troll is no where near the truth about how we three feel toward one another.

Honey we are smart enough to know when you post to us beside it more fun to talk to you on Im

Beside we know you love us

HUGs todd
NSW