Why do you come to Lit?

[OldFred65]

We were looking on line for people with similar interests and experiences to ours and found Lit.

 

[jsmiam]

Back in the days of AOL, (I’m male btw) I had been told once or twice that I was good at cybersex and I should write some erotica. Eventually I did.

It’s interesting to occasionally strike up conversations and friendships too. I tend not to get into lengthy public conversations, that’s not the kind of being watched I had in mind. It’s an interesting crowd here to say the least.

To the budding writers here, go for it! Create a second screen name if you’re nervous about it for the stories. There’s also an authors forum, and how-to threads here and there, and a way to try and sometimes successfully reach out to people who might help edit stories. And counseling threads too, since certain types of stories have trolls and haters (in addition to fans and supportive readers)

 

[TempSpawn]

Plus..... I really like hearing what others are getting up to behind closed doors ( and the ones that are open).

A certain amount of inhibition is lost also with the interaction with strangers. Which is also a turn on for me.

Basically, I think everything is a turn on these days.

This is something I can relate to very much.

 

[EdEc]

I came to Lit for the stories and eventually moved on to the groups. Very exciting.

 

[cubbies4vrs]

To connect with people, like minded women, and masturbate

For me, Lit is an outlet, one that gives me a chance to talk about things that I don't talk about in real life. And without it, I believe I would have a lot harder time being good. Hell, I suspect I could not have stayed monogamous as long as I did, nor probably have limited my extra-martial activities to just one other woman, without Lit. And I adore my Hubby and would never intentionally hurt him. It's just sometimes I need to express/release whatever not-so-marriage friendly thing I might be thinking. And Lit has been a great place for me to do that over the years. And of course, I like the stories and pics and such.

So, why do you come to Lit?

I really enjoy chatting with all Litsters about any and everything. I have met nice exciting people and I have met those who i will not comment about. But I enjoy reading through the Forums, and of course some really great stories..

 

[Easyvirtue]

No emotional attachment to my wife who hasn’t made love to me in months and I have so much pent up sexual frustration but can’t leave her!! Need some people to chat with and help me release these feelings I have!

 

[cubbies4vrs]

No emotional attachment to my wife who hasn’t made love to me in months and I have so much pent up sexual frustration but can’t leave her!! Need some people to chat with and help me release these feelings I have!

Always up to chat..

 

[dkak001]

Mostly to read, and learn. Sometimes you'll catch me post, but for the most part it's about finding people with different perspectives on things related to sexuality. Sometimes I learn new things during that process, other times I get bored with the responses.
In general I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality (at least with my partner), but not so much my fetishes. This helps me gain some perspective on that. Well, that, and the occasional boobie or butt pictures... ...but I'm really here to read the articles...

 

[ShaneoD]

I like the audio thread, big surprise right lol, I like keeping in touch with people. And somewhat ironically the reason I joined is now a tertiary reason for logging on, that human emotion of horniness

 

[SPORTZDOK]

For me, Lit is an outlet, one that gives me a chance to talk about things that I don't talk about in real life. And without it, I believe I would have a lot harder time being good. Hell, I suspect I could not have stayed monogamous as long as I did, nor probably have limited my extra-martial activities to just one other woman, without Lit. And I adore my Hubby and would never intentionally hurt him. It's just sometimes I need to express/release whatever not-so-marriage friendly thing I might be thinking. And Lit has been a great place for me to do that over the years. And of course, I like the stories and pics and such.

So, why do you come to Lit?

Ditto That for the most part.

 

[MetalRabbit51]

Sex is a big part of our physical and spiritual being. Yet in society it's often ignored, misunderstood or demonized. I have always sought to understand my sexuality, and that of others, better. Lit is a community of writers, readers and artists who enjoy connecting with each other about sex. I find it a valuable resource for this reason. It can be exasperating, but more often it's a fun hang, and a platform to voice my own opinions and questions.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

For my husband and I its as simple as this; we love sex! Not just the physical aspect of it between us or one of our partners but reading about it, chatting about it, fantasizing about it, discovering new bedroom ideas even role playing various scenarios if the situation is right. I am more the typist than he is so I do the writing but he sometimes joins while I am doing so, but he does not mind me being here and playing if I am alone. On more than one occasion, we have had to set the laptop aside and go at each other from what we were engaging in here. Just another path to that "explosive ending" we all know and love.

 

[Cotswolds]

It's a place i come to from time to time when i need to blow off a little steam. Love the pics, the stories and get to chat to a few interesting people who i wouldn't do if I didnt dip my toe once in a while. I've had a while away from the forum and its nice to see some familar folk still about.

 

[Taggy1]

It’s somewhere I can chat about anything and everything. No judgment given either way

 

[MarionsLover]

I'm here for the erotic exploration. Growing up a repressed Mormon I used to think I was a horribly deviant kinky pervert.
Now I've learned I'm pretty vanilla. I'm just a horny older guy who likes sex and would be ok with his wife enjoying a three way. Or if my 31 year old attractive daughter said "Dad, I want you to fuck me" I'd be ok with that too.
So I read and write to explore all that and masturbate to some good fantasies.

 

[Mtnmike]

It’s somewhere I can chat about anything and everything. No judgment given either way

This right there, plus only sex life I have anymore.

 

[Taggy1]

This right there, plus only sex life I have anymore.

It’s all fun (or should be) on here

 

[Wishingbox]

For me, Lit is an outlet, one that gives me a chance to talk about things that I don't talk about in real life. And without it, I believe I would have a lot harder time being good. Hell, I suspect I could not have stayed monogamous as long as I did, nor probably have limited my extra-martial activities to just one other woman, without Lit. And I adore my Hubby and would never intentionally hurt him. It's just sometimes I need to express/release whatever not-so-marriage friendly thing I might be thinking. And Lit has been a great place for me to do that over the years. And of course, I like the stories and pics and such.

So, why do you come to Lit?

I feel very similar. A huge part of Lit for me has been an outlet and vent for my higher than my spouse’s sex drive. It’s also been a way to discover new things and find like minded people.

I don’t feel so alone or odd passion wise.

 

[Strixaluco]

I came here to spend some time, stayed for the company.

I have been too tired to read anything more serious, and soppy romance novels (say, those by Harlequin) feel all the same when you have read a bunch. Much more variance in here, and some writers are much, much better. Besides, I was frustrated and I don't like to hookup for sex only. On the forum I found some nice people and one very eye-opening thread which might have just changed the rest of my life.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

I first found Lit for the stories. But I keep coming back for not only the stories but also the chance to read about other oriole’s fantasies and experiences. I’m a happily married man, but there are past experiences and current desires that have to be talked about outside that relationship. Kit’s a place to do that.

 

[Sweet_b19]

Originally came here as a nerdy horny 20-something to read all of the lit stories and eventually stumbled upon the forums and chat. I come here to kill time, chat, browse endlessly, get myself worked up. Depends on the day and my mood

 

[ericalauren]

I started reading erotica on Literotica a long time ago. It wasn't until later that I started using the forum.

 

[sterculius]

I joined this forum in order to confess and talk about my outrageous secret sex life and to reveal to the world who and what I truly am. I'm a Cocksucker. Aside from the many men whose cocks I've sucked, very few people are aware of my oral obsession, or of the humiliating and degrading sexual acts I've eagerly and willingly engaged in and performed. For me, it's cathartic.

 

[nostuff]

I came for the stories. The amateur pics were certainly interesting, but reading is what really fueled my fantasies.

I suspect my reading list was typical for most straight guys, meaning I wanted lesbian porn. Funny how the male mind works, our fascination with the people least likely to want us. But pretty standard stuff, just the same.

Then something changed, and I began to develop an interest in men. The interest was slow in coming, largely because I refused to accept that I might desire cock. But I gradually found myself sneaking peaks at stories about men being forced by wives or girlfriends into being gay, and eventually, I found myself reading about pure gay sex, without the involvement of women.

Not that I'd ever experienced sex with another man, but the desire was clearly there and growing.

One of the stories that really captured my imagination described going to a bathhouse in Denver. Probably because I'd been to Denver a couple times for business as well as being far enough from home that Denver just seemed safe. Then everything fell into place as business took me back to Denver once again. My last night in town, I looked up the address and called a Lyft. I experienced sex with three men that night. It blew my mind.

When I got home, I wanted to tell someone what I'd experienced, but I decided it was best kept a secret if I didn't want chaos at home. One night a couple months later, I logged onto Lit and posted my story on the GLBT forum. I've been reading the forum ever since.

Why, I'm not entirely sure, beyond wanting to express my desire for cock. A way of declaring myself, I suppose, without actually exposing myself. There is comfort in being anonymous.

 

[Strixaluco]

I suspect my reading list was typical for most straight guys, meaning I wanted lesbian porn. Funny how the male mind works, our fascination with the people least likely to want us. But pretty standard stuff, just the same.

Well, it means 2 women for you watch or read about.

I am an all straight gal, and sexy pictures of women have me going all "meh, boring". But I have read plenty of gay stories here at Lit... 2 hot men, and some insight into how men think!