Tips? Trying to re-introduce dildos to wife

[BrickedUpHubby]

Hey all!

Bit of a toy noob here, and I’d love some guidance and feedback. I’m wanting to re-introduce dildos back into our sex life, as it’s not something we’ve played with since our first year of marriage a decade ago.

She’s voiced some interest in it, but she’s also of the mindset of “I have your dick, why would I want a fake one?”

How can I help reintroduce the topic and that I want her to let me get one for her?

 

[Lucien_Al]

My first wife had a similar standpoint on dildoes and vibes. I just bought them and while I was going down on her slipped it in. She never looked back. One thing that she wasnt interested in was anything too big but prefered the ones that hit the spot.

 

[BrickedUpHubby]

My first wife had a similar standpoint on dildoes and vibes. I just bought them and while I was going down on her slipped it in. She never looked back. One thing that she wasnt interested in was anything too big but prefered the ones that hit the spot.

Nice. Did you ever try realistic dick shaped ones? That’s definitely where I want to get with her.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Nice. Did you ever try realistic dick shaped ones? That’s definitely where I want to get with her.

Her best was a black glass cock shaped one. Seems it is intended for prostate use but she loved the upward curve as it hit her gspot every time. She had health issues and found that the glass was a lot less painful for her.

 

[cadman7777]

I think I wore my ex down talking about dildos and one night she was finally fine with it......so got online and ordered two. One white and one black.....the dildos went along with all the dirty talk during sex.....not every time but maybe 30-40% of the time........we both loved it when I would talk about my fantasies while using the dildos