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Why do you choose to be a sub?

4yourpleasureiam said:
I think he is exerting his alpha dom on you and expects you to kneel down and kiss his feet.
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I have learnt that only a very narrow range of people are allowed to use the word “sub” and that anyone else who does will be beaten with rubber batons by the sub police. It wasn’t a pleasant lesson if I am honest.

Em
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
I have learnt that only a very narrow range of people are allowed to use the word “sub” and that anyone else who does will be beaten with rubber batons by the sub police. It wasn’t a pleasant lesson if I am honest.
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What if we turned the tables and beat the sub police with their own batons? I mean, they'd probably enjoy it
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
I have learnt that only a very narrow range of people are allowed to use the word “sub” and that anyone else who does will be beaten with rubber batons by the sub police. It wasn’t a pleasant lesson if I am honest.

Em
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I think the D/S dynamic is vast and inclusive
 
Its not that way with me. I'm shy in rl, and i love being a sub. I love pleasing the person I'm with. I love everything about subbing. Its just so hot.
 
I didn't choose to be one. I am one.

Even in middle school I was. First girl I kissed I was a submissive. Her friends told me she liked me and I didn't know what to say or do so I avoided her till she came up to me and started talking to me. In natural middle school society she is my girlfriend 10 minutes later.


We talked on the phone and she said she wanted to kiss me and said I was afraid. I said no and she said the next day she wanted me to. She came up to my locker the next day and stood there looking expectantly and I froze up, I was embarrassed and scared. She pushed me against my locker and kissed me and I went numb. I loved that feeling.

Even when I was younger and first found out what a submissive was, how I found out is a bit embarrassing and not something I'd openly put on the forum for all to see, but needless to say it felt right and stuck with me my whole life.
 
I’m not a sub. But I have been told by several that they didn’t choose being a sun it just was. It’s very natural for them. Amd for some that’s all the time and for some
Just in the bedroom. Being a sub involves a lot from what I understand.
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
I have been talking to my college friend and fuck-buddy who came to visit to cheer me up. She has some dom tendencies, whereas I lean the other way.

For me, I think part of being submissive in a sexual context is because I am the opposite IRL. I’m probably the person who wants to be in charge and to have a plan. She is the opposite, IRL she wouldn’t say boo to a goose, but gets off on controlling people sexually.

It it like this with other people?

Em
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It has certainly been the case with any submissive that I've been in a good relationship with. I wouldn't be attracted to a woman who was meek/submissive everywhere, and even if I were, the rest of our life together wouldn't work. The most exciting thing for me is to see my sub at work, or on stage, or somewhere else being her powerful self, and know that she'll be kneeling for me later.
 
firmbutgentle said:
The most exciting thing for me is to see my sub at work, or on stage, or somewhere else being her powerful self, and know that she'll be kneeling for me later.
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I get that feeling but it's with me and everywhere I've gotten naked and masturbated (or peed all over the ground) :cathappy: It's just my little secret, and everyone else has no clue. They'd look at me so differently if they knew what I did and the fact that they don't know is a euphoric feeling
 
NakedNymph said:
I get that feeling but it's with me and everywhere I've gotten naked and masturbated (or peed all over the ground) :cathappy: It's just my little secret, and everyone else has no clue. They'd look at me so differently if they knew what I did and the fact that they don't know is a euphoric feeling
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Right -- and if you find someone with whom you can share those little secrets, who knows what you are and what you've done when no one else does.......
 
NakedNymph said:
I get that feeling but it's with me and everywhere I've gotten naked and masturbated (or peed all over the ground) :cathappy: It's just my little secret, and everyone else has no clue. They'd look at me so differently if they knew what I did and the fact that they don't know is a euphoric feeling
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I wanna party with nakednymph
 
I'm not at all submissive IRL. I'm actually an introvert and don't really need people normally, but sexually I like being dominated and being told what to do. As a teenager, I would set up scenarios and situations for my best friend Larry to command me to suck his cock in the most humiliating and embarrassing manner. The more degrading and demeaning, the better I liked it.
 
EmilyMillerSub said:
I have been talking to my college friend and fuck-buddy who came to visit to cheer me up. She has some dom tendencies, whereas I lean the other way.

For me, I think part of being submissive in a sexual context is because I am the opposite IRL. I’m probably the person who wants to be in charge and to have a plan. She is the opposite, IRL she wouldn’t say boo to a goose, but gets off on controlling people sexually.

It it like this with other people?

Em
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I just felt right when I was presented with the opportunity I didn’t blink, or hesitate, I just took my clothes off. I was standing in this chick’s kitchen with no clothes on and feeling really good and wanted to know what was going to happen next. It was this new thing and I wanted to experience everything. I was grateful every time we did something new. I felt so close to her every time we broke new ground. I cried when I had to put my clothes back on.
 
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