Why Do we do this

[Firecracker]

see that ladies

al that trust an honesty shit is just to get laid

proof of it right up there

*nods*

LMAO!!

 

[ketalia]

Ya learn somethin' new every day! Thanks Ketalia!

No problem! I don't mind letting my GEEK flag fly.

 

[ketalia]

First of all Ketalia.. why are we not friends yet? THIS is awesome... I love that you posted that. AND I love your signature. LOL

Because I'm still kinda new here and wandering around aimlessly? And thank you!

Now... go be flirty and fabulous and have fun. Good luck.

OP, what she said!

 

[WinterBlueAbby]

He sounds frustrated.

My advice is to lose that AV. Any woman worth her salt ( I've no idea what that salt phrase means but it came out so I'm leaving it ...) would find that
a bit to silly.

Get involved with converstations/threads and just chill out.
Leave the penishead thinking off to the side for awhile. Check the hormones at the door and
Yeah..I know this is Lit and sex is the theme but sometimes you need to slow dance before you get into the sex dance.

You made me curious enough to look this up: (interesting..I didn't know this! )
The phrase "worth one's salt" began with the ancient Romans. One reference suggested that the origin of the phrase "worth one's salt" could date back to before 900 B.C. During that time, Roman soldiers were paid for work in salarium, which was an allowance for the purchase of salt. Salt was considered good for human health and was a hard to find commodity. The word soldier, in that era, literally meant 'one who is paid in salt. The 'sal' in the word salarium is Latin for pay. Over the years, the word salarium was shortened and came into the English language as salary. To say that someone is worth his or her salt, you are saying that he or she is worth the wages that he or she earns. One particular reference used a quote from a Human Resources manager who told her supervisor that she had not hired a new administrative assistant because she had not interviewed anyone worth their salt.

I don't agree with it all being a "numbers game". I believe that that everyone's needs are different and it just takes time to find what you are looking for. I don't reply to posts from men who are depressed, frustrated, anxious, angry, or needy. And in many cases, yes, punctuation and spelling count. At least in the initial post. I look for someone who is sincere. The problem is, I can't tell YOU or anyone else how to be that person. You just have to be.

I agree with several other posters- change your avatar, write a bio...make some posts that are something other than what YOU want. When someone tends to write all about their needs all the time, I wonder how interested they may actually be in MY needs. That is all I have for you...my few meager offerings. I wish you luck in your search.

 

[WinterBlueAbby]

Bud, I am new to Lit. I have found several very nice ladies to talk to and have good conversation. I treat each with the respect that all the ladies here in the Playground deserve. I am not sure what your doing wrong, but I would suggest that you take a good hard look at your attitude, outlook on life, meaning of self respect and then try adding something meaningful to the threads. When the ladies (and men) respect you for your thoughts and words, then they will look to you for personal contact.

Snuggling is good too.

It's your avatar. Chicks LOVE the snuggle bear!

 

[WckdnWild]

WinterBlue Abby speaks with profound wisdom. Although it is my opinion that most Literotica users are indeed seeking to fulfill some personal need or find a missing element from their lives. Thusly, in fulfilling the needs of others they are in some sense meeting their own needs? Prepares for the onslaught of criticism.

 

[misfortunex]

WinterBlue Abby speaks with profound wisdom. Although it is my opinion that most Literotica users are indeed seeking to fulfill some personal need or find a missing element from their lives. Thusly, in fulfilling the needs of others they are in some sense meeting their own needs? Prepares for the onslaught of criticism.

IMO, anyone here who criticises that statement, is seriously kidding themselves

 

[chargergirl]

WinterBlue Abby speaks with profound wisdom. Although it is my opinion that most Literotica users are indeed seeking to fulfill some personal need or find a missing element from their lives. Thusly, in fulfilling the needs of others they are in some sense meeting their own needs? Prepares for the onslaught of criticism.

I think this is true for those that spend the bulk of their days here. I think they must be missing something in their real lives.

 

[WckdnWild]

I think this is true for those that spend the bulk of their days here. I think they must be missing something in their real lives.

time is relative or the timing.... I wasn't being critical of users of Literotica but rather commenting on the "elements" behind the usage....

hopes this makes sense... is feeling somewhat reflective and philosophical this morning

 

[misfortunex]

time is relative or the timing.... I wasn't being critical of users of Literotica but rather commenting on the "elements" behind the usage....

hopes this makes sense... is feeling somewhat reflective and philosophical this morning

I think most people will understand what you meant

Lets face it, if ya didnt have a need to be here why would ya?

 

[WckdnWild]

right.... the consequence of an insatiable curiosity and desire for expansion of one's sexuality and understanding??

TY for the support.

 

[lance gt]

see that ladies

al that trust an honesty shit is just to get laid

proof of it right up there

*nods*

Geez,of course it's to get laid. Don't we all want to get laid? It's how we get laid that matters. Is it a selfish act for your own gratification or do you really want to share some intimate moments with someone and please her as much as you want to be pleased.

One thng that sets me apart from a lot of guys is that I won't go out with the express intent of just fucking some woman. That's just dis-respectful on way too many levels.

When I do want to get laid, it won't be a one night stand. I want to spend a lot of time getting to know her. It's what's inside her that makes her so sexy.

 

[misfortunex]

right.... the consequence of an insatiable curiosity and desire for expansion of one's sexuality and understanding??

TY for the support.

Perhaps that, some are here for friendship, some for the writing side, some for the sexual discovery, we all have different needs and reasons. But IMHO, we all have a need.

And YW

 

[misfortunex]

Geez,of course it's to get laid. Don't we all want to get laid? It's how we get laid that matters. Is it a selfish act for your own gratification or do you really want to share some intimate moments with someone and please her as much as you want to be pleased.

One thng that sets me apart from a lot of guys is that I won't go out with the express intent of just fucking some woman. That's just dis-respectful on way too many levels.

When I do want to get laid, it won't be a one night stand. I want to spend a lot of time getting to know her. It's what's inside her that makes her so sexy.

I like the way you lure em in

The 4 point plan to gettin' laid

lol

 

[WckdnWild]

Geez,of course it's to get laid. Don't we all want to get laid? It's how we get laid that matters. Is it a selfish act for your own gratification or do you really want to share some intimate moments with someone and please her as much as you want to be pleased.

One thng that sets me apart from a lot of guys is that I won't go out with the express intent of just fucking some woman. That's just dis-respectful on way too many levels.

When I do want to get laid, it won't be a one night stand. I want to spend a lot of time getting to know her. It's what's inside her that makes her so sexy.

if your single... there isn't any thing wrong with a one night stand....as long as both parties understand. It's in our nature as humans to crave PHYSICAL contact.... and breakin' a piece off for yourself by yourself doesn't always fulfill that need.

I get that it's the "individuals" choice to not participate in one night of wanton.......whatever ya wanna call it....

sometimes even in the best relationships ya fuck just to fuck

.... I wouldn't necessarily say it sets you apart Lance... there are TONS of guys that aren't here for sex... that's not what it's ALL about.... but I'm sure you possess qualities that do...set you apart that is.

Just MHO

 

[lance gt]

if your single... there isn't any thing wrong with a one night stand....as long as both parties understand. It's in our nature as humans to crave PHYSICAL contact.... and breakin' a piece off for yourself by yourself doesn't always fulfill that need.

I get that it's the "individuals" choice to not participate in one night of wanton.......whatever ya wanna call it....

sometimes even in the best relationships ya fuck just to fuck

.... I wouldn't necessarily say it sets you apart Lance... there are TONS of guys that aren't here for sex... that's not what it's ALL about.... but I'm sure you possess qualities that do...set you apart that is.

Just MHO

Thank you so much Wckd. I'm not against one-night stands at all. I just believe that if two people are going to participate in a sexual relationship, even for one night, respect for each other is important. One-sided events tend to leave the other person feeling cheap and un-worthy of pleasure, if their feelings and needs aren't met.

I just treat people the way I want to be treated in kind. Doesn't mean I'm the nice guy who finishes last, just means that this bad boy takes care of her heart, as much as her body

 

[RyanBlack]

Thank you so much Wckd. I'm not against one-night stands at all. I just believe that if two people are going to participate in a sexual relationship, even for one night, respect for each other is important. One-sided events tend to leave the other person feeling cheap and un-worthy of pleasure, if their feelings and needs aren't met.

I just treat people the way I want to be treated in kind. Doesn't mean I'm the nice guy who finishes last, just means that this bad boy takes care of her heart, as much as her body

hmmmmmmmm wonder if you will treat me the way I wanna be treated mister hunky kilt wearing barbarian type!! Im sure we wont end up with it being one sided I promise to respect you and if not you can spank

 

[lance gt]

hmmmmmmmm wonder if you will treat me the way I wanna be treated mister hunky kilt wearing barbarian type!! Im sure we wont end up with it being one sided I promise to respect you and if not you can spank

Are you sure Ryan? Are you sure you want to be with a guy like me? You know I'll take extreme pleasure clamping your balls and weighing them down. Nothing makes me happier than a switch and the little red welts it leaves from one end of your cock to the other. Let's not forget your sweet ass either. I'll rip the flesh from it and make you sit on 15"' of latex agony while I piss in your mouth. God help your body should you spill one drop of my golden nectar. And maybe, just maybe, I'll let you thank me. You may go now, think of what you ask and get back to me. *Swish, snap*

 

[RyanBlack]

Are you sure Ryan? Are you sure you want to be with a guy like me? You know I'll take extreme pleasure clamping your balls and weighing them down. Nothing makes me happier than a switch and the little red welts it leaves from one end of your cock to the other. Let's not forget your sweet ass either. I'll rip the flesh from it and make you sit on 15"' of latex agony while I piss in your mouth. God help your body should you spill one drop of my golden nectar. And maybe, just maybe, I'll let you thank me. You may go now, think of what you ask and get back to me. *Swish, snap*

Swoon!!!!!!!!!!!!


I have finally met my PRINCE CHARMING!!! I knew youd want my respect but this way is so much better!!!! shall I bring my own weights??? or do you have the big ones?

 

[WckdnWild]

Swoon!!!!!!!!!!!!


I have finally met my PRINCE CHARMING!!! I knew youd want my respect but this way is so much better!!!! shall I bring my own weights??? or do you have the big ones?

falls out of her chair.... smirking thinkin' of the switch in a different scenario... or perhaps short leather crop....

 

[RyanBlack]

falls out of her chair.... smirking thinkin' of the switch in a different scenario... or perhaps short leather crop....

ohhhhhh bring it maybe even both we could make a Lance sandwich!!! and of course respect him in the middle of the next afternoon

 

[WckdnWild]

to hell with that... there's little to no respect involved when the crop is involved... it's all about my way... my rules.... and me being on top.....

okay maybe not the whole time! from behind.... upside down... whatever position the mood takes us...

 

[DeliciousInRed]

Are you sure Ryan? Are you sure you want to be with a guy like me? You know I'll take extreme pleasure clamping your balls and weighing them down. Nothing makes me happier than a switch and the little red welts it leaves from one end of your cock to the other. Let's not forget your sweet ass either. I'll rip the flesh from it and make you sit on 15"' of latex agony while I piss in your mouth. God help your body should you spill one drop of my golden nectar. And maybe, just maybe, I'll let you thank me. You may go now, think of what you ask and get back to me. *Swish, snap*

Ummmm..................


Lance!.................. what have you done with my Highlander?

 

[RyanBlack]

Ummmm..................


Lance!.................. what have you done with my Highlander?

hes sooo cute when he gets all commanding and stuff!!!

 

[lance gt]

Ummmm..................


Lance!.................. what have you done with my Highlander?

I tease poor Ryan. He knows he'll never be worthy of being my slave. Never worry my Gorgeous one, your Highlander will always be enchanted by your charms