Why Do we do this

[Screname56]

Why are men the ones who put them selves out on the line time after time. I am not really sure why we want to be wanted. Why do we put our information up and receive no responses to our posts. This is terrible. I just hate putting my self out there and never receiving anything back so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

 

[pedicur8her]

Simple - men need to be needed and we go looking for someone to need us, no matter where we find them ...

 

[WinterBlueAbby]

so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

Probably. You sound a little angry

 

[sexenthusiast]

I am sure it is all a numbers thing... there are y number of men and x number of women... where y is like 30 and x is 1... so that one female has 30 guys to select from and you and I are numbers 29 & 30... and so we don't hear a thing....

james
atlanta

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

Probably. You sound a little angry

I agree... plus he needs to read the Secret...

 

[Screname56]

I would not consider myself angry it is more an issue of frustration. I understand the numbers game but there is not much else men can do but throw up a hail mary pass. It just seems like there is no wide recieve to catch it. Sorry if you dont understand that medaphore.

 

[WckdnWild]

Why are men the ones who put them selves out on the line time after time. I am not really sure why we want to be wanted. Why do we put our information up and receive no responses to our posts. This is terrible. I just hate putting my self out there and never receiving anything back so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

*ponders the post* surely with an Avatar and profile pic like that... you don't want for "conversation".

 

[ShaiGirl]

I would not consider myself angry it is more an issue of frustration. I understand the numbers game but there is not much else men can do but throw up a hail mary pass. It just seems like there is no wide recieve to catch it. Sorry if you dont understand that medaphore.

Yes, it's a numbers thing. There are so many men with "horny male looking for cam/chat/cyber" ads. A man has to be creative in his ad to get noticed and bumped.

I don't know a hail mary pass, but I assume that it's in American football?!

 

[WckdnWild]

I would not consider myself angry it is more an issue of frustration. I understand the numbers game but there is not much else men can do but throw up a hail mary pass. It just seems like there is no wide recieve to catch it. Sorry if you dont understand that medaphore.

Well darlin' even in football you need to have a play book. If you are always calling audibles, then your hail mary's are gonna be just that... passes that may or may not get accepted.

 

[WckdnWild]

I would not consider myself angry it is more an issue of frustration. I understand the numbers game but there is not much else men can do but throw up a hail mary pass. It just seems like there is no wide recieve to catch it. Sorry if you dont understand that medaphore.

I am sure it is all a numbers thing... there are y number of men and x number of women... where y is like 30 and x is 1... so that one female has 30 guys to select from and you and I are numbers 29 & 30... and so we don't hear a thing....

james
atlanta

NO love 'eh James?

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

Well darlin' even in football you need to have a play book. If you are always calling audibles, then your hail mary's are gonna be just that... passes that may or may not get accepted.

very true and i agree....have to use better bait i guess lol

 

[WckdnWild]

very true and i agree....have to use better bait i guess lol

*high fives Red * that's what I'm talking about.........there's a time and place for everything. Sometimes it starts with a soft, gentle kiss at the nape of the neck... a whisper in the ear.... a long hard passionate kiss....

and other times.... ya just gotta grab and handful of hair and flip her over and lift her skirt, yank down her panties, tear 'em off...if she's wearnin' em and give it to her......

What is it that you are looking for 56? James? Don't be shy.... hell... here you don't have to worry about being judged, or embarrassed.

So......... let's hear it fellas...........

 

[Guest]

i think for guys, even if its a bit frustrating.. it can be better because you would probably have more chances than getting a girl that's actually interested. than a hundred that just want to see your penis and move on. Unless that was the point of the personal to begin with.

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

true

i think for guys, even if its a bit frustrating.. it can be better because you would probably have more chances than getting a girl that's actually interested. than a hundred that just want to see your penis and move on. Unless that was the point of the personal to begin with.

very true sadie, good point and well said...

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

i think for guys, even if its a bit frustrating.. it can be better because you would probably have more chances than getting a girl that's actually interested. than a hundred that just want to see your penis and move on. Unless that was the point of the personal to begin with.

*high fives Red * that's what I'm talking about.........there's a time and place for everything. Sometimes it starts with a soft, gentle kiss at the nape of the neck... a whisper in the ear.... a long hard passionate kiss....

and other times.... ya just gotta grab and handful of hair and flip her over and lift her skirt, yank down her panties, tear 'em off...if she's wearnin' em and give it to her......

What is it that you are looking for 56? James? Don't be shy.... hell... here you don't have to worry about being judged, or embarrassed.

So......... let's hear it fellas...........

dang wild...you sure know how to get the juices flowing

always looking for new friends, great conversation and if it leads to more....then always a bonus

 

[Maxell46]

He sounds frustrated.

My advice is to lose that AV. Any woman worth her salt ( I've no idea what that salt phrase means but it came out so I'm leaving it ...) would find that
a bit to silly.

Get involved with converstations/threads and just chill out.
Leave the penishead thinking off to the side for awhile. Check the hormones at the door and
Yeah..I know this is Lit and sex is the theme but sometimes you need to slow dance before you get into the sex dance.

 

[Pandora73]

Get involved with converstations/threads and just chill out.
Leave the penishead thinking off to the side for awhile. Check the hormones at the door and
Yeah..I know this is Lit and sex is the theme but sometimes you need to slow dance before you get into the sex dance.

Just one woman's opinion, but that's good advice.

 

[WckdnWild]

He sounds frustrated.

My advice is to lose that AV. Any woman worth her salt ( I've no idea what that salt phrase means but it came out so I'm leaving it ...) would find that
a bit to silly.

Get involved with converstations/threads and just chill out.
Leave the penishead thinking off to the side for awhile. Check the hormones at the door and
Yeah..I know this is Lit and sex is the theme but sometimes you need to slow dance before you get into the sex dance.

Now that's a man who knows how to speak to a woman!

 

[WckdnWild]

dang wild...you sure know how to get the juices flowing

always looking for new friends, great conversation and if it leads to more....then always a bonus

I'm just saying.....there are different flavors in the world of erotica and some like soft, silky smooth ...and others prefer a little harder, "rougher", if that's the right phrase.... and then there are those that mix in the leather and lace.....thusly wckd-n-wild........ capable of being whatever you desire at the time... or nothing at all.

Conversations can be quite interesting with me.... depending on your desires.....nibble on that thought for a while.

Have a GREAT night Viper! ~_*

 

[Screname56]

Ugh who knows

 

[Viper_Red_2000]

I'm just saying.....there are different flavors in the world of erotica and some like soft, silky smooth ...and others prefer a little harder, "rougher", if that's the right phrase.... and then there are those that mix in the leather and lace.....thusly wckd-n-wild........ capable of being whatever you desire at the time... or nothing at all.

Conversations can be quite interesting with me.... depending on your desires.....nibble on that thought for a while.

Have a GREAT night Viper! ~_*

mmm i will and thank you....

thoughts of leather and lace are always nice...

 

[ketalia]

My advice is to lose that AV. Any woman worth her salt ( I've no idea what that salt phrase means but it came out so I'm leaving it ...) would find that
a bit to silly.

The phrase "worth his salt" refers to the practice of paying early Roman soldiers partially in rations, one of which was salt. At the time, salt was highly prized and very expensive, due to it's healing properties and uses in food storage. The modern word "salary" is derived from "salarium". According to Pliny the Elder, the prize money awarded to a very fine soldier was called his salarium, which literally translates to "salt-money."

Ironically, the phrase "worth his salt" doesn't date back to the Ancient Roman period. It dates back to the 19th century from a published lecture by an unknown historian. The lecture was about a rather inept Roman Legionary who wasn't "worth his salt".

 

[WckdnWild]

Ugh who knows

It's hard to find what ya don't know you're looking for..... people to chat with....flirt.... hook up with.... that's all here... if you want it.... you just have to be a willing, patient and contributing partner.

Just my thoughts.... not that ya asked....

 

[cutestguy]

Why are men the ones who put them selves out on the line time after time. I am not really sure why we want to be wanted. Why do we put our information up and receive no responses to our posts. This is terrible. I just hate putting my self out there and never receiving anything back so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

Mate...im on Lit for the past 4 years and i've got good friends - men and women, through my threads. I've threads which are fun, serious and ofcourse controversial enough to spark a few arguments, poems and a story. Im not into self-praise anyway, but just helping to you understand few facts which can help you based on those feelings you let off that no one is responding to your posts and PMs etc. Now, I did check your threads and mostly it is about chat and showing off of your member and stuff. So, it all depends on what you are looking on Lit. Im not asking you to copy what someone does but to sit and think about what you want. There are all types of people over here on Lit - good and bad, sensible and nonsense, serious and silly, sensual and bitchy....and it is you who has to decide what you need. Finally, when you have decided, then find ways to attract that group with some catchy phrase as thread name and bump it and make people to post and be friendly with them. This is not any secret tip but some word of advise. Be what you are and be positive. I hope you will take it in the right context. Cheers and enjoy Lit.

 

[cutestguy]

It's hard to find what ya don't know you're looking for..... people to chat with....flirt.... hook up with.... that's all here... if you want it.... you just have to be a willing, patient and contributing partner.

Just my thoughts.... not that ya asked....

Madame said it all...simply realistic.