Why Do we do this

[northwestenmale]

Why do we put ourselves on the line?...
Simple....
Rejection hurts like hell but when acceptance happens it makes it all that sweeter.


Yes it sucks, but we weren't blessed with periods my friend so some may see easier! I know it sucks man, big man hugs to you lets grab a beer put the world to rights and then try all over again!

 

[cutestguy]

Why do we put ourselves on the line?...
Simple....
Rejection hurts like hell but when acceptance happens it makes it all that sweeter.


Yes it sucks, but we weren't blessed with periods my friend so some may see easier! I know it sucks man, big man hugs to you lets grab a beer put the world to rights and then try all over again!

Yes Sir, rejection hurts but being positive is what we have to do. So dont stop anywhere....let us come back strong and do what we want to do....so no point in being down...get up and let us do it....cheers.

 

[northwestenmale]

Gotta love the man love around today!

 

[WckdnWild]

Can't figure out why she appears to be repeating herself (double posting) WTF?

 

[Snuggleman4u]

Why are men the ones who put them selves out on the line time after time. I am not really sure why we want to be wanted. Why do we put our information up and receive no responses to our posts. This is terrible. I just hate putting my self out there and never receiving anything back so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

Bud, I am new to Lit. I have found several very nice ladies to talk to and have good conversation. I treat each with the respect that all the ladies here in the Playground deserve. I am not sure what your doing wrong, but I would suggest that you take a good hard look at your attitude, outlook on life, meaning of self respect and then try adding something meaningful to the threads. When the ladies (and men) respect you for your thoughts and words, then they will look to you for personal contact.

Snuggling is good too.

 

[koalabear]

When will you young fucks learn........SHOES!!!!....that's the key to it all.

 

[Forever_Gemini]

Why do we put ourselves on the line?...
Simple....
Rejection hurts like hell but when acceptance happens it makes it all that sweeter.
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excactomundo!

 

[Snuggleman4u]

When will you young fucks learn........SHOES!!!!....that's the key to it all.

The bears have all the answers...... good one brother bear.

 

[reperbahn_man]

Better to chance your arm, than play it safe all the time and be left wonder what ifs.

I think we appreciate life more after rejection, look for the positives. Believe me theres positives in everything.
Chin up, and hit the ground running.

 

[RyanBlack]

Well let see how to answer this one. . . .

First I dont ever recall you "putting yourself on the line" for me. . . .or is it that I simply dont fit within your preferance paradigm? However you answer that is going to be the same answer you get when you say "no one ever talks or posts with me"

Well take a piece of advice---be interesting, entertaining, genuine, smart funny or something besides horny and looking to get off. If that is what you want then Ill just type the girls side of cyber sex for 10 or so minutes ---and you are a guy so it wont be all that hard to do it

"oh your cock is huge" fuck me baby yah . . . . .see I can do it
and you are looking at a screen with words on it after all so it shouldnt really make all that much difference---simply imagine that I am your Ideal Hawt woman---you seem to have enough imagination to assume you are the ideal hawt man that women just dont know that they are missing out on

Finally---and this is the big thing---be nice, polite and sincere if that is what you want ---stay out of ladies PM boxes unless invited or to send a non sexual comment or question until you know them well enough to do so---think of a pm box as personal space and how would feel if I sent you a pic of my dick---(besides intimidated of course)???

I am sure you are a nice guy or at least have the potential to be a nice guy--so take my suggestions or dont--

I am probably the only person in the history of lit to be on more Mens ignore lists than womens. . . . .and that is a bit funny . . . .

Theres my two cents worth. . . and Ill give you the two penny discount . . .

 

[Blase]

Another approach to the perennial "unfavorable ratio" problem that we males find on Lit is to try fishing where the fish are, that is, go to a real personals site where people are paying money for membership and posting photos of themselves.

I don't mean to come across as sarcastic, but sometimes it does help to remember that there is a very good reason why Lit, overall, doesn't work so well as a personals site: It isn't one, and the great majority of people don't come here for that.

 

[frostyred]

FYI, women do it, too. I can't count the times I've tried to find that connection and ended up alone. Just sayin'. It's not just the guys.

I have been lucky lately. There's a lot of love in my life. If a badass like me can find it, I'm convinced anyone can.

 

[bronzeage]

Probably. You sound a little angry

and desperate. Women hate desperate.

 

[frostyred]

and desperate. Women hate desperate.

He's 23. I sounded desperate at 23, too. No offense, Screenname56.

 

[smotherman]

Why are men the ones who put them selves out on the line time after time. I am not really sure why we want to be wanted. Why do we put our information up and receive no responses to our posts. This is terrible. I just hate putting my self out there and never receiving anything back so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

Then don't put yourself out there. No offense, but you sound negative on top of angry and desperate.

Let's grab a cold beer and talk about it.http://www.mistressdestiny.com/forums/images/smilies/haveabeer.gif

 

[KnightWing]

The phrase "worth his salt" refers to the practice of paying early Roman soldiers partially in rations, one of which was salt. At the time, salt was highly prized and very expensive, due to it's healing properties and uses in food storage. The modern word "salary" is derived from "salarium". According to Pliny the Elder, the prize money awarded to a very fine soldier was called his salarium, which literally translates to "salt-money."

Ironically, the phrase "worth his salt" doesn't date back to the Ancient Roman period. It dates back to the 19th century from a published lecture by an unknown historian. The lecture was about a rather inept Roman Legionary who wasn't "worth his salt".

Ya learn somethin' new every day! Thanks Ketalia!

 

[WckdnWild]

Well let see how to answer this one. . . .

First I dont ever recall you "putting yourself on the line" for me. . . .or is it that I simply dont fit within your preferance paradigm? However you answer that is going to be the same answer you get when you say "no one ever talks or posts with me"

Well take a piece of advice---be interesting, entertaining, genuine, smart funny or something besides horny and looking to get off. If that is what you want then Ill just type the girls side of cyber sex for 10 or so minutes ---and you are a guy so it wont be all that hard to do it

"oh your cock is huge" fuck me baby yah . . . . .see I can do it
and you are looking at a screen with words on it after all so it shouldnt really make all that much difference---simply imagine that I am your Ideal Hawt woman---you seem to have enough imagination to assume you are the ideal hawt man that women just dont know that they are missing out on

Finally---and this is the big thing---be nice, polite and sincere if that is what you want ---stay out of ladies PM boxes unless invited or to send a non sexual comment or question until you know them well enough to do so---think of a pm box as personal space and how would feel if I sent you a pic of my dick---(besides intimidated of course)???

I am sure you are a nice guy or at least have the potential to be a nice guy--so take my suggestions or dont--

I am probably the only person in the history of lit to be on more Mens ignore lists than womens. . . . .and that is a bit funny . . . .

Theres my two cents worth. . . and Ill give you the two penny discount . . .

very well said.....Ryan's being QTF'd ) ) I think it what they call it here.....

 

[misfortunex]

If that is what you want then Ill just type the girls side of cyber sex for 10 or so minutes ---and you are a guy so it wont be all that hard to do it

"oh your cock is huge" fuck me baby yah . . . . .see I can do it

WTF!!

I thought I just needed to go

"mmmmmmmmmmmm"

"ooooooooooooooooooo"

"ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"

no wonder I get so many no's in the "have you ever talked dirty" thread FFS!!!

RB do you give lessons?

And to the initial poster, it's not a given you will meet someone genuine here. In fact looking around it's highly unlikely. Dont expect it, just enjoy it if it happens.

 

[WckdnWild]

very well said.....Ryan's being QTF'd ) ) I think it what they call it here.....

or how about QFT (wonders if she's become dyslexic too?!!!)

 

[call_me_Melody]

The phrase "worth his salt" refers to the practice of paying early Roman soldiers partially in rations, one of which was salt. At the time, salt was highly prized and very expensive, due to it's healing properties and uses in food storage. The modern word "salary" is derived from "salarium". According to Pliny the Elder, the prize money awarded to a very fine soldier was called his salarium, which literally translates to "salt-money."

Ironically, the phrase "worth his salt" doesn't date back to the Ancient Roman period. It dates back to the 19th century from a published lecture by an unknown historian. The lecture was about a rather inept Roman Legionary who wasn't "worth his salt".

First of all Ketalia.. why are we not friends yet? THIS is awesome... I love that you posted that. AND I love your signature. LOL

Why are men the ones who put them selves out on the line time after time. I am not really sure why we want to be wanted. Why do we put our information up and receive no responses to our posts. This is terrible. I just hate putting my self out there and never receiving anything back so if you want to chat or talk about anything let me know but I'm sure that this will probably result in 0 responses.

Oh sweetness... the other responses are right, you do seem a little.. well.. frustrated and kinda bitter. I can see how that can happen, but from my perspective.. and I only presume to speak for myself.. I need to see something that catches my attention.
Something that makes me think.. wow.. yeah... him. And it's going to be different for everyone I'm sure, but there will be something.
At some point someone should have that if you want to find someone, you should join clubs and stuff with people who enjoy the same things you do, because then you will have things to talk about, I hope someone did...
It's kind of like that.
People talk about all kinds of stuff on here... some of it dirty, some of it flirty, some of it fun and some of it... well deeper than that, families, issues, politics, religion, there really is something for everyone. Except really uptight people.. they should probably go to the better homes and gardens website or something. Start checking out some of the threads and areas that appeal to you... to your actual interests. Pay attention to what some of the women THERE say and do. Engage them on the threads and learn a little more there.
Be patient.... stalking is creepy... and be genuine. Be who you are. Let your you shine through. Wow... do I sound dorky or what.. but it's true.
And remember, that not everyone is looking for the same things here.. some aren't looking for anything and sometimes they find it too.
And most importantly, take the cues from the person you are talking to. Some people need to be charmed and romanced, others need to be flirted and teased, some just want to get you right out of your virtual pants. I think that goes for men or women. But pay attention to the person you are talking to at that time.. notice what it is THEY want from you. And don't go from Hi, my name is ____ to "wanna fuck" unless they give you the indication that they do in fact want to.

Ok... my .02 ... cause you asked.

And you know? Everyone that shares anything on here is really putting themselves out there.

Now... go be flirty and fabulous and have fun. Good luck.

 

[misfortunex]

Except really uptight people.. they should probably go to the better homes and gardens website or something.

This is not homes and gardens?????

*looks round*

shit, i fucking knew i was in the wrong place when i saw all the naked men!!!

 

[call_me_Melody]

This is not homes and gardens?????

*looks round*

shit, i fucking knew i was in the wrong place when i saw all the naked men!!!

*pats you on your poor little confused head*

Come on girlie... we mustn't let your innocent little self be corrupted by all this...

*looks at your halo*
DAMN yours makes mine look all shiny and new..

 

[lance gt]

As a man who has faced numerous situations in dealing with women, the one thing I see about rejection, is that it's your own disappointment at not getting a positive response from a woman if you appraoch her.

Women are very open to the right approach, but if you aren't doing it right, you will fail every time.

What is the right approach? One word, Respect.

If a woman senses you're a respectable man, you have made it to the next level. Next level?

Confidence. A woman is sucked to it like a magnet. She wants to know you are sure of yourself, because if you are, it'll show and that's an admirable quality.

Friendly. Nothing will endear a woman to you easier than an honest smile. Smiles are a shining example of your nature.

Tact. Don't think you're going to do the above and end up in bed. Get to know your partner and find out her likes and dislikes.

Trust, Nothing more is important to a woman than to know she can trust you. Comfort in being with you will let her drop her guard and let you in.

Follow these simple rules in approaching a woman and your next thread might be about how much you're getting laid now.

Good luck.

 

[misfortunex]

As a man who has faced numerous situations in dealing with women, the one thing I see about rejection, is that it's your own disappointment at not getting a positive response from a woman if you appraoch her.

Women are very open to the right approach, but if you aren't doing it right, you will fail every time.

What is the right approach? One word, Respect.

If a woman senses you're a respectable man, you have made it to the next level. Next level?

Confidence. A woman is sucked to it like a magnet. She wants to know you are sure of yourself, because if you are, it'll show and that's an admirable quality.

Friendly. Nothing will endear a woman to you easier than an honest smile. Smiles are a shining example of your nature.

Tact. Don't think you're going to do the above and end up in bed. Get to know your partner and find out her likes and dislikes.

Trust, Nothing more is important to a woman than to know she can trust you. Comfort in being with you will let her drop her guard and let you in.

Follow these simple rules in approaching a woman and your next thread might be about how much you're getting laid now.

Good luck.

see that ladies

al that trust an honesty shit is just to get laid

proof of it right up there

*nods*

 

[Guest]

FYI, women do it, too. I can't count the times I've tried to find that connection and ended up alone. Just sayin'. It's not just the guys.

I have been lucky lately. There's a lot of love in my life. If a badass like me can find it, I'm convinced anyone can.

He's 23. I sounded desperate at 23, too. No offense, Screenname56.

I can relate to all of this. being 23 myself. But I probably wouldn't call myself desperate...

but I mean, really, who would.