Why Do People Like Pain?
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caela said:
As happy bunny says, "Cute, but psycho. It all evens out."
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graceanne said:
So THAT's where my wand went!!!
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Aeroil said:
Oh, sometimes I'll pretend to be wrong, just to make him feel better.
Just this morning K was threatening to 'discipline me'. I said "Why, I haven't done anything." He pointed out I don't have to. I said "That's not discipline, that's forplay."
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Aeroil
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oooooh, okay, I see your genious plan now.graceanne said:Oh, sometimes I'll pretend to be wrong, just to make him feel better.
Just this morning K was threatening to 'discipline me'. I said "Why, I haven't done anything." He pointed out I don't have to. I said "That's not discipline, that's forplay."
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Hmmmm........I remember when Master and I were getting to know each other, and I said that I wasn't sure if I'd like being spanked, I didn't like pain. After we moved in together He would give me one or two sharp spanks, not too hard, while I was in the middle of an orgasm - which caused fluids to flow out in larger amounts
The first time I was really spanked with several hard swats I soaked the bed Since then I've been able to take a lot more, from hand, ruler (managed to actually break a plastic one!), ping pong paddle (which is something I am not too keen on because it really stings ), and a leather collar folded like a strap. I was recently away from Him for two weeks and found myself craving to be spanked........all this in a time frame of just a few months! Right now my butt has several mottled bruises on it and I couldn't be happier
Why do I like it.......I know He loves to do it, and I love to please.....He has been pushing my limits since I've been back and I'm really surprised at how much I seem to be able to take. I have used my safeword only a few times, I thought I might have had to use it more often but no! And that wonderful languorous feeling afterward, with the butt cheeks still stinging and legs still trembling, while He strokes my back......there's nothing like it in the whole world!
The first time I was really spanked with several hard swats I soaked the bed
Since then I've been able to take a lot more, from hand, ruler (managed to actually break a plastic one!), ping pong paddle (which is something I am not too keen on because it really stings ), and a leather collar folded like a strap. I was recently away from Him for two weeks and found myself craving to be spanked........all this in a time frame of just a few months! Right now my butt has several mottled bruises on it and I couldn't be happier Why do I like it.......I know He loves to do it, and I love to please.....He has been pushing my limits since I've been back and I'm really surprised at how much I seem to be able to take. I have used my safeword only a few times, I thought I might have had to use it more often but no! And that wonderful languorous feeling afterward, with the butt cheeks still stinging and legs still trembling, while He strokes my back......there's nothing like it in the whole world!
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graceanne said:FINDERS KEEPERS
LOOSERS WEEPERS!
Hmm...just becareful not to turn that little knob on it too high or it might zap you
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I think what confuses a lot of people is that they think a sub must like all pain. I don't know any subs who tell the dentist to stick the Novocain up his ass. Or who would knock a hornets nest down and sit on it for 5 minutes. There is good pain, and there is bad.
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It's "intense sensation". Why do people like roller coasters or horror movies or running marathons or falling in love, etc. ? Intensity. It's being drawn to and drawn into that intensity of experience. It takes a mind shift often.
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Count me among those who really don't like pain - or intense pain anyway. There are times when I feel like I need it though.
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I enjoy giving the pain but as Bandit said it is for nothing unless some warmup is done first. You cannot jump start a slave. They are not a chevy. fater the right amount of warming up then they purr.
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Liana26:
"But I highly doubt it's due to a chemical imbalance. There's nothing wrong with our brains, we just have different tastes than others."
No, it's quite possibly the result of a chemical imbalance.
It's important to differentiate between a chemical imbalance, a psychological disorder, and having something be 'wrong with our brain.'
Chemical imbalances are an important biological functions used to regulate behavior. Happiness is technically a chemical imbalance, that's one of the reasons it doesn't last as long as we'd like. A strong craving for chocolate or fatty foods is also caused by mild chemical imbalances. The question isn't really if chemical imbalances are part of what makes someone a masochist, it's why the brain has picked that certain behavior to induce that imbalance.
"But I highly doubt it's due to a chemical imbalance. There's nothing wrong with our brains, we just have different tastes than others."
No, it's quite possibly the result of a chemical imbalance.
It's important to differentiate between a chemical imbalance, a psychological disorder, and having something be 'wrong with our brain.'
Chemical imbalances are an important biological functions used to regulate behavior. Happiness is technically a chemical imbalance, that's one of the reasons it doesn't last as long as we'd like. A strong craving for chocolate or fatty foods is also caused by mild chemical imbalances. The question isn't really if chemical imbalances are part of what makes someone a masochist, it's why the brain has picked that certain behavior to induce that imbalance.
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DougBTX:
"chemical balance" just means nilla, average, dead."
It's interesting that no matter how much a minority group hates being stereotyped or insulted, there are always members who cannot help but stereotype and insult the majority. I suppose that when it comes to societal groups, no one likes to be the submissive.
"chemical balance" just means nilla, average, dead."
It's interesting that no matter how much a minority group hates being stereotyped or insulted, there are always members who cannot help but stereotype and insult the majority. I suppose that when it comes to societal groups, no one likes to be the submissive.
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