Why do people here advertise themselves so poorly?

It's the spam factor. When it's just a click of a button, you can ask a thousand, and there's always one sucker. And then you have the benefit of low expectations.
 
I'm gonna go with its just your fat shaming persona that you are going with.

Maybe create another alt and start over?
 
You know, when you're trying to meet someone, you typically try to advertise your best features. "I'm funny, smart, good looking" etc, etc. Why do so many of you send me PMs with messages like "I'm homeless, morbidly obese, have absolutely nothing going for me. Wanna fuck?" Like hell no I don't why are you sending me these messages?

Because you are a shallow, unapologetic egoist with few redeeming features, and they are making fun of you. That's why.
 
I'm gonna go with its just your fat shaming persona that you are going with.

Maybe create another alt and start over?

I agree.
She might also change her name, I tend to interpret anyone who calls themselves "Sexy X" as anything but sexy maybe because it's better to be sexy than say you are.
Then there is the problem that one person's sexiness is another person's boredom...
 
Fat shaming and stolen pics. Reminds me of someone, Kent quite remember who though...
 
It keeps out most of the riffraff, but not all. :mad:

It's the tits.....they are like a bug zapper light of AV's.

As long as they are there you will not be able to stop all the riffraff...only some.

I had to retire my cock AV because I just couldn't get any posting done with all the PM's I was getting. You might have to go cartoon neutral to tone the pervs down.
 
Well I guess they're being honest at least.

I put a lot in my profile so I don't get messages from people who are backward or ignorant and so they'll know who they're messaging but mostly I like to let my words and actions speak for themselves.

I think most women online get those kinds of messages. I don't know what good you think you're going to do by posting about it but I honestly don't think you're going to accomplish much. Not saying you shouldn't do it but I don't think it's going to do you much good. Unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world and there's a lot of shit you just have to roll with. I actually just told someone something similar to this, coincidentally, but I was once told in life you have to roll with the hits and it's absolutely true. Things that are not okay should generally be called out as such I think but you also can't let it ruin your life. We're not here for that long and we get one go-round. After that it's lights out so the only thing we can do is make the most of the time we have.
 
Denny

"I'm homeless, morbidly obese, have absolutely nothing going for me. Wanna fuck?"

I like an honest person. :D
 
Damn I thought I had everyone fooled that I looked exactly like a famous actress by having this clearly professionally done photo shoot as my avatar.

Don't feel bad. It's not really me in my avatar either. I'm so ashamed. :(
 
Also you can be honest while still advertising your best features. I think there are some potentially negative aspects that should be mentioned in some cases, like a medical problem or a disability. But saying "I'm a loser wanna fuck" is silly.
 
Denny

Damn I thought I had everyone fooled that I looked exactly like a famous actress by having this clearly professionally done photo shoot as my avatar.
Denny------------ It was the blanket that we noticed. It's a one of a kind.
As for pollynova that's how I picture her.

Of course in my avatar I didn't shave so I look different most times in public. My wife looks the same except when at Wal-Mart.
 
My current Av is merely a representation of a former but fondly remembered situation ;)
 
Also why are people bringing fat shaming into this? This has nothing to do with that. Some people get really upset because I don't want to fuck fatties. That is my preference and there is nothing wrong with that. I've seen men on here get less shit for saying they don't want to fuck black women.

Everyone is allowed their preferences and they shouldn't be judged for it. If someone wants nothing to do with me because of my thinness, lack of boobs, ass, then that's fine too. Or because of my mental condition that's fine too. It hurts but I understand
 
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