Who should or shouldn't be allowed to cyber or have phone sex?
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AzureAngel
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How do you mean allowed?
Morally/ethically? *Blink.*
Morally/ethically? *Blink.*
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"Shouldn't" and "shouldn't be allowed" are distinctly different concepts. People that will hurt their loved ones by engaging in intimate contact with others shouldn't. No one shouldn't be allowed, however. Every adult is capable of making their own decisions, right or wrong.
AzureAngel
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Well. I can say who I wouldn't want to do either with ME, but... I don't make blanket rules.
I'm no fun. *Laughs.*
I SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO CYBER OR HAVE PHONE SEX
That better?
I'm no fun. *Laughs.*
I SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO CYBER OR HAVE PHONE SEX
That better?
Black_Bird
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*bratcat* said:
So...
... in other words this person was saying that those who don't know how to cyber shouldn't be allowed to? How else are they suppose to learn?
Black_Bird
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By the way, BC:
I stick it in you, baby. I pump it in and out of you, baby. I cum, you cum, we both smoke a joint. How was it for you?
I stick it in you, baby. I pump it in and out of you, baby. I cum, you cum, we both smoke a joint. How was it for you?
mistressastra
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Anyone can do it
But doing it well, that's another matter. I don't enjoy phone sex with guys I don't know, period. Cybering can be interesting but I still prefer it with a friend. Too many men will cum and hangup the line or leave the chatroom once they have gotten their rocks off. Not even a thanks or by your leave lol. So only with a friend is my rule now.
But doing it well, that's another matter. I don't enjoy phone sex with guys I don't know, period. Cybering can be interesting but I still prefer it with a friend. Too many men will cum and hangup the line or leave the chatroom once they have gotten their rocks off. Not even a thanks or by your leave lol. So only with a friend is my rule now.
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*bratcat* said:
Well, a good way to teach someone is just to explain to them that it should read like a good sex story on lit... except one person is in control of on character and the other person is in control of the other.
Of course, problems such as creative differences usually arise. It's actually a good idea to discuss a few things before you cyber with someone, such as what he or she is comfortable with and who, if anybody, should have dominance over the plot of the story.
I *usually* am the story teller; only once or twice have I ever been the passive one. It is still very interactive though, and I love it when the people I cyber or have phone sex with throw curves...
Black_Bird
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*bratcat* said:mmm...can we do that again?
Heh. Are you sure? It might be rougher this time... and faster (as if that's possible).
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*bratcat* said:
*Laughs.* Banned or not, I haven't in far too long.
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I totally agree with the stuff about people who can't express themselves with more than "we fuck and I cum" are boring to me and wasting my time. However, my problem lies in that 90 to 95% of the time when I really want to get off through expressing myself with the help of a female member of my species I can not find one who expresses herself any better than that. I find it very hard to do more than ignore the person. I guess what I am getting at is where is or how is a creative male to find a woman who can express themselves. I am not by any means soliciting for cyber sex.
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Rick, I think that's because most of the women with any language skills have been snatched up by the talent scouts.
Unlike Rick, I am soliciting hotsecks.
Unlike Rick, I am soliciting hotsecks.
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I shouldn't.....
I may even be "good" at it...but boooy...it just makes me laugh...and well, that tends to ruin the muud
I may even be "good" at it...but boooy...it just makes me laugh...and well, that tends to ruin the muud
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LOL!
rick_j21, when I was bored at work, I'd go into talkcity and find a guy who wanted to cyber. If I chose a sexy nick, believe me it didn't take long. I'd talk them through a nice masturbation session, hopefully the guy was at home lol. Funny thing, they'd ask what I was wesring, where was I, etc....The truth they didn't care for so I made up stuff just to make them happy. It was fun play but I stopped when too many would vanish without saying bye. Hey maybe they didn't know me but I helped them get some relief and I hated being "walked out on".
rick_j21, when I was bored at work, I'd go into talkcity and find a guy who wanted to cyber. If I chose a sexy nick, believe me it didn't take long. I'd talk them through a nice masturbation session, hopefully the guy was at home lol. Funny thing, they'd ask what I was wesring, where was I, etc....The truth they didn't care for so I made up stuff just to make them happy. It was fun play but I stopped when too many would vanish without saying bye. Hey maybe they didn't know me but I helped them get some relief and I hated being "walked out on".
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