When I found out, that men are compelled to look at womens boobs.

[Lorelei_11]

I was surprised. I mean, compelled? I have been told this by several people now. I'm thinking its true.

I went out and experimented. I'm not a very visual person. I tend to listen and hear people and miss half if not more of what is going on visually. I hadn't noticed this about men. I decided to make a concious effort to see if it was true.

By god! I think its true. Every man that looked at me looked at my boobs. Even with a normal top, no boobs sticking out of the top, not low cut. They still looked, for that split second. There isn't anything to see, and they still looked.

Now Im thinking it must be hell to be a man and try to conceal this. If you are compelled and you have to do it. You have to hide it, as well as you can. No wonder you don't make sense sometimes when talking to me. Once the boob glance is satiscified they seem more at ease.

So, men.. women... tell me, do you think this is true? I do.

Discuss your experiences.

 

[Sean]

Like you didn't know this?

 

[human_male]

Yep, compelled is the right word.

 

[SweetSurrendered1]

I'm actually pretty shy so I don't generally look people in the eyes right away. It takes me a few minutes to work into that so I don't notice what other people look at first.

Nonetheless, I do believe most of them just do it, whether out of habit or feeling compelled to. I notice them do it to others and I've been told by many that people do it to me. I've been known to take a glance myself so how could I be offended if it's done to me.

 

[Lorelei_11]

Like you didn't know this?

No, I didn't know. I didn't believe it when I was told. I mean sure, you might want to look, but to be "compelled" to? That is so strange to me.

 

[Harbinger]

Life is short. I don't want to die thinking I might have missed something.

Besides, that's what they're there for, to be looked at. You don't think Mother Nature had to make them that size just for lactation, do you?

 

[Ash86]

I heard a weird story about the whole evolution of breasts, once.
Not entirely sure where it came from, but it basically stated this:

Obviously, in the animal kingdom, the male enters the female from behind.
All those years ago, when mating in humans starting changing and evolving, the front of the female body started to resemble the back of it, sort of like having an ass on your chest, to entice the males to the front.

How odd?

 

[KyleW]

I would NEVER do such a thing.

Fucking pigs.

Horrible horrible pigs.

 

[I'm nasty]

We're all flesh & blood, wwhen we see something we like, we've gotta look.

 

[Lorelei_11]

Yep, compelled is the right word.

Its such a strange compulsion. I mean, every women you see. I could understand it if we lived in teh 1800's and you had to try and imagine a womens breasts, because that is all you would ever do.

Now, you can go home, watch porn, buy magazines and look at tons of nude women. You can go to a strip club.

Why bother, or feel compelled to glance at every womens boobs? I don't understand it.

 

[Harbinger]

I heard a weird story about the whole evolution of breasts, once.
Not entirely sure where it came from, but it basically stated this:

Obviously, in the animal kingdom, the male enters the female from behind.
All those years ago, when mating in humans starting changing and evolving, the front of the female body started to resemble the back of it, sort of like having an ass on your chest, to entice the males to the front.

How odd?

I don't understand how that would have anything to do with evolution. How could face-to-face fucking possibly make your offspring more likely to survive?

 

[RoryN]

Why bother, or feel compelled to glance at every womens boobs? I don't understand it.

*copied from other boobie thread*

Here's something to try. Let your eyes relax, and look straight forward. Keep your head still.

Now, without moving your head, look up. Takes a little bit of effort from your eyes, right?

Now, try looking down. Notice where your eyes tend to focus - at or below your forward vision point.

That is why nature placed breasts where they are. Staring and licking one's lips is rude (unless invited), but casual glances should be expected.

 

[Lorelei_11]

I'm actually pretty shy so I don't generally look people in the eyes right away. It takes me a few minutes to work into that so I don't notice what other people look at first.

Nonetheless, I do believe most of them just do it, whether out of habit or feeling compelled to. I notice them do it to others and I've been told by many that people do it to me. I've been known to take a glance myself so how could I be offended if it's done to me.

I was never really that offended. The guys that stare for ages make me totally uncomfortable. Now that I know of this compulsion, I feel more sorry for them than anything else. If I had that compulsion it would be disturbing to me.

I really feel for them. They must be glad when they are dating or married, then they can stare until their hearts content and actually get that off their minds so they can make sense when talking.

 

[Lorelei_11]

Life is short. I don't want to die thinking I might have missed something.

Besides, that's what they're there for, to be looked at. You don't think Mother Nature had to make them that size just for lactation, do you?

Yeah, but they tell me that they "have" to do it.

I know men enjoy them. If I had to look at a guys crotch everytime I talked to any guy... I'd be freaked out. Thinking o.k... uhhh I have to so, I'm going to find sneaky ways to do this. I should time this, is this the right time? will he notice now? I should go for it... no ... wait. I should wait a bit. O.k, now seems good, I can't control myself... I have to ... oh god I hope he doesn't notice. Here goooooooes nothing... peek. lmao

 

[JustSkye]

I was never really that offended. The guys that stare for ages make me totally uncomfortable. Now that I know of this compulsion, I feel more sorry for them than anything else. If I had that compulsion it would be disturbing to me.

I really feel for them. They must be glad when they are dating or married, then they can stare until their hearts content and actually get that off their minds so they can make sense when talking.

just because men are married or dating or women for that matter, they never stop looking.

Why do you really feel for them? Why is it disturbing?

 

[Lorelei_11]

I heard a weird story about the whole evolution of breasts, once.
Not entirely sure where it came from, but it basically stated this:

Obviously, in the animal kingdom, the male enters the female from behind.
All those years ago, when mating in humans starting changing and evolving, the front of the female body started to resemble the back of it, sort of like having an ass on your chest, to entice the males to the front.

How odd?

That is more than odd. lol

 

[Ash86]

I don't understand how that would have anything to do with evolution. How could face-to-face fucking possibly make your offspring more likely to survive?

Yeah, that's what I thought.
Like I said, it was a weird story!
Maybe the males were overall a lot happier when they could see the female's face?
Mated more often?
Upped the conception rates?
Lowered the mortality rates because happy couples are stronger couples?

Haha, I have no idea.

 

[Lorelei_11]

I would NEVER do such a thing.

Fucking pigs.

Horrible horrible pigs.

LMAO..

I actually feel sorry for guys now. If I could, I would start a conversation with this... Go ahead and look at my boobs. If you need to look at them again, go ahead. This way you can relax and we can just talk... o.k I understand your compulsion.

 

[JustSkye]

LMAO..

I actually feel sorry for guys now. If I could, I would start a conversation with this... Go ahead and look at my boobs. If you need to look at them again, go ahead. This way you can relax and we can just talk... o.k I understand your compulsion.

no, that would be arrogance. Because not all men are this way.

 

[Lorelei_11]

We're all flesh & blood, wwhen we see something we like, we've gotta look.

I would understand that if you could take it or leave it.

 

[Lorelei_11]

*copied from other boobie thread*

Here's something to try. Let your eyes relax, and look straight forward. Keep your head still.

Now, without moving your head, look up. Takes a little bit of effort from your eyes, right?

Now, try looking down. Notice where your eyes tend to focus - at or below your forward vision point.

That is why nature placed breasts where they are. Staring and licking one's lips is rude (unless invited), but casual glances should be expected.

Oh, I understand taht but its not just the area they are in. The mailman comes and he looks down at my boobs every time, for longer than a second.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Men, boobs.

Women, diamonds.

Same difference if ya ask me...

 

[Ash86]

Oh, I understand taht but its not just the area they are in. The mailman comes and he looks down at my boobs every time, for longer than a second.

I'm thinking mebbe you just have particularly lush assets, my friend.

 

[Lorelei_11]

just because men are married or dating or women for that matter, they never stop looking.

Why do you really feel for them? Why is it disturbing?

Because they are compelled, and have to. If they could take it or leave then Iwouldn't feel like that. Every guy I talked to says he is compelled.

 

[TWB]

I was surprised. I mean, compelled? I have been told this by several people now. I'm thinking its true.

I went out and experimented. I'm not a very visual person. I tend to listen and hear people and miss half if not more of what is going on visually. I hadn't noticed this about men. I decided to make a concious effort to see if it was true.

By god! I think its true. Every man that looked at me looked at my boobs. Even with a normal top, no boobs sticking out of the top, not low cut. They still looked, for that split second. There isn't anything to see, and they still looked.

Now Im thinking it must be hell to be a man and try to conceal this. If you are compelled and you have to do it. You have to hide it, as well as you can. No wonder you don't make sense sometimes when talking to me. Once the boob glance is satiscified they seem more at ease.

So, men.. women... tell me, do you think this is true? I do.

Discuss your experiences.

my question to women is this: When you aren't looking at a man's eyes, what are you looking at?

I see women run their eyes down and up my body...quick flashes... which is essentially what I do. I don't talk to women's boobs, as I have observed some people (men) do, but I usually run my eyes down and up their body, just checking them out.

THere was one woman in my office who had terrifically large breasts. They must have been EE's or something, and she had a small frame. I made a pact with myself never to look at her breasts because I knew every other man in the office was oogling at them all the time, and I thought how silly that was. It was not difficult to do.