What's Your Favorite Act of Service to Give or Receive

kneelingmatt

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Acts of service can be incredibly meaningful in D/s dynamics—whether it's something small and routine or deeply symbolic. Personally, my favorite acts of service to perform are thing that make the lady happy and pleased. It might cleaning, organizing, maybe lighting candles around a prepared bath, or doing her laundry while she relaxes with a glass of wine. There's something really grounding and intimate about creating comfort for someone else, especially when it's done with intention and care as she guided me to be better and more attentive to her needs.



I'm curious—what's your favorite act of service to give or receive? Is it something practical, emotional, symbolic, or ritualistic? Do you have a story behind it?
 
Favorite act of service? When my Miss finishes with her lover. She looks over to me, smiles and call me over. "Who's a good boy," she asks, tousling my hair. I blush as she hugs my head to her warm, dripping pussy. Slowly and tenderly, I lick and suck her clean and she has a gentle second orgasm against my lips. "You're my best boy," she says caressing my cheek. I swoon.
 
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Cooking, and then cleaning up the kitchen. I love to cook and she enjoys it when I do.
 
Acts of service can be incredibly meaningful in D/s dynamics—whether it's something small and routine or deeply symbolic. Personally, my favorite acts of service to perform are thing that make the lady happy and pleased. It might cleaning, organizing, maybe lighting candles around a prepared bath, or doing her laundry while she relaxes with a glass of wine. There's something really grounding and intimate about creating comfort for someone else, especially when it's done with intention and care as she guided me to be better and more attentive to her needs.



I'm curious—what's your favorite act of service to give or receive? Is it something practical, emotional, symbolic, or ritualistic? Do you have a story behind it?
My favorite act of service to get is getting my cock sucked. As a matter of fact I like it so much that I enjoy giving it just as much. I love it when a guy or a girl holds my head in their hands and cums down my throat pumping his cock until his balls are empty and his load is shot or if she cums rubbing her pussy all over my face.
 
Cooking for her in panties and a bra. Or, giving a great massage to her feet.
 
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Massage (I'm very good at it). I wish she'd let me do my REAL favorite, going down on her, but she doesn't like it, because she "hates losing control."
 
I used to love getting in the shower with my exes and bathing them. I wish my Daddy would let me do it to him. I bring it up sometimes, and he agrees, but we never actually do it.
 
I'm in the same boat. Cleaning, cooking, yard work, massages, etc. Anything that reduces that special persons stress and makes their life easier.
 
There have been a lot saying how they like to serve I am also interested in how you like to be served.
 
I wish I could just relax and let a sub clean for me, but it's hard to let go of the insecurity of feeling like a slob. Massages are great, though!
 
I wish I could just relax and let a sub clean for me, but it's hard to let go of the insecurity of feeling like a slob. Massages are great, though!
what if the sub comes to thank you for allowing them to clean for you when they are done and you can inspect the work making sure it is done to your liking?
 
I'd say the privilege of giving pleasure with my mouth. I crave subjugation though and don't like hurting, but if you like hurting me I love being hurt. I'm a massive pussy girl when it comes to pain. Short of giving my life, suffering for others pleasure just happens to be the most complete offering of servitude I can make.
 
I love to give oral service while my face is being abused with spit and slaps and telling how much of a pig I am, after I swallow their load and they’re washing it down my throat with their piss.
 
When we get into a domme/sub mode, my favorite thing to do is kneel by her recliner while she reads. After a while ( can be a few minutes or hours), she notices me and just about anything can happen, totally at her whim. We've been doing that for years. The secret is to not do it too often or it will get stale.
 
Mine is kind of ordinary, but it is always making a point of asking if there is something I can do. After washing the dishes, for example, asking if s/he would like a cup of coffee. Evenings, watching TV or a movie if I stand up I always ask if I can get anything for him/her. To receive? That’s a little harder. To be asked what I think maybe…. Asked seriously, I mean.
 
I try and remove all mundane , repetitive, dull activity and create some peace, inspiring , relaxing space … for the ultimate service, unconditional indulgence , sensual intimacy exactly as she wishes.
 
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