What's the appeal - - Honestly

[DeMont]

Writing fictional erotic scenes allows us as authors to show why certain sexual acts or kinks appeal to our characters. The purpose of this thread is to allow us to explain why any particular act appeals to us in real life.

No judgement, just honest disclosure among the community members in the hopes that understanding why others find something appealing might get translated into more credible writing when the particular act appears in a story.

I’ll start…

Facials/Body Painting:

The appeal to me has changed somewhat over the years.

As a teen, the appeal was lessening the chance of getting some girl pregnant. I know, not the most reliable approach, but fortunately, it worked for me.

As I got older, and particularly after my vasectomy, the appeal became more of a practical one. Simply put, it made it easier for the girl/woman to clean up after the fact. If we planned to continue our escapades, starting fresh was appealing. (Then there was also the reduced risk of leaving any trace DNA evidence behind.)

@BobbyBrandt,
Hello my dear colleague. If I am going to pick one out I'm going to say "Fisting".
My ex was really into that and I, being a true gentleman, always oblige the ladies. She would get such a rush out of it, extremely strong orgasms and her favourite, chokingly, gasped line just before "that" moment was, "You so own me!"
Not bad for the old ego, the concept of slavish surrender and ownership.
Deepest respects,
D.

 

[big_cane_sugar]

I dont like catching pubes in my mouth.

I think that's just part of the fun lol