What's with testicles, anyway?

[Rorysweetdimples]

Okay, guys...this is a serious question, with more questions to follow. I really am getting somewhere, so, please, be serious. Just how attached is a man and his testicles? How would you feel if you lost one? My husband had one of his testicles removed long before we were married. I am just wondering if I am not giving "it" the attention it deserves. Since I've decided to actually have sex with him after the mother/threesome/fantasy thing,(see old thread), I need some inside information. Does it have anything to do with quality, or quantity of the sex act?
Who else would I ask such a personal question? My DAD!!!???!!!

 

[lavaman]

testicles

It has had no effect on me what so ever... What question would you like answered.....

 

[Rorysweetdimples]

Have you also had a testicle removed? Dear God, you aren't my husband, are you!!!LOL. He had it removed because it had pre cancerous cells. I just wonder why he won't let me look, or touch, and if I am missing anything, or is he? Sexually, that is.

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

I think maybe you should be asking him this. Only he knows the real answer to that question.

 

[lavaman]

Testicles...

I don't know what is up with him. It had no effect other than I occasionally would experience a little pain after having sex several times. But it didn't slow down my desire at all.

 

[Young Knave]

What happens then?

What do they do after they remove it? Do they do any cosmetic surgery afterwards to make everything look like it had before?

 

[lavaman]

Cosmetic Surgery

The cosmetic surgery is optional.... They remove the testicle from above through the groin area. So they don't actually cut the sack. So if you want they just insert a a fake testicle.

 

[mary jane]

Just my two cents...I have no experience whatsoever in this area, but it seems like you and your husband don't talk intimately all that often. I know for me that it's one of the hardest things in the world to start one of "those" discussions, but I also know I feel a whole lot better after I realize how much easier it was to talk than I feared it would be. Hugs! mary jane

 

[Rorysweetdimples]

Okay, here is what I am trying to get at: I want to know what a man's testicles have to do with sexual satisfaction. For example, do they like to have their testicles rubbed, sucked, squeezed, or what? And if they do, I have no idea how to even go about playing with his. He has never let me touch him there, and I am very curious to know if he really would enjoy it if he could get over the idea of me feeling and seeing what he has down there. I mean, of course I have seen his testicle, but have never been able to excite him enough to let me explore. He has no problem with the mechanics of things, it is mostly in his head.

 

[Merelan]

Any guy I have ever been with loved having them played with. Touched, fondled, caressed, licked, sucked, nuzzled.....
You need to talk to him, about alot of things.
But maybe, just maybe, it is more sensitive now? Maybe painful? Or maybe he is being over protective of it. Not sure.

 

[*Jennifer-In-Flares*]

he's maybe embarrassed like my cousin after her mastectomy. she didnt want anyone to see her or touch her with only one breast even her bf. *jenny*

 

[guest]

Being a woman, I'm only speaking from observation, but it really depends on the guy. My current boyfriend loves to have me play with his testicles. I wouldn't dream of giving him a blowjob without spending some time licking and sucking his balls as well. I have known guys in the past though that would perfer not haveing them touched at all. Like alot of the posts have already said, you really have to talk with him. The more you do it, the less uncomfortable it becomes. I talk very openly with my boyfriend, and the sex is all the better for it

 

[Gaultier]

Some time ago, I had to undergo surgery on one of my testicles, infact it somehow got twisted which is very painful as you guys can imagine...Well, what I wanted to say is that a couple of years after surgery, it still felt a little bit weird and it was very sensitive. Now after over 5 years, everything is back to normal. So, I would say that you should not force your husband to show you or let you touch it. Go slowly, it may take some time.

 

[AusTess]

Wow.

At christmas,my Uncle Herb used to get blind drunk and pop his fake eye out of it's socket and drop it in his beer.

I'm SO fucking glad he never had a testicle removed.

 

[Rorysweetdimples]

I thought this site was for adults only...

 

[AusTess]

My birth certificate says I'm an adult.
The phsychology report,sadly,was never found after that TRAGIC fire.*s*

 

[Rorysweetdimples]

Touche'

 

[AusTess]

*L*
I thought i did good on that one.
Who's keeping score?