This seems sooooo very easy but I am married and not bi or gay. I can't do dating apps as people will see or recognize me. I can't go to gay bars for the same reason. I am afraid of rando guys for disease purposes. So, how do I find a guy or buddy who will let me suck his cock? I really want to find a guy who will let me suck it anytime. I would love to go on a "guys trip" somewhere with my wife knowing it's the guys going to a ball game but really it's my way to get my buddy in a room so I can suck him off all the time. Any legit ideas? How can I approach a buddy? How do I find a stranger and ask him yet be safe?