What's something you've always wanted to ask the opposite gender?

[hotoldrguy]

Do gentlemen really prefer blondes?

I do not. Love brunettes, red heads, purple streaks as well...LOL To me it is all about the woman that is wearing the hair

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Just out of curiosity, what are some things we women do that annoys you?

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Is it true we should ignore you a little to keep you keen?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Why is it, that when we show someone a revealing pic, so many men automatically assume that it's an invitation for them to reciprocate?

Dudes, if i want to see your junk, I WILL ASK FOR IT. If i don't ask, don't fucking send it!!

Just say 'Thank You' and carry on with your day. GEEZE.



/rant

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

What motivates a make to make the first move in approaching a female?

God does. She tells us to. Every time a woman rejects a man, an angel loses its wings. And a puppy dies. Something to think about.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Do gentlemen really prefer blondes?

I can't prove that I'm a gentleman, but I prefer Women. I notice hair but colour isn't that important.

Just out of curiosity, what are some things we women do that annoys you?

That hair thing above.

Is it true we should ignore you a little to keep you keen?

It seems to work

Why is it, that when we show someone a revealing pic, so many men automatically assume that it's an invitation for them to reciprocate?

Dudes, if i want to see your junk, I WILL ASK FOR IT. If i don't ask, don't fucking send it!!

Just say 'Thank You' and carry on with your day. GEEZE.



/rant

Im beginning to think MS or Apple needs to develop a "cock blocker" that will dick picks in an email pm or text and reject the message unless it is in reply to one from the intended recipient with the words "please send me a dick pic" in the subject line. Because these jerks are ruining it for the rest of us that just wanna look at naughty bits.

 

[Animaul]

In terms of attraction:

What are the top 2 physical features you notice on a man when you first meet him?

Also, what are the top 2 things you notice on man in terms of fashion? (e.g. types of shoes, watches, eyeglasses...etc)

 

[KarenB59]

In terms of attraction:

What are the top 2 physical features you notice on a man when you first meet him?

Also, what are the top 2 things you notice on man in terms of fashion? (e.g. types of shoes, watches, eyeglasses...etc)

His smile. Is it real or fake? White teeth. Not necessarily straight but at least brushed and there.
His hands and arms.

I don't notice much about fashion. Jeans or a suit. It really depends on the person wearing it. I personally wouldn't know the difference in a real Rolex or a knock off

 

[UgliestSon]

Do females really care about mens attire? I usually dress in some pretty odd clothing. Somewhere between a lumberjack and the Unabomber some might say.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Why is it women want a man with a beard, yet in many professional situations he is to be clean shaven?

 

[AlwaysFara]

In terms of attraction:

What are the top 2 physical features you notice on a man when you first meet him?

Also, what are the top 2 things you notice on man in terms of fashion? (e.g. types of shoes, watches, eyeglasses...etc)

Physically?
How he looks at me.
Hands.
One more... chest hair.

Fashion?
I really don’t care, as long as it works for him.
I will notice FIT, though.

Do females really care about mens attire? I usually dress in some pretty odd clothing. Somewhere between a lumberjack and the Unabomber some might say.

You’re hot, and you know it. Your clothes fit who you are.
The Unabomber.

Why is it women want a man with a beard, yet in many professional situations he is to be clean shaven?

Beards are sexy. They frame the lips. They as masculine. A beardy face roughing up my nipples or pussy?
Fuck.

If you are clean shaven, chest hair works, too.
And FFS, stop waxing and shaving your junk. We like that, too.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Why is it women want a man with a beard, yet in many professional situations he is to be clean shaven?

Because your boss doesn't want you eating pussy at work!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Because your boss doesn't want you eating pussy at work!

You may be on to something, bro.

Physically?

Beards are sexy. They frame the lips. They as masculine. A beardy face roughing up my nipples or pussy?
Fuck.

If you are clean shaven, chest hair works, too.
And FFS, stop waxing and shaving your junk. We like that, too.

Okay, based on this from Fara, let's talk men's body hair.

Full disclosure: I have a full beard (since I was in my twenties), un-manscaped chest, belly, back butt and legs.

I trim my junk, because that gets me the exact oral I like, (I shave my balls so that they will get attention), I trim the base just enough to keep hair from getting caught in a cockring. Especially a leather one.

So, sorry for the overshare, but what do you women like: hairy as a bear or smooth as silk?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

<lurks and giggles>

 

[JerseyJade]

You may be on to something, bro.



Okay, based on this from Fara, let's talk men's body hair.

Full disclosure: I have a full beard (since I was in my twenties), un-manscaped chest, belly, back butt and legs.

I trim my junk, because that gets me the exact oral I like, (I shave my balls so that they will get attention), I trim the base just enough to keep hair from getting caught in a cockring. Especially a leather one.

So, sorry for the overshare, but what do you women like: hairy as a bear or smooth as silk?

Me personally, I don't like a lot of hair on a man's chest, a little is fine. As for a beard, if it's well groomed, I like it. It also depends on the face. Some men look better with beards and some don't. As for the fun area, I prefer no hair to a little hair. If there's one thing that grosses me out, that is getting hair in my mouth. A man who has a lot of hair down there is a turn off for me.

 

[Rivvie]

You may be on to something, bro.



Okay, based on this from Fara, let's talk men's body hair.

Full disclosure: I have a full beard (since I was in my twenties), un-manscaped chest, belly, back butt and legs.

I trim my junk, because that gets me the exact oral I like, (I shave my balls so that they will get attention), I trim the base just enough to keep hair from getting caught in a cockring. Especially a leather one.

So, sorry for the overshare, but what do you women like: hairy as a bear or smooth as silk?

I like a hairy man typically. I like chest hair to play with or nuzzle, back hair is fine in limited quantity... same for ass hair.. I don’t mind a natural junk area but a little trimmed up is good. I like the musk smell. Smooth men don’t get that. I agree though I prefer less hair on the balls if my mouth will be surrounding them etc heh

 

[AlwaysFara]

The more hair the better.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Before I joined Lit. The less hair, the better. Now, I've learned that it totally depends on the person. Some wear the beards so well, it's hot. Some I still prefer the baby face/shaved look. Body hair. Also the same. I used to prefer less hair, and sometimes I still do. But now, I like having something to run my fingers through. Something to feel. Down there.. Depends on how much body hair there is. If he's super hairy every where. It looks weird shaved/waxed. So trim is good. I like my dental floss elsewhere.

 

[hotoldrguy]

The more hair the better.

ooops puts me out of the running...body hair wise

 

[hotoldrguy]

Before I joined Lit. The less hair, the better. Now, I've learned that it totally depends on the person. Some wear the beards so well, it's hot. Some I still prefer the baby face/shaved look. Body hair. Also the same. I used to prefer less hair, and sometimes I still do. But now, I like having something to run my fingers through. Something to feel. Down there.. Depends on how much body hair there is. If he's super hairy every where. It looks weird shaved/waxed. So trim is good. I like my dental floss elsewhere.

BAHAHA!! dental floss..I have had a few pussy pubes get between my teeth so I get it.

 

[AlwaysFara]

ooops puts me out of the running...body hair wise

Dude.
You’re fucking FINE.

It’s hard for me to “grade” men on looks. I am a sucker for a rapier wit.

 

[Dejah_thoris_of_Mars]

You may be on to something, bro.



Okay, based on this from Fara, let's talk men's body hair.

Full disclosure: I have a full beard (since I was in my twenties), un-manscaped chest, belly, back butt and legs.

I trim my junk, because that gets me the exact oral I like, (I shave my balls so that they will get attention), I trim the base just enough to keep hair from getting caught in a cockring. Especially a leather one.

So, sorry for the overshare, but what do you women like: hairy as a bear or smooth as silk?

Since you know that I have complimented you on your beard in other threads, I shall further expound on the issue of body hair. Honestly, I love it. I love running my hands through it, plucking it teasingly (LOL, especially buttcheek hair...I am a brat that way), and snuggling my face in it. Pubic hair that is trimmed is preferred for the reasons that you mentioned about.

However, for some reason I do not care for men to have long hair on their heads. I definitely prefer at most close cropped on the sides. Probably because I spent my twenties surrounded by hot dudes with high and tights.

 

[Azuldrgon]

The answers make sense.

So here's a deeper grave for me to dig.

Are women really as complicated as the stereotype or does it just show laziness for the guys that say it?

 

[Dejah_thoris_of_Mars]

Do females really care about mens attire? I usually dress in some pretty odd clothing. Somewhere between a lumberjack and the Unabomber some might say.

Clothing is unimportant to me. I think I prefer men who are not so fashion/trend oriented. Although, I have to say that there are some styles that men wear that completely turn me off, as it seems like it is a reflection of their personality. However, I am willing to be proven wrong in this stereotype.

As long as it is clean and not full of holes or stains (obviously not referring to what you where to do yard work or activities that you know you are going to get dirty in.)

I would say that it obviously depends on the woman and the type of woman that you want to be interested in you! Do you want someone who is always dressed to the nines? Then she will likely expect as much attention to detail in your appearance.

I think it is very personality driven. YMMV

 

[Dejah_thoris_of_Mars]

Here is a question for the guys. Why are men so opposed to using body lotion? Is it because it is considered a feminine conceit to have moisturized skin?