Whats more intimate?Kissing or Sex

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So, Is kissing more intimate than sex? If you think it is, Why?
 
hmmm....

i guess it depends on the situation of the "relationship". sometimes a kiss can be so intimate, so heart-embracing that I think just "WOW!". On other - drunken, random - times it is just a kiss. Nothing else.

Same goes with sex. Although I have to say that kissing is something immensely sensual and that I love it a lot.


Halo :rose:
 
Re: hmmm....

LittleDevilWithAHalo said:
i guess it depends on the situation of the "relationship". sometimes a kiss can be so intimate, so heart-embracing that I think just "WOW!". On other - drunken, random - times it is just a kiss. Nothing else.

Same goes with sex. Although I have to say that kissing is something immensely sensual and that I love it a lot.


Halo :rose:

ditto for me.

and no i'm not just trying to get into halo's underwear...

I love just laying together, holding and kissing each other... half-naked is best... both being topless i reckon... but that could just be me
 
Oh yes, the kissing is where it's at for intimacy.

Wrapped in each others arms, running your hands over their body while softly kissing.

Oh, I love that.
 
Re: hmmm....

LittleDevilWithAHalo said:
i guess it depends on the situation of the "relationship". sometimes a kiss can be so intimate, so heart-embracing that I think just "WOW!". On other - drunken, random - times it is just a kiss. Nothing else.

Same goes with sex. Although I have to say that kissing is something immensely sensual and that I love it a lot.


Halo :rose:
I have slept with women where it was just sex.....No kissing on eithers part........Sex was good but I didnt have the desire for the kissing stuff.....On the other hand being with someone that is into the whole kissing AND sex thing was much better...........Remember the scene in Pretty Women where Julia Roberts tells Richard Gere she didnt kiss? I think she told him it was to intimate.....
 
Okay I can relate to that.

I can have sex with someone ... But I am not really interested in kissing them (as well as another thing I won't do) If I don't have feelings for them...Maybe I am weird...I don't know...
 
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Starblayde said:


ditto for me.

and no i'm not just trying to get into halo's underwear...

I love just laying together, holding and kissing each other... half-naked is best... both being topless i reckon... but that could just be me

WHICH UNDERWEAR? :D

and i agree on the "laying together" part. it is just so nice to chill out together - lights dimmed low, music on and just enjoy being together.


Halo :rose:
 
MorgaineLaFay said:
Okay I can relate to that.

I can have sex with someone ... But I am not really interested in kissing them (as well as another thing I won't do) If I don't have feelings for them...Maybe I am weird...I don't know...
No your not weird.........Im the same way .....If I dont have that strong attraction...........Then there is no kissing and no....well you know;)
 
Sex, preluded, interrupted and followed by lots of kissing!


Kissing is the key.


*MUAH*
 
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LittleDevilWithAHalo said:


WHICH UNDERWEAR? :D

and i agree on the "laying together" part. it is just so nice to chill out together - lights dimmed low, music on and just enjoy being together.


Halo :rose:

well i hoped you'd have like a lacy black bra and panties set i could wear... j/k

Take your pick, what would you allow me into... :devil:
 
If I'm with someone that I really care about, kissing is the ultimate in intimacy. I could lie there for hours, wrapped in his arms, kissing and talking and kissing some more. . .

:kiss:
 
i think you'd look cute in my dark purple lace bra and panties. :) on the other hand, how about a sassy black g-string? :D

Halo :rose:
 
Mmmmm.....................

Sex is good when there is that immediate need:) However. when there is plenty of hot, passionate, intimate kissing as a prelude to and during sex. It makes that sex so much sweeter:D :D :D

Jaded1, CT:devil:
 
To me, kissing is more INTIMATE, but only after sex. I can have sex without kissing, but just kissing instead of sex I can't handle because the kissing always makes me want sex. In fact the initial kissing creates the lust that fuels the sex. Sex is always better with a LOT of kissing foreplay.

Usually even the after sex intimate kissing leads to more sex though. :D
 
Two mouths kissing is far more ...

intimate just to clarify things. When it is there it makes it so far much better.

Wouldn't going down on a woman or a blow job be considered kissing.

Peace,
Tulip
 
Re: Two mouths kissing is far more ...

tulip2lipservice said:

Wouldn't going down on a woman or a blow job be considered kissing.

most of my foreplay technique is based on kissing, and caressing, every bit of flesh i can find...
 
hmmm I miss caressing, I think it is one of the most sensual things to touch your partners skin and to caress him. don't get me wrong, sex is nice... sex is VERY nice. but i still think it is over-rated at times. (and no, i'm not frigid)



Halo :rose:
 
Kissing hands down for intimacy...

I once kissed a girl for about 4 hours. I was dying by the end of it and my lips were numb but it was fantastic...

When you kiss someone, you really establish a bond. Its actually far more intimate than sex...you learn a lot about a person from the way they kiss...
 
Hello Rhys my almost muse....

could you elaborate on how you can learn a lot about a person from the way they kiss...

I always wondered about that. All I know is I do enjoy kissing. I am a very oral person. Go figure from my nick.

Peace,
Tulip
 
I have kissed some one before and it was simply a kiss.
No sparks flew it was all in fun. I have done that once or twice. :)

I would have to say sex is a very intimate act, you just don't have sex with anyone, at least that is my view. Sex is some thing you share with that special someone. Its sweet. :)

Of course kissing can also be sweet - but depending on who you are kissing , @ times its simply a kiss. :kiss:
 
IMHO

Sex is much more intimate. Taking a part of another person so fully inside you. What is the phrase? One flesh? You literally are joined and are sharing your body.

I realize with kissing, your tongues are inside...but..uh...I think the whole cock in pussy thing is a little more intimate.:D
Especially if he cums inside you. No condom. Skin to skin. His body against yours. Kissing while you fuck.

Sigh,
Cassidy:kiss:
 
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