What would you tell your younger self if you could travel back in time?

[dreamysub]

What would you tell your younger self IF you could travel back in time??
Words of advice? Warnings? Encouragement? Reassuring?
What would you tell your younger self if you had the chance to do so???

Well, I will start.

I would tell myself "Avoid men like a plague, that shit will ruin you in sooooo many ways!! You think you can't do it, but you CAN. You gonna be just fine on your own! Oh and PLEASE, never EVER settle for less than you deserve and need.. Just don't do THAT to yourself!!!!!"

Then I would HUGG myself TIGHT and tell my younger self "You got this!!!" Then I would leave quietly, hoping my younger self will do wiser life decisions than I have..

Thats what I would do.
What about you???

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I would tell myself:

• Learn to dance dumbass
• Understand that not all chances you take are reckless
• It took too many years to discover that when there's multiple path's available to help solve problems, just take any ONE of the paths and get started instead of not taking any path because of worrying about taking the wrong one.

 

[cdstefi]

"You know that time you almost made out with Fay one night but were too nervous? Do it!"

 

[Norfolkguy49]

That some girls will want you just be patient. Don't hesitate

 

[Seadog777]

That you can not change what happened to you and what you saw.
That the drinking and drugs doesn't help get rid of anything.
Holding onto the hatred, hurts you more than it does anyone or anything else.
Learn to let it all go and forgive them and yourself.
If you don't, you'll be inadvertently taking it out on strangers and loved ones.
Lord knows, I wish I truly understood that long before I do now.

 

[Amanda330]

This is what I would tell myself as my 40th birthday draws nearer...

• Give yourself time. Explore who you are
• Your self worth isn't tied to what a man or men think of you
• People pleasing is a trauma response. People who really love you will love you even when you make them unhappy
• You are not responsible for fixing people
• You cannot make someone love you in the way you need them to
• Don't take life so seriously. Laugh a lot
• The right people will fight for you and support you in reaching your goals

 

[SavannaT]

1. Its ok to be a slut, even a married one
2. Take appraising eyes as compliments
3. That creepy guy you hate, he’s hung, fuck him
4. Your pussy doesn’t care what your heart wants
5. Be confident, dress however you want no matter what your husband says
6. The inner voice is right more than you admit

 

[Taegul]

If I could go back in time, I'd tell myself this...

"The winning Powerball numbers for Mar 23, 2024 are 6 23 25 34 51 and 3"

 

[subdudeme13]

This is what I would tell myself as my 40th birthday draws nearer...

• Give yourself time. Explore who you are
• Your self worth isn't tied to what a man or men think of you
• People pleasing is a trauma response. People who really love you will love you even when you make them unhappy
• You are not responsible for fixing people
• You cannot make someone love you in the way you need them to
• Don't take life so seriously. Laugh a lot
• The right people will fight for you and support you in reaching your goals

I could tell my younger 40s self the same thing. Time marches on and 40 seems so young to me.

 

[dreamysub]

If I could go back in time, I'd tell myself this...

"The winning Powerball numbers for Mar 23, 2024 are 6 23 25 34 51 and 3"

Good thinking lol

 

[Yesok1]

1. Just admit you're gay sweetie!

 

[gopackgo1973]

1. Its ok to be a slut, even a married one
2. Take appraising eyes as compliments
3. That creepy guy you hate, he’s hung, fuck him
4. Your pussy doesn’t care what your heart wants
5. Be confident, dress however you want no matter what your husband says
6. The inner voice is right more than you admit

I LOVE THAT!! Especially the 1st one!!

 

[CuriousRick]

—Don’t be afraid to take that chance and tell people how you feel.
—- Tell people in your life that you love them. They will be gone before you know it.

 

[cypressknee]

Make that cougars friend feel wanted too….

 

[KatieDoes]

Choose yourself

Spend more time listening to your parents and grandparents stories

Men ain’t shit

Buy stock in Apple and Amazon

 

[Lady2020]

Accept yourself and don't read Seventeen.

 

[SherlockianMan]

Stop second guessing yourself and just go for it.

 

[Codeman93]

Your worth more then others let on

 

[SassySheDevil]

Make every day count. You never know how much time you'll have.

 

[Seadog777]

You can't change the traumas that occurred, but you can change how you respond.

 

[Wonderer67]

You can't change the traumas that occurred, but you can change how you respond.

Amen brother.

 

[Lady2020]

Stay away from the lazy asses.

 

[fullservice65]

Just try it, dumbshit!

 

[Badxxxwifey]

Get on that OF sooner girl XD

 

[SoCalAshley]

With apologies to Charles Webb (author of The Graduate),

Ashley 2024: I want to say one word to you. Just two words.
Ashley 2013: Yes, ma'am.
Ashley 2024: Are you listening?
Ashley 2013: Yes, I am.
Ashley 2024: Artificial Intelligence
Ashley 2013: Exactly how do you mean?
Ashley 2024: There's a great future in AI. Think about it. Will you think about it?