PrettyLilPussy19
Feral Princess
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Mansplainers.
If I want your opinion, I’ll ask for it.
*Just Kidding* I won’t.
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Mansplainers.
If I want your opinion, I’ll ask for it.
*Just Kidding* I won’t.
Letting myself get pulled into the drama gutter.
I'm ashamed of myself.
And I deserve a spanking.
*raises my hand*
Do you... do you think you could do an appropriate job??![]()
Considering I’m pretty pissed off as well, hell yes.
Letting myself get pulled into the drama gutter.
I'm ashamed of myself.
And I deserve a spanking.
You know how bowling alleys have bumpers for crap bowlers like myself to keep us from ending up in the gutter? Those, but for the drama gutter.
But only after Fara delivers that spanking, obviously.
As one such disappointing co-worker; I know why I'm disappointing but don't care enough to change it, so there's nothing my displeased co-workers can do anyway. Yours might be like that too.co-workers being disappointing, and me not being able to articulate why they were so disappointing, so I want to rant but can't.
That's a million dollar idea!! Where can I get them?
(I'm an awesome bowler though)
As one such disappointing co-worker; I know why I'm disappointing but don't care enough to change it, so there's nothing my displeased co-workers can do anyway. Yours might be like that too.
I'm the one who gets a strike on the first frame and then gutters for the rest of the game.
(I dunno where to get drama gutters, but as soon as I find a source I am MADE.)
I don't think that's the situation here.
Short version: there's a super nice lady at work who I used to hang out and chat with before I got transferred to another team. AFAIK, she's the only Muslim and the only black-African person in that particular office.
After Christchurch attack happened, I emailed her to say so sorry, what awful news, thinking of you. I'm not the most socially aware person but even to me, it was pretty obvious that this would be frightening and distressing news for her.
She wrote back a week later to tell me I was the only person at work who'd said anything to her about it. I know some of her team-mates, they're nice people and they respect her, so I don't think it's that they don't care. My guess is they didn't know what to say, so they said nothing. Even though EVERY YEAR we have mental health awareness campaigns encouraging us to ask people "are you okay?"
I'm cranky because things like this seem to happen a lot - people love the idea of diversity, they want to be able to boast about how many staff we have from minority backgrounds, but they don't give any thought to what it means to be supportive of those people once they're here.
Like one time, somebody decided it would be great to have a "Multicultural Lunch" day where everybody brought food from their own culture and shared it around. Great idea, only... they scheduled it bang in the middle of the Ramadan fasting period. That's where we're at.
I know there are far worse places, just... my work is supposed to be better than this.
I wanna be you when I grow up.![]()
Attorney General Barr’s cowardly partisanship.
People's reaction to a razor campaign has me fully triggered.
People's reaction to a razor campaign has me fully triggered.
Is this new or a continuation of the idiotic rejection of the one that suggested that men should aspire to be good people?![]()
It must be new bc I have no idea what you mean!I'm talking about Gillette using a plus size model in an ad and all of the internet feeling like they can 1. Have an opinion about someone else's body. 2. Make a moral judgement about that person based off their opinion.