What makes str8 men bi/curious in their advanced years?

let's think this through

not much to think about.....really.....I mean, is there any mystery here????We would ALL do it, except for two things....society and fear. As we get older we realize that it is only natural......a man's place is on his knees or on his back

let's just DO it!!!
 
not much to think about.....really.....I mean, is there any mystery here????We would ALL do it, except for two things....society and fear. As we get older we realize that it is only natural......a man's place is on his knees or on his back

let's just DO it!!!

I know this is true for me. I've always had submissive fantasies. I want to be on my knees worshipping a big hard cock , or on my back while a real man fucks me. I know that I've never been able to satisfy a woman with my dick. The Goddess made me to give others pleasure only with my mouth and tongue , or by giving up my ass.
 
I'd be "curious" to see how many of us would feel this way without porn. Porn definitely changed the kinks i was interested in.

I think watching porn has also changed me. My fantasies started as imagining myself as the man in the scene getting my cock sucked by the hot busty slut. I don't know exactly when or why it started happening, but I started looking more and more at the mans big hard cock. And then I started thinking about sucking cock, and then I started picturing myself in the woman's place - on my knees sucking that big cock , or on my hands and knees taking that big hard cock deep in my ass. Maybe because deep down I just knew that was more realistic for me, I think deep down I knew my place was to serve.

I don't know if its because my penis is on the small side , or what, but I just always remember being a little bit submissive. I started just watching regular porn .. then looking at bi porn, and now , I usually get off looking at sissy or cuckold porn - porn where the sissy sucks cock or licks the woman's cum filled pussy, that's what really gets me off now.
 
Im not sure but how many of us experimented with other guys when were just figuring things out. I did since most of us were in the same boat. So maybe it is those urges coming back around again. Not sure but I feel them too.

I was in this boat as well. Good point, as I do recall that I did enjoy it then.
 
I'd be "curious" to see how many of us would feel this way without porn. Porn definitely changed the kinks i was interested in.

Porn definitely adds to the desire, but I had wanted to suck cock before I had ever seen any porn.
 
If you're "straight", sucking a cock is about as dirty as it gets. And I do like dirty.
I definitely agree with this. The taboo/dirty nature has a lot to do with my curiosity.

And yes, as a straight (mostly) guy MM sex is very taboo.
 
I'd be "curious" to see how many of us would feel this way without porn. Porn definitely changed the kinks i was interested in.

Definitely - the availability of all varieties of porn on the internet.

I know I really got curious after coming across gay porn (something I would never have done the "old ways" of renting videos or looking at magazines) online in my mid to late 30s.

Then I started reading stories on the Lit and looking at more varieties of porn (she-males and bi porn). I started seeing out the gay stories on the Lit - especially ones about curious guys having their first experiences. And I started looking for gay or bi porn first.

Now I'm at the point that I want to act out my fantasies.
 
a lady has to be in the mix as far as i'm concerned.

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I'd be "curious" to see how many of us would feel this way without porn. Porn definitely changed the kinks i was interested in.
Not denying porn's effect, but being able to fraternize here with like-minded guys, to organize and give voice to what is swirling around in my head, with appreciative feedback, has liberated me from a lot of inhibitions and prohibitions ..
 
Not denying porn's effect, but being able to fraternize here with like-minded guys, to organize and give voice to what is swirling around in my head, with appreciative feedback, has liberated me from a lot of inhibitions and prohibitions ..

Amen, brother!
 
Definitely - the availability of all varieties of porn on the internet.

I know I really got curious after coming across gay porn (something I would never have done the "old ways" of renting videos or looking at magazines) online in my mid to late 30s.

Then I started reading stories on the Lit and looking at more varieties of porn (she-males and bi porn). I started seeing out the gay stories on the Lit - especially ones about curious guys having their first experiences. And I started looking for gay or bi porn first.

Now I'm at the point that I want to act out my fantasies.

Agreed. The porn took me so far and then the stories sent me over the line (and edge). I think because stories can be go places porn doesn't do very well. For example I feel stories are far better for mmf and shemale fantasies. I haven't seen very much porn of that nature that excites me (especially lacking in mmf). The mmf stories on the otherhand get me every time
 
For me it was as I got old I became less concerned with hang-ups and even less concerned with Labels.
I had a massage by a guy and it was amazing, possibly one of my best orgasms ever. I felt terrible and confused after before deciding, sod it, it felt good and no one was hurt.

Since then I have indulged in a MMF with my wife. Again after I felt confused and questioned myself and decided that I don't really care about labels. We had a great time and it was a great experience. Something that will happen again when the time arises.

I wouldn't get involved with a guy without my wife's involvement but that's more of the trust issue. If I found myself single I would just enjoy and see what happened with whoever I felt comfortable with.
 
Can't explain it either

And sometimes, I'm not remotely interested. But when I am (and I don't know what triggers it), the desire is all consuming. And given I don't have a suck buddy, I go to bi-curious sites and fantasise and masturbate. It's better than nothing.
 
And sometimes, I'm not remotely interested. But when I am (and I don't know what triggers it), the desire is all consuming. And given I don't have a suck buddy, I go to bi-curious sites and fantasise and masturbate. It's better than nothing.

It's what I have too
 
And sometimes, I'm not remotely interested. But when I am (and I don't know what triggers it), the desire is all consuming. And given I don't have a suck buddy, I go to bi-curious sites and fantasise and masturbate. It's better than nothing.

Me too. And once I cum the bi-fantasies go away for a few days. They do return with or without porn; when I start getting horny.
 
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