I think it is that we get over a lot of our hangups and want to have experiences before we die. I still love to fuck women but it is easier (not easy just easier) to find guys at my age which also has a lot to to do with it. I may be 73 but I think I am hornier now then when I was young!Is it a hormonal thing?
Or, what?
Never had a m2m experience, but in my old age I have an increasing urge to suck cock and swallow cum.
Thus far, I'm just at the "curious" stage; given the right circumstances, I'm sure I would suckcumbto my urges!
What makes str8 men bi/curious in their advanced years?
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Why ask why?
Once you have gotten to the point where you accept that this is what you want, I say go for it. I figure it is part "bucket list" and part maturity. Once you accept that life is finite you realise that all the things you were hung up about don't matter.
No that that was said, still looking to actually make it happen.
Once you have gotten to the point where you accept that this is what you want, I say go for it. I figure it is part "bucket list" and part maturity. Once you accept that life is finite you realise that all the things you were hung up about don't matter.
No that that was said, still looking to actually make it happen.
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I can only agree with you all
I'm 67 and five or six years ago, I would've saiid was 110% heterosexual. But then the "I don't want to die wondering..." crept up on me and I thought I'd like to know how it feels to suck a cock. I found a guy locally (he was gay and small) and I sucked him (and he me) and that was that. Except it wasn't. Ever since, I've wanted to find another bigger, thicker cock (I"m not interested in men). I don't know if it'll ever happen again, but the desire is there and this thread is the first one I turn to each day. I'm very happily married by the way and my wife has made it clear she wants nothing to do with it, whereas I would much prefer her to be involved. It's frustrating.
I'm 67 and five or six years ago, I would've saiid was 110% heterosexual. But then the "I don't want to die wondering..." crept up on me and I thought I'd like to know how it feels to suck a cock. I found a guy locally (he was gay and small) and I sucked him (and he me) and that was that. Except it wasn't. Ever since, I've wanted to find another bigger, thicker cock (I"m not interested in men). I don't know if it'll ever happen again, but the desire is there and this thread is the first one I turn to each day. I'm very happily married by the way and my wife has made it clear she wants nothing to do with it, whereas I would much prefer her to be involved. It's frustrating.
foolishness ? A lifetime of it can definitely take its toll, lol.And here I thought it was just me !
Truth be told, though, it has been a latent fascination since adolescence, in denial through my 20s and early years of marriage and fatherhood, but since middle age a realization more and more insistent, recognizing now, - 47 years married, now widowed, with no intention of a second time round - by inclination and determination I am to the far right of the Kinsey scale - 'non-hetero, exclusively'...
Truth be told, though, it has been a latent fascination since adolescence, in denial through my 20s and early years of marriage and fatherhood, but since middle age a realization more and more insistent, recognizing now, - 47 years married, now widowed, with no intention of a second time round - by inclination and determination I am to the far right of the Kinsey scale - 'non-hetero, exclusively'...
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Don't worry,
you'll be virile for a while yet. I'm 67.
you'll be virile for a while yet. I'm 67.
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I have had bisexual tendencies since my late teens. Probably before then if the truth be told. I have had an almost equal number of male and female partners over the years, but I tend to have long term relationships with women. It's only very recently that I have come out to my family and a few very close friends and surprisingly everyone I have talked to about my sexuality already knew.
I think the reason that I fall into the older bisexual category is that my own self confidence has allowed me to be more honest with those around me. Also I believe that after the late eighties and early nineties, it is more acceptable to be in a sexual minority group, or perhaps society has started to move on and be slightly more tolerant of others... to a point.
I think the reason that I fall into the older bisexual category is that my own self confidence has allowed me to be more honest with those around me. Also I believe that after the late eighties and early nineties, it is more acceptable to be in a sexual minority group, or perhaps society has started to move on and be slightly more tolerant of others... to a point.
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Nightjack,
Good for you.
Good for you.
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Evolutionary Reason?
I've wondered about this as well since my curiosity to suck cock has increased as I've aged. Could it be that we older men are driven to suck cock and swallow seed in order to be more genetically competitive? To keep our male counterparts from inseminating females of our species by redirecting their semen into our mouths and stomachs?
Think about it. Our testosterone makes us competitive and instills the desire to dominate other men. Strong, youthful men find a competitor on their knees in front of them and sexually pleasuring them to be in an inferior/submissive position. The man on his knees, while sucking the cock and swallowing cum, is preventing the spread of the other's genetic information.
Could it be as simple as that? We older male cocksuckers surely don't want to bond with the other male, or otherwise give/receive affection, but we DO want to savor and consume his genetic material which would otherwise be impregnating our wives, daughters, or any other female we have the chance to fertilize ourselves.
I've wondered about this as well since my curiosity to suck cock has increased as I've aged. Could it be that we older men are driven to suck cock and swallow seed in order to be more genetically competitive? To keep our male counterparts from inseminating females of our species by redirecting their semen into our mouths and stomachs?
Think about it. Our testosterone makes us competitive and instills the desire to dominate other men. Strong, youthful men find a competitor on their knees in front of them and sexually pleasuring them to be in an inferior/submissive position. The man on his knees, while sucking the cock and swallowing cum, is preventing the spread of the other's genetic information.
Could it be as simple as that? We older male cocksuckers surely don't want to bond with the other male, or otherwise give/receive affection, but we DO want to savor and consume his genetic material which would otherwise be impregnating our wives, daughters, or any other female we have the chance to fertilize ourselves.
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Anything is possible
But I think it's more basic than that. It's a taboo, therefore it's very exciting, therefore, we want to do it more. I think it's just pushing personal boundaries.
But I think it's more basic than that. It's a taboo, therefore it's very exciting, therefore, we want to do it more. I think it's just pushing personal boundaries.
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Been interested for a long time
But only sexually, not in terms of bonding or long-term relationships. And only as I've grown older have I had the time and opportunity to really seek out the kind of sexual fun I enjoy with men. The internet sure has made it easier!
But only sexually, not in terms of bonding or long-term relationships. And only as I've grown older have I had the time and opportunity to really seek out the kind of sexual fun I enjoy with men. The internet sure has made it easier!
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bi curious
I think as we get older, myself 69 our sexual thoughts change I know mine have.After having a very good sex life with my wife for 46 years and having done many things together and with others its nice to change your sexual thoughts, after being a macho man for most of my life I now enjoy being submissive to other guys of my age and find it easier to meet a guy for mutual pleasure.
I think as we get older, myself 69 our sexual thoughts change I know mine have.After having a very good sex life with my wife for 46 years and having done many things together and with others its nice to change your sexual thoughts, after being a macho man for most of my life I now enjoy being submissive to other guys of my age and find it easier to meet a guy for mutual pleasure.
Posted this on another thread .. but figure it never hurts to spread the word !
'So, no, it didn't happen - no waking up to morning wood this morning. But, now shaved, with a bit of coaxing, a bit of kneading in the nether regions, figure we can defy the ED, and get real with what I have got in my head! And, of course, an on-line j/o bud always helps, big time, if anyone has a similar need -- PMs welcome !'
'So, no, it didn't happen - no waking up to morning wood this morning. But, now shaved, with a bit of coaxing, a bit of kneading in the nether regions, figure we can defy the ED, and get real with what I have got in my head! And, of course, an on-line j/o bud always helps, big time, if anyone has a similar need -- PMs welcome !'
Being totally honest, it all comes down to this: I love my cock, have always really loved it. And I've always fantasised about being on the receiving end of it. After all, girls seem to enjoy it a lot. So I was bi-curious for a long time, what would it be like? Had a few fumbly/almost-encounters over the years and then more recently (40s), I decided to finally do it properly. Had about 10 proper M-M meetings. And, frankly ... I'm very disappointed. 
It's weird. In my M-F encounters, I've been happy with whatever way the sex has gone. But for M-M encounters, after all of this fantasy, it's been a bit... well, 'meh'. The cock is usually fine, but the bloke rarely is. For starters, I hate chin stubble, excess body hair generally, poor hygiene, and pushiness. All of these are far more often to be found with guys (in my limited experience). I can see how some people might get a fetish for them, but 'blokiness' is not for me.
Ideally, in my fantasy, I find a very smooth, clean, attentive and sensitive guy to play with over a l-o-n-ggggg afternoon. Someone more like me, you could say. So maybe I'm a narcissist instead of being bi?
It's weird. In my M-F encounters, I've been happy with whatever way the sex has gone. But for M-M encounters, after all of this fantasy, it's been a bit... well, 'meh'. The cock is usually fine, but the bloke rarely is. For starters, I hate chin stubble, excess body hair generally, poor hygiene, and pushiness. All of these are far more often to be found with guys (in my limited experience). I can see how some people might get a fetish for them, but 'blokiness' is not for me.
Ideally, in my fantasy, I find a very smooth, clean, attentive and sensitive guy to play with over a l-o-n-ggggg afternoon. Someone more like me, you could say. So maybe I'm a narcissist instead of being bi?
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This is a most interesting thread... Clearly there are a few shared reasons... not enough pussy, the taboo of it, latent tendencies or desires, and of course the internet has made things easier to connect with.
Fear of Failing??
Due to medication, along with age, it's more difficult to get, and keep an erection. I have always been a pleaser, and it's much easier to find a guy who wants sex, than a female who wants sex....without a commitment. Although I've have no sex in a long time, I think it would be easier to find a willing guy than a willing women close to my age. I simply like giving, and getting noncommittal pleasure.
Due to medication, along with age, it's more difficult to get, and keep an erection. I have always been a pleaser, and it's much easier to find a guy who wants sex, than a female who wants sex....without a commitment. Although I've have no sex in a long time, I think it would be easier to find a willing guy than a willing women close to my age. I simply like giving, and getting noncommittal pleasure.
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my sentiments exactly
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The interest has been there from the very beginning and I suppressed those feelings for many years. Internet porn made gay porn too accessible to resist and my addiction to it made it impossible to continue to deny to myself that I am attracted to hard cock. I'm one of those guys who is not into guys in any way other than their hard cock. I have no interest in kissing cuddling or anal.
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Me too
I know what being sucked is like, thanks to my wife. But a big, thick cock in my mouth would be incredible. I think.
I know what being sucked is like, thanks to my wife. But a big, thick cock in my mouth would be incredible. I think.
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That's right.
If you're "straight", sucking a cock is about as dirty as it gets. And I do like dirty.
If you're "straight", sucking a cock is about as dirty as it gets. And I do like dirty.
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I'd be "curious" to see how many of us would feel this way without porn. Porn definitely changed the kinks i was interested in.
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