What I've learned in GLBT Chatter forum

[tristantrotsky]

A Big Hand For Everyone...

What I've learned...
We are not alone.
No matter what our tastes or desires, there are others out there who share those tastes and desires.
Not to feel isolated. Not to feel alone. Not to feel shame.
These are valuable lessons.
I'm grateful to the 'Literotica Forum' for that...

 

[sultrysandy]

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And here they go again



Married Women Who Fantasize About Girls thread (pages 143 - 144) was taken by guys two years ago, women stopped participating, then after four guys post during three says the thread died.



An hour ago, another guy posted what he wants reviving the thread

I LOVE everything about this thread. One of you girls need to talk to me wife

It is no wonder threads for lesbians and bisexual women not only fall or are removed, but also women leave the forum, and Lit
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[Escierto]

I am an old white man and I am absolutely sick of old men, white men and men in general. Fucking assholes all of them. If I could press a button and eliminate every one of them (including myself of course), I would press it immediately. Good riddance

 

[sultrysandy]

I am an old white man and I am absolutely sick of old men, white men and men in general. Fucking assholes all of them. If I could press a button and eliminate every one of them (including myself of course), I would press it immediately. Good riddance

Observing guys hijacking these threads during the past three years, it's not any age group, race, sexuality (hetero, bi, or gay), or favorite fetishes, they're all over the board, having no regard for others and care only about their own interests.



However, few months after joining was the first time I was hijacked, and guys came out of nowhere, some I knew, but many I hadn't even seen their names, supporting me during the onslaught.


Guys still occasionally post or send a PM expressing their appreciation for the threads.

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[Fingerfuxs]

What we have learned so far in the LGBT -Q threads ( our nickname is the rainbow threads )

1. Not much , other then it's a mystery why they are called GLBT ?

2. Starting threads that get some attention and partiapation staying in the spirt of the rainbow section of the site is difficult.

Team FF


P.S. Good morning Ms. Sandy , we hope you have geeky Monday

 

[sultrysandy]

1. Not much , other then it's a mystery why they are called GLBT ?

LGBT, or GLBT, is an initialism that stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender. In use since the 1990s, the term is an adaptation of the initialism LGB, which was used to replace the term gay in reference to the LGBT community beginning in the mid-to-late 1980s.[4] Activists believed that the term gay community did not accurately represent all those to whom it referred.
source https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT

2. Starting threads that get some attention and partiapation staying in the spirt of the rainbow section of the site is difficult.

This forum has been predominately male from the beginning.


There is a difference between:

A thread for lesbian and bi-sexual woman active by them. And it is common when women post they are then inundated with PM's from guys., so they stop porting.

Versus guys (hetero, bi, or gay) taking over or hijacking a thread so it's guys posting hitting on the women (hint fucking hint smoothshavendad), girl-on-girl porn they want, or about their interest and how it affects them.

P.S. Good morning Ms. Sandy , we hope you have geeky Monday

With glasses in hand and Macbook ready, I'm preparing to begin kicking ass


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[Escierto]

There should be a forum where men are banned and they can’t even enter or even see that it exists.

 

[sultrysandy]

There should be a forum where men are banned and they can’t even enter or even see that it exists.

First time I was hijacked, asked chargergirl if there's a way to systematically not allow guys posting, and she told me no. Plus there's Laurel's stance on Freedom of Speech.


I've also suggested to Laurel and Fetmod to remove "L" from the forum name, changing it to GBT Chatter as lesbians, along with bisexual women, have all been nearly driven out by guys.









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[sultrysandy]

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Okay everyone,

See if you can guess who this guy reminds me of



Couple hours ago in Women who like masturbating with other women version 2 thread In GLBT Chatter forum, not only recognized this user's name as the last poster, but it's a guy. (now you know this is isn't going to sit well with me)



https://i.imgur.com/YXESrqu.png



Oh but wait! Did you notice his Lit username and also on kik?


I first noticed Loveitdady a week ago in How To... forum, SandraJones' thread, How Do You Manage Unsolicited PMs?

Hope you read this and add me..

Jim

Looked at his profile, he's been a member less than three months and has started fifteen new threads. Some there are no women posting (now there's a real shocker) and he just keeps bumping.



Okay, what other guy is he reminding me of?



Smoothshavendad!






OOO! Just looked at one of my troll-bots, and PG564E was posting again last evening. If you don't remember him, he went in one of my threads, quoted another troll wanting to give him a blowjob, PLUS wanted the lesbians and bisexual women to watch.


What great way to begin my weekend
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[Escierto]

First time I was hijacked, asked chargergirl if there's a way to systematically not allow guys posting, and she told me no. Plus there's Laurel's stance on Freedom of Speech.


I've also suggested to Laurel and Fetmod to remove "L" from the forum name, changing it to GBT Chatter as lesbians, along with bisexual women, have all been nearly driven out by guys.









https://i.imgur.com/b6ukRAb.png

Freedom of speech is all well and good but what if the speech is being used to drown out other speech or deprive people of their freedom of speech.

There is a forum called The L Word forum that is restricted to lesbians. Of course anyone can join but they better not find out that you are not a lesbian!!!

 

[sultrysandy]

Freedom of speech is all well and good but what if the speech is being used to drown out other speech or deprive people of their freedom of speech.

There is a forum called The L Word forum that is restricted to lesbians. Of course anyone can join but they better not find out that you are not a lesbian!!!

Not clear if your saying or implying that I'm depriving people of their freedom of speech. People are free to say and post whatever they want. However, IMHO, at Literotica, also that of the forums, and threads, follow their respective rules/guidelines, and respect others. A common problem in female threads in GLBT chatter is guys post off-topic, having no regard for others but only care what they want.

I belive people are responsible for what they do, and hold them accountable. I also stand up for and defend lesbians, bisexual women, and our threads, when guys make inappropriate remarks or posts.


Sorry, but I'm not aware of, nor can I find, the The L Word forum you pointed out. Would you happen to have the URL?
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[Escierto]

Not clear if your saying or implying that I'm depriving people of their freedom of speech. People are free to say and post whatever they want. However, IMHO, at Literotica, also that of the forums, and threads, follow their respective rules/guidelines, and respect others. A common problem in female threads in GLBT chatter is guys post off-topic, having no regard for others but only care what they want.

I belive people are responsible for what they do, and hold them accountable. I also stand up for and defend lesbians, bisexual women, and our threads, when guys make inappropriate remarks or posts.


Sorry, but I'm not aware of, nor can I find, the The L Word forum you pointed out. Would you happen to have the URL?
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No. I was not saying that you are depriving people of free speech. What I was trying to say (and failing) was that these guys who hijack threads are depriving people of free speech. They create an environment where women do not feel comfortable expressing themselves.

 

[Escierto]

It started as a forum about the show, The L Word, but it has many different topics that people post on. It used to be quite active but I am not sure now.

https://thelword.aforumfree.com/

 

[sultrysandy]

No. I was not saying that you are depriving people of free speech. What I was trying to say (and failing) was that these guys who hijack threads are depriving people of free speech. They create an environment where women do not feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Appreciate you clarifying.


Will take you a step further. Have you noticed, or does it at least seem, progressively fewer women post? Begins when creating an account being flooded with PM's from guys. Then when they post seems to hanging sign "Any and all guys, send me a PM containing whatever you want".

Assume you get an idea given by some guys: user names, avatar, profile pics, and what's in their signature. Seriously, I see more porn in those than I do in videos.
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[Escierto]

Appreciate you clarifying.


Will take you a step further. Have you noticed, or does it at least seem, progressively fewer women post? Begins when creating an account being flooded with PM's from guys. Then when they post seems to hanging sign "Any and all guys, send me a PM containing whatever you want".

Assume you get an idea given by some guys: user names, avatar, profile pics, and what's in their signature. Seriously, I see more porn in those than I do in videos.
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Yes, you are right. I would say this entire forum is not woman friendly at all. It’s like locker room full of guys.

 

[Escierto]

Another lesbian forum:

https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/l_anon/?sid=39210617b6cbedc7a0368e4d6353e6f8

 

[sultrysandy]

Yes, you are right. I would say this entire forum is not woman friendly at all. It’s like locker room full of guys.

Saw this in SandraJones' How Do You Manage Unsolicited PMs? thread a week ago.

... female name is like throwing chum into pervshark infested waters...

Now there's a mental image, a lesbian couple kissing in a guys locker room.


And then there's the girl's locker room

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c6/75/6e/c6756eb8850e7aae16028f46f2399fee.jpg

(wanted to lighten things up a bit)
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[sultrysandy]

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Despite preparing to close Female Asses and Legs for Lesbians and Bisexual Women - #XLVII and launch #XLVIII tomorrow morning, wanted to do a post of guys beginning to again post in threads for women in GLBT.


However, another guy trolled one of my threads. And being the bitch I am, not allowing him to get away posting whatever he wants, and I posted in a few threads he's participated.

Hey Marty Fisher!


You joined the ranks of the more than seven dozen scum to troll my threads, having no regard for others, and caring only about yourself. Despite being explicitly posted, you decided to post what you wanted.

https://i.imgur.com/Ao2UG9x.png

This forum is GLBT Chatter, not guys posting whatever sexually explicit girl-on-girl porn made for guys they want. That is considered hetero.
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Guys, do not post Sexually Explicit Images, displayed or as links
This has recently become quite a problem. Guys think because this thread is Lesbians that they can post whatever girl-on-girl sexually explicit porn for guys they want. That is made for the y-chromosome, not females.

Buckle up Buttercup and enjoy the ride
You just Flipped my Bitch Switch

https://i.imgur.com/42REKAl.jpg



One more thing, considering posting rules haven’t been enforced, and guys been getting away posting genitals, sexually explicit, and copyrighted photos. However your posts have been removed by chargergirl and Laurel. Go ahead and ask your friends what that means.

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Needless to say, some guys have had a few thoughts and words for me. Want to share three of them.

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[sultrysandy]

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This is from GLBT Chatter > Linked Bi-sexual Pics 3.0 - page 174

And her childish behavior is somehow justified because "Marty" started it. Too much of my valuable time has been wasted already.... "click." (That's the sound of you, and her being "ignored.")

Oh no. Marty did not start this.

It began when guys hijacked the first thread I participated, three days later launching my first thread, they also hijacked that. Which was then followed by dozens of trolls, many pedophiles, and countless guys making hetero posts. Mind you all of this has been occurring in GLBT Chatter, "non-straight sexuality". After two years of smoothdhavendad hitting on woman posting in lesbian threads in the forum, leading hoards of guys to hijack nearly two dozen threads until they were eventually removed, and dumpington hijacking five threads and flooding them with girl-on-girl porn all with strap-ons.

However the straw that broke the camel's back is when PG564E trolled my thread posting to give another troll a blowjob and wanting the lesbians to watch. And despite the thread's posting guideline, some guys having no regard for others and only caring about themselves, post girl-on-girl porn made for guys and making other hetero posts.


Do want to say, these are the minority of guys, by far the majority are good guys. Was so apparent first time I was hijacked and guys came out of nowhere supporting me, and four years there are many guys that are great respecting women in GLBT and been good to me.


And let me know if you want members to support what I've said. Also have the Mod chargergirl that's been a blessing helping.
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[sultrysandy]

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the first from Fetish & Sexuality Central > Pegging - page 102

I was one of the guys who defended her when she first started, but pretty much since day one she has often over reacted to certain posts and also due to the enormous volume she posts in those threads nobody ever sees the offending posts except her. Typical in the main thread she has is multiple pages per day with 5 pics per post. We chatted a fair bit for a couple of years but this is the internet, live and let live.

And I still appreciate how much you've been there for me, since first time I was hijacked and first troll Rick_Rude.


However do respectfully disagree with you. How guys have been able to successfully hijack the more than three dozen lesbian threads is not that guys begin posting, but what they're posting. It's off-topic and what they guys want. More guys begin piling in the thread, driving women out. Then the guys get so bad that mods remove the thread.

Don't know if you saw smoothdhavendad going in nearly two dozen threads hitting on each woman as they post, other guys see this and hijack the threads, and the threads were eventaully removed. Guys don't care, merely another conquest.

For example, bunny4med created Women Kissing Women in GLBT Chatter January 2019. Eighteen months later page 21 guys began posting in it. They continued for thee weeks, then aldente491 posted #508 a lesbian daisy chain (nothing to do with kissing but what he wanted), guys took over the thread and it was moved to Fet as it become no longer a lesbian thread, but rather guys posting girl-on-girl porn made for guys.



If I do not address posts made by trolls, pedophiles and guys making hetero off-topic posts, same as children it's human behavior to belive it's acceptable and will continue. Want to again say, the by far the majority of guys at Lit respect women, and it's a minute fraction that hide behind their anonymity, having no regards for others and only caring about themselves.
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[sultrysandy]

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and the second from Fetish & Sexuality Central > Pegging - page 102

... but this is the internet, live and let live.

Not trying to come across as a bitch. Yes I know, “Too fucking late saying that"


What do you think guys should be allowed to post in threads for lesbians and bisexual women in CLBT Chatter?

• trolls - posting things that are disgusting, repulsive, revolting (won't even give examples)
  
  
• Child pornography. Underage girls (one or both being minors are extremely popular with guys). Have seen so much of both posted no longer shocks me
  
  
• guys giving blowjobs to other guys? Yep, PG564E posted wanting to give a troll a blowjob. Plus all the lesbians to watch.
  
  
• all sorts of FFM threesomes? Ssexual intercourse with visible penis also two women licking a penis are common. As long as there are two women in the pic guys post it.
  
  
• girl-on-girl porn - women behaving as sluts for guys entertainment
  
  
• those are above and beyond guys posting hetero comments about themselves (masturbating, erection, orgasm, ejaculating et cetera) or about the women. Also guys post their fantasies, fiction, and their experiences with two women.
  
  
• can't forget guys posting "you haven't been with a real man", or "I can convert you". Along with describing ass slapping, hair pulling, choking, and facials. Also "you'll be begging for more"

Above have commonly been posted by guys in my threads. And albertaboy knows these are only a few examples.



How about take a step back from my threads, now look at threads for lesbians and bi-sexual women that are remaining in GLBT Chatter.

Hardly any remaining, and those that exist are barely active

All because smoothshavendad for two years leading hoards of guys hijacking threads annihilating threads for women in the forum.

Also guys posting with their obsession girl-on-girl porn of two women with a strap-on.

All because those guys were allowed to post anything they wanted . That is until they go too far then the threads removed.



Mind you, guys are doing that in threads for lesbians and b-sexual women in GLBT Chatter, "Discussion of non-straight sexuality and life. Find support and friends."


Please tell me what have I been doing wrong defending and protecting not only my threads, but especially the women that post in them?
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I'm interested in thoughts, opinions, suggestions, et cetera you want to share
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[Escierto]

Maybe it’s just me but if I see a thread is directed to lesbians, I don’t even look at it. What’s so difficult about that?

 

[Iris_66]

I agree

I can't understand why (other) guys feel the need to post pff topic in these threads. It's not like it's hard to start a thread along the lines of what they want is it?

That way everyone has what they want

Flip side - As a male, who kinda identifies as lesbian, I don't gel with traditional sissy threads, and so the lesbian ones are where I tend to go. Not wanting to overstep, and cause upset, I've tended not to post, just look